FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to have chats or meets...help?

By *tix9 OP Man
over a year ago

St Leonards on Sea

Hello fab family,

I seem to be going through a phase where I'm not getting anyone messaging or replying to an initial message from me, and therefore no meets happening. Is it my profile? Do i need to change it?

Would really welcome any constructive advice...

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Get yourself to a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks like you are doing better than most men on here

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's a decent profile I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of things based on your profile text:

1) You mention that you enjoy taking sexual risks. That could be very easily interpreted as being willing to forgo condoms. Clarify what you mean.

2) Most of the time, people who need to be 'careful'and 'discreet' are taken for cheaters automatically, even if that's not the case. There are ways of releasing it without using those buzzwords. If you are cheating, generally it's considered better to be upfront about it.

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By *tix9 OP Man
over a year ago

St Leonards on Sea

Wow.. blown away by the great advice already!!! You fabsters are so helpful xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You passed the magic age of 45

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The only thing that I can add is to remove the last paragraph.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing that I can add is to remove the last paragraph.

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By *tix9 OP Man
over a year ago

St Leonards on Sea

Really helpful advice...I've bade the changes peopke have suggested. Any thing else?

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Very minor thing, but it might put some people off - change "discrete" to "discreet"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the dick pics in private.

Keep some mystery.

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By *tix9 OP Man
over a year ago

St Leonards on Sea

Oops...lol, thanks NYG

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