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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Been on the site on and off for a while, but looking to really give it a go. Have tried reaching out to women but seems am doing something wrong. Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the photo. It's very off-putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All,

Been on the site on and off for a while, but looking to really give it a go. Have tried reaching out to women but seems am doing something wrong. Any tips? "
a few things theone pic of your penis in a hairy pussy will not inspire the women looking at pulling a virgin, the blank avatar doesn't inspire anyone, very little profile info and youre quite young many have children older than you, your profile and pics need to be the best they can be, your messages need to be polite and reflect the profile of the person your sending them to and show some personality, good luck

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Photos photos photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photos photos photos! "
location location location

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Photos photos photos! location location location "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks! Will work on getting some more pics on! Might ask everyone again in a few days!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Thanks! Will work on getting some more pics on! Might ask everyone again in a few days!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add some photos (not dick photos) and be a bit more specific about what exactly you can bring to the table, and add more about yourself as a person, make yourself stand out from the sea of other single guys.

Also, you say you want “milfs” especially, but your age filter is just 18-99, that always makes me think that the person is just after anyone. Like anyone will do.

If you don’t have an age preference then that’s fine, but would you really sleep with a 99 year old? If the answer is no, then your filters should reflect that.

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By *rgreen6942Man
over a year ago

wirral

Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back "

Hey. Best to strat your own thread for advise. Bit rude to jump on someone elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back "
me too can i get help

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By *rgreen6942Man
over a year ago

wirral


"Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back

Hey. Best to strat your own thread for advise. Bit rude to jump on someone elses "

Thanks ok I didn’t realise

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back me too can i get help "

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back me too can i get help

No!"
lol i need it though

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Still having no look with this site I’ve been on here a while now and not get very far I’ve been polite in my message but they just get deleted

Thanks I would appreciate your feed back me too can i get help

No!lol i need it though "

As above - it’s rude to hijack someone else’s thread.

Either do a search for the million threads on this topic or start your own thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great, thanks for the advice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have tried to update profile, location, and age I am looking for.

For photos, I guess I was always paranoid about putting face pics up. Is it crucial to have public photos? And if so, should i do body (without cock showing)?

Thanks!

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I mean, it's still incredibly bare bones, literally says so little about you other than you like doing sex stuff (like the other 10,000 guys on here)

The silhouette picture will get you a absolutely nowhere unfortunately, a lot of people filter on that alone (us included, it shows zero effort)

Some public pics would definitely help as long as it's not 10 of your cock from varying angles, one with a few tasteful body pics would suffice.

Ultimately the odds are stacked against you on here and you've gotta take it all with a pinch of salt, look at it as an addition rather than the only way to fulfill your sexual needs.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Clonmel

I miss Jeremy Kyle

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