FabSwingers.com forum: What I'm I doing wrong.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone help me and point out what's wrong with my profile please? Women only.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do you only want women to comment when you are happy for men to suck you and ride you ? Shouldn't they have some input too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help me and point out what's wrong with my profile please? Women only."

Profile is just fully of unappealing dick pics. Maybe it’s the way you message someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point. Sallyslinky. Well I seem to get lots of men view me and message me all the time. It's the women that dont. Hence why I asked for women only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rub.luke. I usually introduce myself and and ask them how they're doing and what I like about their profile. But get ignored constantly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not being a very good looking guy doesn't help my situation of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not being a very good looking guy doesn't help my situation of course"

Your profile bio is really pushy too and far too much to the point. To get to know Someone just ask normal questions and dig something about them up. Don’t talk about sex as it’s what they get all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ruby.luke ok thank you for pointing that out. Yeas I usually do ask normal questions and still get nothing but blocked. I'm just curious.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Just cock pics, says straight but will play with men, can't accommodate or travel, all things that might be an issue for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just cock pics, says straight but will play with men, can't accommodate or travel, all things that might be an issue for people. "

Yep all of this really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just cock pics, says straight but will play with men, can't accommodate or travel, all things that might be an issue for people. "

Pretty much on the money

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get that both of you. All info a d comments welcome. I want to get the best out if this site if I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of pic measuring against a can...

Honestly most ladies dont like n instant turn off

Too many dick pics.

Didnt even read profile.. sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok golden wonder. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I'm ugly, I didn't think any woman would like me or my body hence why theres not many face/body pics

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think I'm ugly, I didn't think any woman would like me or my body hence why theres not many face/body pics"

Maybe you ought to let them decide that. Another thing is confidence, if you're telling everyone you're ugly and nobody will like you, that's the vibe you will give off

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

Oh where to start. More so with the things you have written on this thread to be honest. Firstly, I can genuinely feel the devastation in your status. Which isn’t attractive. Secondly, a lot of people would change certain things about themselves. Nearly everyone isn’t completely happy with how they look. And then there are the ones who go through life with their violin because they think they are ugly. Yes, some people are more attractive and easier to look at than others. But luckily, we all have different tastes and all like different things. So not everyone will share your opinion. Having no self confidence will make you come across as less attractive than how you actually look.

You aren’t going to get sympathy on here. You need to put some work into having a more positive view on yourself which will be a good starting point. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you miss penny. That does mean a lot. I'm not trying to get sympathy here, just stating what I've been told a lot is all.

Thank you all for the pointers.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

It's just not a very appealing profile & there are certain things that will immediately put a lot of people off... Too many dick pics & pics in general aren't very inspiring.Cannot accommodate, can't drive, age range 18-99 (unless you actually want a 99yr old then it suggests you're willing to pretty much fuck anyone). The bio shows very little personality & doesn't really tell anyone much about you.

Your profile is like an advert to sell yourself. A lot of people will read a profile before deciding whether to reply to a message, if there's nothing on there to catch the reader's interest then many won't bother to respond.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

"Oh where to start. More so with the things you have written on this thread to be honest. Firstly, I can genuinely feel the devastation in your status. Which isn’t attractive. Secondly, a lot of people would change certain things about themselves. Nearly everyone isn’t completely happy with how they look. And then there are the ones who go through life with their violin because they think they are ugly. Yes, some people are more attractive and easier to look at than others. But luckily, we all have different tastes and all like different things. So not everyone will share your opinion. Having no self confidence will make you come across as less attractive than how you actually look.

You aren’t going to get sympathy on here. You need to put some work into having a more positive view on yourself which will be a good starting point. Good luck"

Lots of good advice here. Confidence is an attractive thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much Hornyhappy. Yes theres a lot of pointers there a d I will make note of them all. I shall ne more confident in myself from now on. Happy fabbing to you.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

As you don’t want any blokes input I won’t critique,

what i will say is that you have around 5-10 seconds to peak someone’s interest and keep them on your profile before they move on, that’s your only real opportunity to promote yourself - think that if you were looking at you would you want to send a message or respond to what’s currently on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Innocent times. Not at all. I do appreciate your input on that. Thank you

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

"Innocent times. Not at all. I do appreciate your input on that. Thank you "

If you use the reply + quote button you don’t have to type the users name in for the message you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help me and point out what's wrong with my profile please? Women only."

