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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So after my first meeting and caving into my deepest. Desires,

My second meet is just around the corner with the same gent,

my issue is that I’m still just as nervous of not more so to please him and get everything just how he likes it without sacrificing my safety.

Would love some suggestions on what to do wether to go through with it and what I can do to not be so paranoid

Thanks in advance

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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Seems he liked you. The more you meet him the less nervous you"ll be. Plus the sex gets better x

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope so he seems keen I just get so nervous and he’s no beginner

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"I hope so he seems keen I just get so nervous and he’s no beginner "

I still see the guy i first played with. And that was 5 years ago. Hes a good mate aswell now and the sex is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hope I end up as luck as you doesn’t help he’s twice my age but that’s kinda how I like it!

I want to explore just find I stop myself and it so annoying

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"I hope I end up as luck as you doesn’t help he’s twice my age but that’s kinda how I like it!

I want to explore just find I stop myself and it so annoying "

Just try relax. He knows hes your first and wants to meet again so he must deffo.like you

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By *riendly BiMan
over a year ago

h

I’ve made very good friends with two guys I’ve met(on Fabguys) and I never thought I’d be in the situation of being so lucky.

I hope you find the same

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

You're a lucky (and hot) guy OP. Just relax and enjoy. There is no rush to do anything. If you leave something for the next meet, you'll both have it to look forward to.

Ric x

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"So after my first meeting and caving into my deepest. Desires,

My second meet is just around the corner with the same gent,

my issue is that I’m still just as nervous of not more so to please him and get everything just how he likes it without sacrificing my safety.

Would love some suggestions on what to do wether to go through with it and what I can do to not be so paranoid

Thanks in advance "

When you say safety, do you mean in a BDSM/kink sense or in terms of sexual health?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks danni, sorry for the late reply didn’t realise there were posts on here from you.

I’ve very much enjoyed myself so far and don’t have any regrets which is the main thing I think!

Just wish I could find a bi couple to play with now it’s next on my list of things to try out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry soft sensual

I mainly ment in terms of sexual health I guess as embarrassing and it is to say it it’s always been a worry of mine!

If it was bdsm I’m not sure I’d have any worries in that regard ??

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Just read this and realises this thread was started 12 weeks ago , so did you get cock ?? Xx

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"Just read this and realises this thread was started 12 weeks ago , so did you get cock ?? Xx "

Yeah! We want the goss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after my first meeting and caving into my deepest. Desires,

My second meet is just around the corner with the same gent,

my issue is that I’m still just as nervous of not more so to please him and get everything just how he likes it without sacrificing my safety.

Would love some suggestions on what to do wether to go through with it and what I can do to not be so paranoid

Thanks in advance "
Make sure you communicate with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on OP how did it go

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

As someone who can’t wait for their second meet I’d love to know how this turned out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks danni, sorry for the late reply didn’t realise there were posts on here from you.

I’ve very much enjoyed myself so far and don’t have any regrets which is the main thing I think!

Just wish I could find a bi couple to play with now it’s next on my list of things to try out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on here as a bi couple but took profile down after more luck elsewhere feel free to message me , not to far away either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh it went really well infact I went back for more would you like more details hehe

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"Oh it went really well infact I went back for more would you like more details hehe"

Good on you. Always good to have meets with the same guy, you learn what eachother likes. Is it good then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So good I went back three times that week hehe

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"So good I went back three times that week hehe "

Good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve defiantly figured Out I’m much more bottom than I though when it comes down to it! I love being sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations, I am the same, scared of getting disease, but longing for action, and part of me always feels ashamed for wanting to be with a man. Must be my own internal homophobia.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh but it’s so much fun the temptation definitely gets the better of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congratulations, I am the same, scared of getting disease, but longing for action, and part of me always feels ashamed for wanting to be with a man. Must be my own internal homophobia. "
Blame the way modern socioty imprints it's morals into the subcounscious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree it would be a lot different if it was accepted

More

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

very upset lockdown had to happen its spoiled everyones fun!

who cant wait to get back out and start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Congratulations, I am the same, scared of getting disease, but longing for action, and part of me always feels ashamed for wanting to be with a man. Must be my own internal homophobia. Blame the way modern socioty imprints it's morals into the subcounscious. "

Yeh but it shouldnt be. Its the twenty first century ffs!

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
over a year ago

dorset

Go guys xx mm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I intend to once all this virus is cleared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun was had by all, I've liked reading this thread as it's nice to know I'm not theothe only one with the same thoughts worries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was great fun I’m so annoyed I can’t get away from work at the moment to get more of it

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