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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Want to see my gf having sex with a hung guy but don’t know how to approach it any advice please

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Ask her if she wants it?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Have you discussed this with gf yet? What does she think about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her if she wants it? "

And if she does, get a couples profile with her

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Ask her if she wants it?

And if she does, get a couples profile with her"

Rebellious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Scared she might up and leave need a softer approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her if she wants it?

And if she does, get a couples profile with her

Rebellious "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her that you want to see her take a big dick and you've already found the perfect website to find this on

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Scared she might up and leave need a softer approach "

Well... tricky if she doesn't know she wants it ...

Made my suggestion ... I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scared she might up and leave need a softer approach "

Bring it up while talking dirty if she doesn't like it pass it off as dirty talk and not mention it again if she likes it slowly press the idea use it more in dirty talk and then one day say I'd love to try it for real that way you will find out without pushing her away

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you can't talk to her tbh I'd be questioning the whole relationship.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Scared she might up and leave need a softer approach "

Does she know you are on here? I'm not judging by the way, what I mean is, does she know anything about swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks widow dad might try that

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wine and dine her, get a naughty film on, and throw a few hints, do this on a few occasions, tried this with wife, talked about a few fantasys. We then went from social meets with soft fun too actual swinging, was a bonus to find she enjoyed fem fun as well as guys, have been playing on and off for ten years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also be sure yourself that you want it because once you go down this road its hard to stop if you change your mind the fantasy of it can be very different from the reality it's a big decision and you need to talk about it to her openly if she does like the idea in the first place

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Best ask her. If she doesn’t want it, just fantasise while having sex. Often things are best left to a fantasy unless 100 per cent sure both want it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best ask her. If she doesn’t want it, just fantasise while having sex. Often things are best left to a fantasy unless 100 per cent sure both want it."

Thanks for the advice guys ill try it out

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you."

Might have a few drinks weekend and drop the hint x

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you.

Might have a few drinks weekend and drop the hint x"

Make sure you ask her about her fantasies too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell her about your fantasy and see how she responds. She might really dig the idea and be happy to explore it with you.

Might have a few drinks weekend and drop the hint x

Make sure you ask her about her fantasies too. "

She might want a woman

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Hope you know her well enough to suggest this. Would hate it to be a mistake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you know her well enough to suggest this. Would hate it to be a mistake."

Only one way to find out lol

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I'm disappointed, I thought this thread would be about horology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to see my gf having sex with a hung guy but don’t know how to approach it any advice please"

Gonna use my default answer to these kind of questions...

If you have been with her long enough and don’t have any clue if she would be into it, she probably won’t be.

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

She already has her own profile here and is having a whale of a time,

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"She is having a whale of a time "

With Moby Dick ?

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"She is having a whale of a time

With Moby Dick ?"

Yes, she likes them big!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She already has her own profile here and is having a whale of a time, "

Lol what’s her username ????

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"She already has her own profile here and is having a whale of a time,

Lol what’s her username ????"

Does it bother you that she's getting great sex here behind your back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well so as not to go down the route that most on here seem to that your request is to be ridiculed and made fun of, I suggest perhaps a couple of glasses of Prosecco to relax a little, maybe see what sort of porn she likes if any and maybe suggest watching a little together.

Go out for a drink together and see if any of the other guys at the bar make her go phoawwwwww. LOL.

Bout all I can suggest really.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We were open right from the outset. A hot and steamy night turned into a discussion about fantasies past relationships did not have interest in. Turns out she loves a bit of bondage and I admitted I was a swinger. Both of these are now firmly in our lives

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