FabSwingers.com forum: Bi or bi-curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not sure how to list myself in our profile, me and my partner couldn't agree. He said it should be Bi because I know I am definitely sexually attracted to women but I feel that gives the impression I'm experienced and know that I'm Bi because of my experience where as Bi-curious explains that I'm attracted to women and wanting to engage in early experiences.

What do you think? How should I list myself.

I am actually more physically attracted to more women than men but have not really acted on it.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Maybe bi curious for the time being or you could put bi, but mention you have little experience in your write up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my humble opinion, you’re bisexual if you know you’re attracted to women. I’d just note in your profile that you’re not super experienced (or tell people when you start chatting)

I tend to read bi-curious as you want to be with a women to know if it turns you on. I’m generally not keen to be someone’s experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a follow up, you’re not only straight if you’ve had sex with a person of the opposite gender.

So why would it be any different for bisexuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m inexperienced but know I’m bisexual for want of a more accurate description. I’m not curious about it anymore for sure.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I changed mine from curious to bi after my first experience.

I thought that if I'd done it, and I liked it, then I was probably bi.

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By *iercedlotsCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Bi definitely. If you are sexually attracted to women, you don't have to be experienced. If you are unsure, meet me in Chams tomorrow night lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious is a hetrosexual person interested in sexual activity with the opposite sex.

Bi sexual is a person attracted to both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe bi curious for the time being or you could put bi, but mention you have little experience in your write up."

This

but I'd maybe go with curious untill you've tried being with a woman, just in case you decide it's not for you after you actually do it.

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Not sure how to list myself in our profile, me and my partner couldn't agree. He said it should be Bi because I know I am definitely sexually attracted to women but I feel that gives the impression I'm experienced and know that I'm Bi because of my experience where as Bi-curious explains that I'm attracted to women and wanting to engage in early experiences.

What do you think? How should I list myself.

I am actually more physically attracted to more women than men but have not really acted on it.

I am exactly the same as you, I would say bisexual though as you know you are attracted to women without having to try it first!

Ruby X

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"In my humble opinion, you’re bisexual if you know you’re attracted to women. I’d just note in your profile that you’re not super experienced (or tell people when you start chatting)

I tend to read bi-curious as you want to be with a women to know if it turns you on. I’m generally not keen to be someone’s experiment.

I’d agree with that, it might not always be how it’s intended but it’s definitely how it seems. That or when it’s a couple, like her partner might be pressuring her into it which always worries me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when looking at a couple's profile and one says bi and the other straight you should be able to distinguish which one is bi. The girl or the guy. Some do make it obvious but not all. Is it just me?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Bi curious sounds good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys, seems to be a split response with good reasons for both. Will definitely be one or the other not like so many profiles I see that say straight then it reads that they are looking for bi experiences... That is confusing. Maybe like you say it is a case of she is straight but being pressured to put on a performance by her partner.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Go with curious to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah deffo bi curious you should start at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs has played with with women but doesn't consider herself bisexual. She says she would never date a woman and wouldnt sleep with a woman outside of our sexual fun. So we arnt sure if there is a name for that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mrs has played with with women but doesn't consider herself bisexual. She says she would never date a woman and wouldnt sleep with a woman outside of our sexual fun. So we arnt sure if there is a name for that! "

Surely that's just going through the motions, doesn't sound very exciting for either of the females. If I'm with a women I want her to be lusting for me and I her. Guess it's easier to find the extra women if not though as you don't have to have a mutual attraction so any women will do

that doesn't sound very sexy though so myself I would skip any profile that the female was listed as straight. Interesting response though so thanks, I was thinking it must be a mistake that they selected straight or she had just decided that in fact she wasn't straight at all but not changed her profile yet. Clearly not a straight forward question/answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP, here’s my tuppence worth- for what it’s worth

If you are yet to have your first sexual experience with a woman I would say you are still at the Bi curious stage. You could try it and decide it’s not for you.

Bisexual to me means you are equally attracted to both males and females and have sexual experience with both.

We have met couples where it’s disappointingly obvious the female is just going through the motions to please her partner but she describes herself as bisexual.

Hope it’s all that you want it to be. Have fun finding out!

V x

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

What do you think? How should I list myself.

I am actually more physically attracted to more women than men but have not really acted on it.

That's exactly where I am.. Was...

I'm still bi curious on here.. Same reasons.. I k ow I'm attracted to women as well as men... I have had a few amazi g experiences.. But not many.. So I don't feel quite right saying I'm fully bi until I feel I k ow what I'm doing a little more Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha believe me i barely get a look in when shes with another woman - pure passion. Its just how she sees it

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

What do you think? How should I list myself.

I am actually more physically attracted to more women than men but have not really acted on it.

That's exactly where I am.. Was...

Can definitely relate to this. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it means sometimes we fancy males, sometimes females, sometimes everyone in between. It’s never a solid yum or a solid yuk. Might be more greedy that bi hehe!

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By *orny1970Man
over a year ago

Northwest Greater Manchester and lancashire

BI Curious in my opinion but I think it really doesn’t matter that much

Bi curious and Bisexual to a degree is one of the same the only difference is your lack of experience

In time you will probably put bisexual

I have very little experience and still pushing that side of my sexuality

Only you can decide what you want to be

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

Personally you sound as though you are pretty secure with your sexuality. Yes you may be in experienced sexually but that comes with time. It is totally up to you what you put but it sounds like to me that you know you are attracted to both sexs. If you ever want to talk message me, Chelle x

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Bi curious is a hetrosexual person interested in sexual activity with the opposite sex.

Bi sexual is a person attracted to both sexes.

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I think this is a good way of looking at.

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Pick the term that you feel most comfortable with. If you feel like changing in the future whether if Bi curious/bi isn't getting you the type of attention you wanted or if you yourself change from experience I think that option is available.

If I had to guess, if you pick bi curious you might get more attention from similar women who also want to get a bit more beginner or exploratory experience. Whether single or in a couple. If you list yourself is bi you might get some more attention from people who are more sure of their identity. Elsewhere that probably wouldn't do that much since the other person if they're decent will be more accommodating to your experience and go with your flow. But seeing as how this is fab they might have a perception that you are more active and sure of what you want and mean you get more intense propositions from people.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi curious and Bi sexual are not the same thing and two of a kind.

However yoy dress it up the fact is

Bi curious is sexually experimenting with the same sex.

Bi sexual is having a romantic interest in both sexes.

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