FabSwingers.com forum: Couple asking to record and take pics

By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You could ask for a copy of the footage.

In any case, you're all well covered by the law. Any sharing of the material without consent is an imprisonable offence.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

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When a guy displays pictures involving others.. 'consent' is always questioned.

When ladies or couples do I can't think its brought up.

Unfair, maybe.. ..did you set the boundaries before the meet, did you stop the meet when your request wasn't allowed

We can "all" say no at any time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "

We're the same. We will happily record of take stills with our camera but we won't allow anyone else to film or photograph us. We explain this and respect anybody who refuses.

It isn't fair but it's how we do it.

I'd say that they if they didn't explain that to you they should have

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "

This is the way we do things, we've been stung before with unsolicited footage of us appearing online.

It's a case of each to their own, rather than fairness - if you're not happy with the arrangement, they're not the couple for you.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course it's fair,you both asked,one party, you,accepted,the other declined.

Nobody was forced to do anything they didn't want to do.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No, but we do understand. When Garry takes pictures or video of me with a partner he will make sure only my face is shown.

If he takes photos or videos for the other man ( with their phone) he will show the man's face but not mine.

We think this is a fair compromise

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By *averockrock OP Man
over a year ago

swindon

This sounds fair...just don’t get it why they could record me and I could not have a copy or take my own record...that’s all! It sounded a bit suspicious to me so I declined to meet up! I guess each of their own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fair, but it's their choice.

I've been asked similar things before too. Some people even just outright asked me to do porn lol.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "

Yes they asked you replied you asked they replied! Sorted

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"You could ask for a copy of the footage.

In any case, you're all well covered by the law. Any sharing of the material without consent is an imprisonable offence."

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?

We're the same. We will happily record of take stills with our camera but we won't allow anyone else to film or photograph us. We explain this and respect anybody who refuses.

It isn't fair but it's how we do it.

I'd say that they if they didn't explain that to you they should have"

It is fair it’s how you want it and state so!

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"This sounds fair...just don’t get it why they could record me and I could not have a copy or take my own record...that’s all! It sounded a bit suspicious to me so I declined to meet up! I guess each of their own?

You dodged that one!

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "

You both asked and both had the right to choose.

But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?

You both asked and both had the right to choose.

But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars. "

Your first line of reply is juxtaposed with your second!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "

Yes

(Not gonna explain the gendered and patriarchal nature of slut shaming cos if you had to ask you won't understand my explanation)

Ms Icebreaker

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?

You both asked and both had the right to choose.

But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars.

Your first line of reply is juxtaposed with your second! "

They have both have the right of choice. But the couple shouldn't expect the guy to allow it if they won't allow him to. Plain enough for you?

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?

You both asked and both had the right to choose.

But in the scheme of things no it's not at all fair. We have recorded meets and guys have had a copy if they wish to. But that said we only film meets with trusted guys that have become regulars.

Your first line of reply is juxtaposed with your second!

They have both have the right of choice. But the couple shouldn't expect the guy to allow it if they won't allow him to. Plain enough for you? "

They didn’t expect him to they offered free choice, he accepted their wishes and then tried to negotiate ... they had free choice too and chose not to let him film.... both had choices to make and didn’t agree .... nothing unfair! Is that plain enough for you?

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you? "

If you don’t like it then don’t meet.

Life isn’t fair, but we are all free to make own our choices and in this case by communicating beforehand you were both able to make an informed decision about whether you wanted to go ahead or not!

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

"I was asked to be recorded during a meet. I was OK with it but when I asked to do the same they said no. Does it sound fair to you?

Yes

(Not gonna explain the gendered and patriarchal nature of slut shaming cos if you had to ask you won't understand my explanation)

Ms Icebreaker "

So much this

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