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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Want to plan on for n but she’s not confident enough what’s the best way to give her a confidence boost ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want to plan on for n but she’s not confident enough what’s the best way to give her a confidence boost ?? "

Just ask her if the cloth your holding smells like chloroform should be easy to get a blind fold on her then lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Will all three of you be blindfolded ?

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport


"Will all three of you be blindfolded ?"

Blind men in the buff

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Want to plan on for n but she’s not confident enough what’s the best way to give her a confidence boost ?? "

Who is wearing the blindfold?

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

No just female the idea is she wouldn’t know who was playing with her

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Maybe start with just the two of you and bring toys into play. Then you could see if it could go further...

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

How do you find each other if you are all blindfolded?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"How do you find each other if you are all blindfolded?"

What a fantastic idea, something thing like an outward bound obstacle course or an old Lazar Quest building.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this scenario as a MMF with myself (her) blindfolded.

I prefer verbal communication from my boyfriend in these kind of situations, I like to have him whisper in my ear either for reassurance, to tease me or instruct me.

Maybe discuss with your partner her concerns or nervousness and put plans in place to alleviate them. Trust is paramount in these scenarios.

Hope it works out for you all

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"We have done this scenario as a MMF with myself (her) blindfolded.

I prefer verbal communication from my boyfriend in these kind of situations, I like to have him whisper in my ear either for reassurance, to tease me or instruct me.

Thank you for some useful advice xx

Maybe discuss with your partner her concerns or nervousness and put plans in place to alleviate them. Trust is paramount in these scenarios.

Hope it works out for you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you find each other if you are all blindfolded?

What a fantastic idea, something thing like an outward bound obstacle course or an old Lazar Quest building."

That sounds really fun tbh

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"We have done this scenario as a MMF with myself (her) blindfolded.

I prefer verbal communication from my boyfriend in these kind of situations, I like to have him whisper in my ear either for reassurance, to tease me or instruct me.

Maybe discuss with your partner her concerns or nervousness and put plans in place to alleviate them. Trust is paramount in these scenarios.

Hope it works out for you all

"
this is what I've done in the past. My partner at the time was in control and it was such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked if she's open to the threesome minus the blindfold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Want to plan on for n but she’s not confident enough what’s the best way to give her a confidence boost ?? "

Put her in control.

Let her narrow it down to two or three people, then you close the deal so she doesn't know which it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you find each other if you are all blindfolded?

What a fantastic idea, something thing like an outward bound obstacle course or an old Lazar Quest building.

That sounds really fun tbh "

Watch the film cockblockers

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

I did this for S. She didn't know who it was until a afterwards, although afterwards we actually said it could have been even more mysterious to have not allowed the blindfold iff until he'd left.

There has to be 100% trust for this to work. S knows that I know what she likes and also that I'm proud enough of her to not just let anyone near her.

We all had a great time. It was a very exciting scenario.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I did this for S. She didn't know who it was until a afterwards, although afterwards we actually said it could have been even more mysterious to have not allowed the blindfold iff until he'd left.

There has to be 100% trust for this to work. S knows that I know what she likes and also that I'm proud enough of her to not just let anyone near her.

We all had a great time. It was a very exciting scenario."

Sounds like you had fun.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Confidence can only be attained if we feel safe and secure if she has to be made confident then somehow she isn't feeling safe or secure.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

It sounds really cliche but trust and communication. As others have suggested use toys whilst blindfolded to simulate the experience but talk about it openly whilst sober and not horny to explore both of your true feelings about the situation. Guarantee that if you randomly blindfold her and then there's a knock at the door she's far more likely to say no rather than yes.

We've done it multiple times. Great fun when done in the right way x

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By *teve of PinnerMan
over a year ago

Pinner

I hosted a similar for a couple a few years back it was good fun .

Supposed to be 6 guys only 4 turned up.

Hoping to do similar again soon.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My partner once blindfolded me so I could suck a queue of cocks. I had to stop for a rest after 15. When my partner took off my blindfold there were just three men all laughing. The had kept rejoining the back of the tiny queue for another go.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"My partner once blindfolded me so I could suck a queue of cocks. I had to stop for a rest after 15. When my partner took off my blindfold there were just three men all laughing. The had kept rejoining the back of the tiny queue for another go. "

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By *ibsonVicMan
over a year ago

Minworth


"Want to plan on for n but she’s not confident enough what’s the best way to give her a confidence boost ?? "

Blindfold her, leave the room - then come back in pretending to be 2 people. Be subtle about it. If she likes the idea, while you tease and explore her, you'll soon know.

Even if she suspects it is just you, if she's turned on by the idea, it should be dynamite.

If it is, then have an actual conversation about it at a later date. Don't push. Just she how she responds.

It's got to be her desire as well as yours if it's going to be something that works well for both of you...

