FabSwingers.com forum: Dick Pics in Profile

By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

Good evening Ladies (and Gentlemen) - I'm seeking your advice.

How do you feel when you see that a guy has one or more dick pics in his profile?

Would you advise having dick pics in the profile, or not? I've added one, but I'm not sure if it's helpful or not.

Many of my fem friends are somewhat anti-penis, but that is in real life. They like it to be there, but they don't necessarily want to see it - if that makes sense.

On a site for swingers though, maybe it's different, or maybe it's not.

I'm just looking for some feedback which will result in me seeing some sort of general preference and making a decision based upon it.

Thanks for your time!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.

Some like them, others don't.

It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

Oh, also, how do you change the order of pics on here?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.

Some like them, others don't.

It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.

Ok, thanks. Personally, what do you think? Is it a good move or a bad move? Or neutral?

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Personally..... I don't mind them. I do like a variety though. I prefer to be teased with pictures....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things are better left hidden..

Who wants to see your cock, they'll ask for it.

No need to show it publicly. Unless of course you're very proud of it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.

Some like them, others don't.

It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.

Ok, thanks. Personally, what do you think? Is it a good move or a bad move? Or neutral?"

I used to have several on display but then I have an immensely attractive penis.

As a couple we preferred to be able to see 'the goods' as on occasion had been promised a few more inches than were delivered.

When you order a 12" pizza you expect a 12" pizza. Not one of those mini ones you get at finger buffets.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

So far, 1 for, 1 neutral, 1 against...

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We like to see what we're getting. As other posters have said, good to see what you are getting as it is part of the overall play thing and we do like a good pretty cock rather than, as it was so eloquently put, cocks having lost a fight to a badger

are not our bag

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Big no from me - I don’t usually reply to men with dick pics in profile tbh. The only thing worse imo is photos of women on a single male’s profile ... like a whole body of a precious meet and three inches of the bloke’s cock

Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

Score is 2-1-2!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Big no from me - I don’t usually reply to men with dick pics in profile tbh. The only thing worse imo is photos of women on a single male’s profile ... like a whole body of a precious meet and three inches of the bloke’s cock

Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!"

Playing devils advocate...why are tit, arse or fajina pics any different to cock pics? They're all body parts you may encounter on a meet.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!

Playing devils advocate...why are tit, arse or fajina pics any different to cock pics? They're all body parts you may encounter on a meet.

I don't know, but I'd like to thank her for her honest reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who used to organise 'date nights' for a previous swinging, and live in partner then its a no!

We had the swinging as a couple seperately but on a date night she liked the mystery and surprise. So my first filter was no dick pics, fit guy in undies cool but a sense of humour, own place, meet her or both of us socially first went straight to the top.

So many single guys approaching couples miss out that it is a couple they are talking to.

Hope that helped

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

"As someone who used to organise 'date nights' for a previous swinging, and live in partner then its a no!

So many single guys approaching couples miss out that it is a couple they are talking to.

Hope that helped "

Cool cool, 2-1-3...

I'm not really into couples, but it's good to know anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure you read it correctly. I was organising date nights for her and the random single guy not a 3some

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By *hongguyMan
over a year ago

heckmondwike

its like tits theres 1000s of them on here

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Against x

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

2-1-4...

I'm removing my dick pic.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I want to feel that I've got a good sense of whether a guy is attractive to me, when I view his pics. Too many dick pics at the expense of others makes it harder. A couple of them is fine, if you are showing your body, your physique etc, that lets me fancy you or know you are not my type.

In general, don't overdo anything, just keep it fairly simple. Avoid pics of you having sex with others too.

Stature, legs, chest, back, bum are all great. Face, head too, if ready, including a smile. Some people really want to see a dick, so if you have several physique shots, you'll probably not deter anyone if you have 1 dick pic.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"2-1-4...

I'm removing my dick pic."

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By *earsHoneyCouple
over a year ago

warrington

If I’m choosing someone I want to fuck, yes I’d like to see the goods ??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good full torso pic with erect cock, please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do what you want because you'll never please everyone.

