FabSwingers.com forum: Sensitive subject!!

By *eBornGemini OP Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Ok so one of my many fantasies is to get rimmed or pegged, I’m not fussed if it’s a female, male or TV that is doing it however I have one major concern that is stopping me from having it done....

How do I know I am clean on the inside? I would be so embarrassed if the first time I had it done it went terribly wrong, I think it would just stop me from doing any further meets etc! I know some may find this weird and maybe just a bit dirty to talk about but it’s something I’m genuinely concerned about.

Secondly is it best to get waxed before or do people not mind that much??

I would really love to get some advice on this, will accept Private messages if that’s an easier way for someone to talk about it.

Happy fabbing everyone x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably most people's greatest fears ( pain and injury being the first ) . The rectum is actually really clean or we'd all be dying of infections. To reduce your anxiety timing might be important so maybe if at all possible only start sex after at least an hour after a bowel movement. You won't be remembering you just had one and won't be fearing another ! A gentle finger just inside as you shower ( again, to reassure yourself ) If you are new to this then DONT go for a full on pegging the first few times, a probing finger and small specialist toys are best. For god's sake use proper toys as your ass can GULP. Your chocolate starfish should be tight and it would take a bionic tongue to get into it enough to um...accidentally GET that kind of chocolate reward. I'd suggest prove the cleanliness to yourself by practicing . If you tend to be constipated you MIGHT get dried stuff hanging around inside your rectum.

Good...luck....

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and as for waxing...hmm...if you have a very hairy butt cave entrance then it's probably not going to be fun to lick ( like hairy balls it's just not as good as shaven ) and also the hairs can get caught on dildos or cock and get dragged in and will pull like a bitch. Butt, having said that, if you have sensitive skin or overdo the waxing you'll just get sore and nobody wants to lick or fuck sore and you will not like that either. So...again, practice.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche before a meet job done and keep spotlessly clean. Job done. Give it s go s few times before the meet so you get used to it.

By *ina VonteeseTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

I use a clean stream .silicon nossile tip in fill and relax don't get carried away or else its water past the bend and it will be sending out a message..brown rivers of wet mush