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By *exsenceCouple
over a year ago

stalybridge

My hubby did this with me last week believe me she will love it I did lol

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Paul arranged 3 guys to come over while I was blindfolded. It was really sexy as no words were spoken. Towards the end one guy was fucking me so hard the blindfold came off!

I had a good time and would do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hubby did this with me last week believe me she will love it I did lol "

We’re exploring this idea very hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner once blindfolded me so I could suck a queue of cocks. I had to stop for a rest after 15. When my partner took off my blindfold there were just three men all laughing. The had kept rejoining the back of the tiny queue for another go. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha that would intresting to see a threesome every one blindfolded lol

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

It sounds like she just doesn’t want to do it. So not sure you should try convince her.

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge


"We have done this scenario as a MMF with myself (her) blindfolded.

I prefer verbal communication from my boyfriend in these kind of situations, I like to have him whisper in my ear either for reassurance, to tease me or instruct me.

Maybe discuss with your partner her concerns or nervousness and put plans in place to alleviate them.

Trust is paramount in these scenarios.

What lovely, sensitive and sensible advice,

Well done

Hope it works out for you all

"

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"We have done this scenario as a MMF with myself (her) blindfolded.

I prefer verbal communication from my boyfriend in these kind of situations, I like to have him whisper in my ear either for reassurance, to tease me or instruct me.

Maybe discuss with your partner her concerns or nervousness and put plans in place to alleviate them.

Trust is paramount in these scenarios.

What lovely, sensitive and sensible advice,

Well done

Hope it works out for you all

"
Get the guy you have invited over to blind fold you both , but let him tell you he is also blind folded , How will you know and you won't know what's being done and that's more exciting

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Just a thought, but if she's already struggling with confidence then blindfolding her could potentially make her feel more vulnerable rather than more confident.

I'd say this is something that you need to fully discuss as a couple before you consider it & only do it if she is absolutely on board with the idea.

K

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"We have done this scenario as a MMF with myself (her) blindfolded.

I prefer verbal communication from my boyfriend in these kind of situations, I like to have him whisper in my ear either for reassurance, to tease me or instruct me.

Maybe discuss with your partner her concerns or nervousness and put plans in place to alleviate them. Trust is paramount in these scenarios.

Hope it works out for you all

"

This

communication is the key..

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By *wsugartitsWoman
over a year ago

McKenzie Bridge


"Want to plan on for n but she’s not confident enough what’s the best way to give her a confidence boost ??

Just ask her if the cloth your holding smells like chloroform should be easy to get a blind fold on her then lol"

lol

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I (Mrs) love doing this...

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Thanks for all the advice xx

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Who would like to join us to make this happen drop us a message xx

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

How about going to a club where they have a dark room so she can't see who's groping and fucking her. If she likes that then she'd surely like your plan.

I'd love for my bf to do that for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who would like to join us to make this happen drop us a message xx "

Has she had a change of heart?

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough "

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?"

She hasn’t said yes but she doesn’t feel confident enough about it she’s a little bit shy we could say but when she comes out of her she’ll she’s wild but it just getting her to let herself go I know deep down she will enjoy it

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?

She hasn’t said yes but she doesn’t feel confident enough about it she’s a little bit shy we could say but when she comes out of her she’ll she’s wild but it just getting her to let herself go I know deep down she will enjoy it "

Sounds like you need to do a lot more talking before you take it any further.

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By *riceyandkenty OP   Couple
over a year ago

stoke on trent


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?

She hasn’t said yes but she doesn’t feel confident enough about it she’s a little bit shy we could say but when she comes out of her she’ll she’s wild but it just getting her to let herself go I know deep down she will enjoy it

Sounds like you need to do a lot more talking before you take it any further.

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We have done a lot of talking about it she just feels under confident with her figure I think there are people who feel pleasured to play with her

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?

She hasn’t said yes but she doesn’t feel confident enough about it she’s a little bit shy we could say but when she comes out of her she’ll she’s wild but it just getting her to let herself go I know deep down she will enjoy it

Sounds like you need to do a lot more talking before you take it any further.

We have done a lot of talking about it she just feels under confident with her figure I think there are people who feel pleasured to play with her "

Would she be prepared to do it if it was the other guy that was blindfolded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?

She hasn’t said yes but she doesn’t feel confident enough about it she’s a little bit shy we could say but when she comes out of her she’ll she’s wild but it just getting her to let herself go I know deep down she will enjoy it "

If she hasn't said yes then I've no idea why you'd push the issue.

And claiming that you know she'd enjoy it is worrying to read

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"No she’s just a little bit short of confidence and doesn’t think she’s sexy enough

So she hasn't actually agreed to it yet?

She hasn’t said yes but she doesn’t feel confident enough about it she’s a little bit shy we could say but when she comes out of her she’ll she’s wild but it just getting her to let herself go I know deep down she will enjoy it

If she hasn't said yes then I've no idea why you'd push the issue.

And claiming that you know she'd enjoy it is worrying to read "

Agree.

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