Some like them, others don't.

It helps if it's an attractive knob rather than something that looks like it lost a fight with a badger of course.

Ok, thanks. Personally, what do you think? Is it a good move or a bad move? Or neutral?

I used to have several on display but then I have an immensely attractive penis.

As a couple we preferred to be able to see 'the goods' as on occasion had been promised a few more inches than were delivered.

When you order a 12" pizza you expect a 12" pizza. Not one of those mini ones you get at finger buffets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your post your profile.

Personally never send with first message.

Keep for friends only

Suggestive pics show imagination rather than in your face.. Most of us women by now know what they look like... Minus a few variation of size n shape but we get the jist..

So my preference.. Nar

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

4yes-2neutral-5no.

Up to now, slight preference for no dick pic.

Interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No two people are the same so you'll never please everyone. Though from experience it often seems that single woman are more against cock pics than couples. Might be because it's usually the hubby running the couple's profile and they like to see the wife with a bigger cock (and like to see proof before arranging a meet - true in our case, anyway

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Also when men have absolutely not photos on their profile but message you and attach a dick pic..... why please tell me why!

Playing devils advocate...why are tit, arse or fajina pics any different to cock pics? They're all body parts you may encounter on a meet.

Absolutely! And I don’t post anything more intimate than boobs.....and I can get them out on a beach. I think it’s definitely about personal preference I prefer tease to all our sleaze on a profile.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

4-2-6

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Me personally love seeing one or two decent dick pics on profiles but not 8 dick pics and nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy seeing a cock as a profile pic. I find it a little too full on...

I even ask on my profile.. Don't message me if this is the case. Sadly this is often ignored so I just delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't enjoy seeing a cock as a profile pic. I find it a little too full on...

I even ask on my profile.. Don't message me if this is the case. Sadly this is often ignored so I just delete. "

But cocks in 'friends only' is fine!! It's just as a profile pic I don't like...

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By *ob longMan
over a year ago

Swansea

One year and still no meets. So dick picks are a no no

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I as a woman personally love looking at the dick pics. I like to know what i will be getting. Although I've had a few meets where the pants have come down and I've thought that doesn't look as big as in the picture lol x

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Niki loves a cock, but only when she's developed a connection with the man it's attached to - pictures of them totally put her off.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Niki loves a cock, but only when she's developed a connection with the man it's attached to - pictures of them totally put her off."

My fem-friends are like this...

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

6-2-7.

Small anti-penis profile majority.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Its a no from me. I just delete.

Stand out from the crowd and be different.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lighting is crucial to the composition of good dick pic profile

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I think full body nudes are preferred to just a close up of a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good evening Ladies (and Gentlemen) - I'm seeking your advice.

How do you feel when you see that a guy has one or more dick pics in his profile?

Would you advise having dick pics in the profile, or not? I've added one, but I'm not sure if it's helpful or not.

Many of my fem friends are somewhat anti-penis, but that is in real life. They like it to be there, but they don't necessarily want to see it - if that makes sense.

On a site for swingers though, maybe it's different, or maybe it's not.

I'm just looking for some feedback which will result in me seeing some sort of general preference and making a decision based upon it.

Thanks for your time!

I would agree that opinion can be mixed so just do what makes you happy. But for me personally, dick photos, even one would put me off.

I know you have a penis, I don't need to see it unless we're going to be having sex.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

6-2-10

Ok, we're starting to understand.

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By *ewby12345321Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hampshire hot wife ya pics look amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good full torso pic with erect cock, please."

This

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Hampshire hot wife ya pics look amazing"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 1 public one, the rest are hidden, but are for if anyone requests them -it has happened...

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I'd rather not see it.

I make the assumption that you have one and that it functions.

If someone had an arty photo of it, I'd be OK with it but in reality dick pics are only ever going to put me off or make me feel indifferent, they won't draw me in.

And if someone has loads of photos that's just a big no.

However this can change if I've become acquainted with the owner of it and made a connection with them.

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