I’m afraid you’re very young, posting pics of your dick. Can’t drive. Hang out with your mates. Take drugs.....

Personally I look for men and you come across as a horny teenager to me. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the best people to provide advice would be successful single men, after all, wouldn't they know best what works?

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

your user name and that you don't seem to know how old you are...have you set your age to get round peoples age filters? are you 24 or 26? if you messaged us, I'd delete for the user name alone. We want to meet people interested in swinging and what it entails, not someone looking for casual fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a couple of pointers.

If I were you, I'd lose the bit about timewasters as it's pretty meaningless. I get what you're saying, but do you really think it will put off those who it's aimed at?

I'd also lose the bit about wanting a verification. It gives off the wrong message as it implies that this is your priority. It's been said many, many times on the forum.

I'd also agree with what has been said about the confusion over your age and your user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should ask the successful men for advice.

But nothing. Keep it as it is. It shows you, for you.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

"Just cock pics, says straight but will play with men, can't accommodate or travel, all things that might be an issue for people. "

This

and to be honest.. The username is a bit naf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many pointers I could have mentioned but alas....

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Says you're a happy guy but your pics look awkward and unhappy.

I get it, taking selfies is always As fuck but just spend some time taking pics from different angles, different smiles, see what looks good.

You're trying to pull here, it's not a passport application. Smile, look friendly.

Also just remove the travel bit. It sounds weird and you're not going to find anyone within walking distance. Get a train or bus, itl open up new areas for you.

Just an FYI since you said women only, I'm the female of the couple.

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

It’s the typical single guy joining thinking he will get a quick fuck if girls see his cock on picture type of profile, I’m not commenting to have a go I’m trying to help you take a step back and actually think how you come across to others, take notice of all the constructive comments and advice. Would you look at your profile as a single lady or part of a couple and be interested or intrigued enough to engage in conversation let alone meet, do you think the male half would look and want to share one of the most precious people in his life with you ? If you think your looks are causing you issues then your mind is going to have to appeal to any potential meets. I wish you luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone. I am taking in all of your advice and working on it all. I now understand what people see in a profile. I will start to add more photos of me (nicer ones) and continue to customize my profile until it reflects me and my personality. Again thank you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No personality in the write up. Pictures are nothing special, mention you are a drug user (drug users have higher rates of std’s and take far more risks),can’t accom. All things that don’t look good to a potential meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nore*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help me and point out what's wrong with my profile please? Women only."
who knows could be your username, could be you smoke and are 420 degree friendly, could be your age or it could be the way you message....... we dont know we're not there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never underestimate just how much damage an unappealing username can do

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

That’s a massive improvement over yesterday’s effort.... keep going, you can do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all again. Your advise is appreciated. I'm working on changing my name soon

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You need to find your own voice and show you. I agree with all the comments apropos your profile, but should you take on all the advice it's no longer you.

Your age will be a disadvantage so why handicap yourself further?

Take time writing a profile: it doesn't need to be War and Peace, but state what you bring to the party.

Negativity is off putting: this is fun/fantasy...who needs other people's issues?

Relax and enjoy.

Good luck!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Just guna say those pics are way better and your bio sounds way more upbeat too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need to find your own voice and show you. I agree with all the comments apropos your profile, but should you take on all the advice it's no longer you.

Your age will be a disadvantage so why handicap yourself further?

Take time writing a profile: it doesn't need to be War and Peace, but state what you bring to the party.

Negativity is off putting: this is fun/fantasy...who needs other people's issues?

Relax and enjoy.

Good luck!"

I've taken all advice but still tried to mr me throughout

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just guna say those pics are way better and your bio sounds way more upbeat too. "

Thank you

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

You're age isnt consistent. One place says 24 another says 26....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Username could do with a change..

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