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By *umfinfun OP   Man
over a year ago

sussex/ Kent border

Hi, I'm hoping someone might help me with my profile. I've been a member for a while and have had a few fun meets however although I seem to attract a reasonable numbers of views there appears to be something stopping people wanting to get in touch. I dont think the text comes across as either needy or arrogant and hopefully my pics arent too bad. I realise the need to ideally have a face pic but because even without one I've been recognised by a friend of my ex wife and one of my daughters best mates I'm a reluctant to display one. I always send one when I message though.

Any help would be much appreciated.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I would say maybe cut a couple of the cock pics and add some other type pic if you can.

Also sell yourself ,what are you offering to meets

Socials are a good way to meet people on the scene and get known too.

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By *umfinfun OP   Man
over a year ago

sussex/ Kent border

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By *umfinfun OP   Man
over a year ago

sussex/ Kent border

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say lose the dick pics, or make them private, then you can send them in a message if anyone asks for them.

You don't have to show your face publicly, but you could do a clothed full body shot or even a tasteful torso photo, at the moment I'd say your images are off putting.

And get yourself to a club, it's a great way to meet people.

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By *umfinfun OP   Man
over a year ago

sussex/ Kent border

Thanks

I get the sell yourself thing but didnt want to come over as full of my self. Have you any suggestions as to what other types of pictures I could take......Im beginning to realise I'm clearly not very good at this!

Sorry about the 2 deleted posts....spelling like a 5 year old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, your bio is sparse, tell us more about you as a person, specifically what kind of people you're looking to meet and what it is that you bring to the table that the thousands of other single men don't.

Make yourself stand out. Read back over your profile and think whether you'd like to meet you based on your profile.

Also set some age filters. Unless you really want sex with a 99nyear old. It always reads as though you're just looking for sex with anyone that comes along.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

You can have a face pic, just keep it private and send to people you want to meet. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks

I get the sell yourself thing but didnt want to come over as full of my self. Have you any suggestions as to what other types of pictures I could take......Im beginning to realise I'm clearly not very good at this!

Sorry about the 2 deleted posts....spelling like a 5 year old!"

As I suggested, maybe a clothed body photo in a nice shirt and trousers, or shirtless and trousers.

Take a look at the profiles of men who get a lot of meets here and see what it is that they're doing that's working well.

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By *umfinfun OP   Man
over a year ago

sussex/ Kent border

Thank you....its all beginning to make sense now, I'm clearly going to have to put some work in to put it right!

I'm actually very keen to go to a club but being slightly on the shy side I'm a little nervous as to how a single man is recieved. I think my first move will be to attend a social as I think I'd feel more comfortable.

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By *umfinfun OP   Man
over a year ago

sussex/ Kent border


"I'd say lose the dick pics, or make them private, then you can send them in a message if anyone asks for them.

You don't have to show your face publicly, but you could do a clothed full body shot or even a tasteful torso photo, at the moment I'd say your images are off putting.

And get yourself to a club, it's a great way to meet people."

Well I've taken your advice , dick pics gone , new pictures to be added in the next few days and a little profile rewrite...I'd appreciate a review if you wouldnt mind, I'd like to know if it's getting there.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d suggest some ideas but you’ve blocked all men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say lose the dick pics, or make them private, then you can send them in a message if anyone asks for them.

You don't have to show your face publicly, but you could do a clothed full body shot or even a tasteful torso photo, at the moment I'd say your images are off putting.

And get yourself to a club, it's a great way to meet people.

Well I've taken your advice , dick pics gone , new pictures to be added in the next few days and a little profile rewrite...I'd appreciate a review if you wouldnt mind, I'd like to know if it's getting there."

It's looking better. I'd just take a read over it for spelling and grammar. It sounds picky, but a lot of people form opinions based on the quality of your bio.

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