FabSwingers.com forum: First meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trying to arrange a first meet, do you think that some women will see that as a positive being 'that first meet', or most just as a negative as your new to swinging and not verified?

So better to mention it or not?

Then as a 2nd point - I see a lot of people looking for regulars, but is there much interest for people who are in the area staying at a hotel on business?

By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

You could mention it's your first meet so people may be more understanding if you are nervous, bit I don't think people specifically look for newbies unless they are new themselves.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to arrange a first meet, do you think that some women will see that as a positive being 'that first meet', or most just as a negative as your new to swinging and not verified?

So better to mention it or not?

Then as a 2nd point - I see a lot of people looking for regulars, but is there much interest for people who are in the area staying at a hotel on business?"

I can't speak for everyone but if I were looking to meet men it would put me off that you were new and unverified, unless I met you in a club.

Also I'd prefer regular to one offs so I'd be less interested if you didn't live somewhat locally. Though I'm sure plenty of people wouldn't mind.

By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I wouldn't mention it.

People who don't want to meet unverified people can block them, so you won't get to chat to them anyway. People who don't care will just want to be attracted to you.

There didn't used to be much interest in guys passing through from single women. Dunno about couples and men.

By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

I would say do and say what makes you more relaxed for and during the meet. If you are local to them is good but don’t think is a deal breaker but all depends on what the woman is looking for!