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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so ready to move on from being f,cked by wife with butt plug to being pegged with a strap uon. Just wanted some recommendations of good starter ones and any other advice..thx

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By *ueenandlittlecuckCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

i have a the silicone black strap on with dildo, i love it, its fits great on me in the harness and feels lovely to

https://thepantiepurse.com/collections/bondage-gear/strap-on

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Very easy to find good harnesses, lovehoney has some good ones, i've got a couple off amazon. Get your partner to find one she likes the look of and check the reviews.

My recommendation is go for one that has leg and waist straps. Doesn't look like the straps are too thin on the waist. You want the dildo to be firmly held, so she doesn't end up constantly fiddling with it. Look at the straps running between the legs in the crotch, she needs to be comfortable there.

Then for the dildo, you both need to pick one that you can manage. So don't go crazy if you've never done 6in, don't get an 8in. Ideally get a harness with a ring so you can change dildo later and get dildo's that can attach to it.

Then you need to practice with the dildo you choose, get used to its size and make sure you can get comfortable playing with it and for a good amount of time. That will allow her to fuck you with it, without you trying to run off the bed in pain! Trust me, getting to the point she can really fuck you hard, is an awesome experience for her and you. So practice practice...

I'm going to assume you know how to get clean back there, remember if the dildo is bigger, you might need a deep clean... she might literally fuck the sh*t out of you , so be prepared!

Then go from there, good luck and enjoy.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Tracy Cox supersex 4 piece set on L***honey

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham

A third for the LH strapons. They have a sale on and Fab members can receive further discount

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/strap-ons-for-her/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all thanks for the advice and suggestions, guess the only way is up (the ass) xx

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Douche Douche douche douche douche!

Bit more expensive but i find the doc Johnson vac u lock wortht the extra pennies in the long run.

Have fun and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers dolly and great profile btw x douche indeed;)

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

No need to douch if you prepare well.

No junk food 12-24 hrs before

Eat bran or weekabix for breakfast

Go to the loo approximately an hr before the meet

Wash thoroughly

That way you save embarassment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sounds like sound advice (that makes sense I think) didn’t realise there was so much in it. Nice strap on in your pics as well by the way..

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops.

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By *orny1970Man
over a year ago

Northwest Greater Manchester and lancashire

Loved being pegged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bought our harness from Sh! about eight years ago. They even did a trial fit to make sure we had the right size. It's still beautifully comfortable and they have a number of interchangeable dildos so you can start small and work up if needs be.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Start small and start slow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops."

This ^^^^ AND a decent harness. Cheap harnesses will move about and hurt. We have the Spareparts Joque harness - expensive but good. Buy cheap buy twice.

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By *ilver_Fox57Couple
over a year ago

Grantham

Have had a strapon from babes’n’horny with a leather harness that I’ve had for over 15 years. It’s an amazing secure harness with a silicon dildo. The only problem is that I bought the largest ones they do probably should buy a smaller ones for beginners x

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss


"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops."

Totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the harness pants from lovehoney. So simple, no fiddling around with straps etc and they hold the dildo in place really well.

Miss V x

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex


"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops.

This ^^^^ AND a decent harness. Cheap harnesses will move about and hurt. We have the Spareparts Joque harness - expensive but good. Buy cheap buy twice."

I've had loads also. I now have a leather carmen rivera. Amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey guys str8 guys but have had oral with guys looking to try pegging with ppl or Mrs how would anyone recommend starting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need to douch if you prepare well.

No junk food 12-24 hrs before

Eat bran or weekabix for breakfast

Go to the loo approximately an hr before the meet

Wash thoroughly

That way you save embarassment"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fuck my cuck at least once a day with a strap on. There is lots to it. The main thing is buy real, very good lube. Not the rubbish from high street shops."

What a lucky cuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will be the 'next step' from this..?

A real cock perhaps attached to a living being....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so ready to move on from being f,cked by wife with butt plug to being pegged with a strap uon. Just wanted some recommendations of good starter ones and any other advice..thx"

Lots of lube - we have a few but the best one goes round her thigh - great for spoons

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