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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighs OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Can anybody give me some imput or recommendations on the best kind of bed restraints to use if...

A) I'm a very very bad wriggler!

B) I'm stupidly strong!

The ones on the usual sexy stuffs sites seem to look quite weak and feable!

Or should I just get strong rope??

Thanks

~x~

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I have underbed restraints, you put them under the mattress and they close around your wrists and ankles with velcro, I've never got out of them before and neither did the guy I tied up

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"I have underbed restraints, you put them under the mattress and they close around your wrists and ankles with velcro, I've never got out of them before and neither did the guy I tied up "

I have these also, they work really well. They are under £20 I think on eBay or Amazon

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I have underbed restraints, you put them under the mattress and they close around your wrists and ankles with velcro, I've never got out of them before and neither did the guy I tied up "

I have them too. I once dislocated my shoulder thrashing about in them. They're stronger than you'd guess.

I paid about £25 on lovehoney, and mine has cuffs with clips, the restraints have D rings. I've used leather thigh cuffs fastened to them with carabiners, a rope arm binder where the rope was fastened through them... They're very versatile.

They also work on divan beds there there are no bedposts and are very portable so are good in hotels.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have underbed restraints, you put them under the mattress and they close around your wrists and ankles with velcro, I've never got out of them before and neither did the guy I tied up

I have them too. I once dislocated my shoulder thrashing about in them. They're stronger than you'd guess.

I paid about £25 on lovehoney, and mine has cuffs with clips, the restraints have D rings. I've used leather thigh cuffs fastened to them with carabiners, a rope arm binder where the rope was fastened through them... They're very versatile.

They also work on divan beds there there are no bedposts and are very portable so are good in hotels."

Hello FuriousScourer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chains or rope. But under the bed systems can work well too =)

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I have underbed restraints, you put them under the mattress and they close around your wrists and ankles with velcro, I've never got out of them before and neither did the guy I tied up

I have them too. I once dislocated my shoulder thrashing about in them. They're stronger than you'd guess.

I paid about £25 on lovehoney, and mine has cuffs with clips, the restraints have D rings. I've used leather thigh cuffs fastened to them with carabiners, a rope arm binder where the rope was fastened through them... They're very versatile.

They also work on divan beds there there are no bedposts and are very portable so are good in hotels.

Hello FuriousScourer "

That's my official stripper name

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I have underbed restraints, you put them under the mattress and they close around your wrists and ankles with velcro, I've never got out of them before and neither did the guy I tied up

I have them too. I once dislocated my shoulder thrashing about in them. They're stronger than you'd guess.

I paid about £25 on lovehoney, and mine has cuffs with clips, the restraints have D rings. I've used leather thigh cuffs fastened to them with carabiners, a rope arm binder where the rope was fastened through them... They're very versatile.

They also work on divan beds there there are no bedposts and are very portable so are good in hotels.

Hello FuriousScourer

That's my official stripper name "

Kinky!

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We find some decent lengths of chain and clips move easily from home to hotel and can work with a bed or anywhere your imagination can take them

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Ho to birmingham bizarre bazaar and buy wrist and ankle restraints, some clips and rope and make your own.

Take them anywhere then, you get quality to and no one is strong enough to get out of them.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Go to birmingham bizarre bazaar and buy wrist and ankle restraints, some clips and rope and make your own.

Take them anywhere then, you get quality to and no one is strong enough to get out of them."

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We have the COMMAND Heavy-Duty Under-Mattress Restraint Kit.

No escape from that!

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighs OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Thank you for all your suggestions

~x~

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By *rofessormarkyxMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

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By *rofessormarkyxMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I have my under mattress restraints cable tied to the bed frame

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By *rofessormarkyxMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Got them from love honey when they were on offer at £12.50 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got under the mattress restraints and they are very good, they come with leather wrist and ankle cuffs. Mind you its definitely not a one man job to get them on though. But they are very good. I got mine from Ann summers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The weakest point in under mattress restraints are the cuffs. The reasons being the Velcro fasteners. The nylon straps are great but the come into there own when used with good quality leather cuffs. Off course these are more expensive but they should last year's.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

The under-mattress restraints from eBay are okay, but I reckon it's better to secure to the frame directly.

I like the padded leather buckled cuffs with steel rings, secured to the bed base with 8mm nylon braded chord tied each end with fig 8 knots... no escape from that.

I'm very strong and there's now way I can get free once I'm in them by my wrists and ankles... I'm totally there for the taking.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"The under-mattress restraints from eBay are okay, but I reckon it's better to secure to the frame directly.

I like the padded leather buckled cuffs with steel rings, secured to the bed base with 8mm nylon braded chord tied each end with fig 8 knots... no escape from that.

I'm very strong and there's now way I can get free once I'm in them by my wrists and ankles... I'm totally there for the taking. "
you wouldn't get out of my industrial strength shrink wrap either , not that I'm offering god no !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The under-mattress restraints from eBay are okay, but I reckon it's better to secure to the frame directly.

I like the padded leather buckled cuffs with steel rings, secured to the bed base with 8mm nylon braded chord tied each end with fig 8 knots... no escape from that.

I'm very strong and there's now way I can get free once I'm in them by my wrists and ankles... I'm totally there for the taking. you wouldn't get out of my industrial strength shrink wrap either , not that I'm offering god no ! "

You just gave me a mental flash back to an evening many years ago which involved a large roll of industrial cling film

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Double end trigger clips and chain is a bit better than default straps. It's also easy to adjust position of trigger clips to make as tight or lose as possible and it wont work loose.

Use leg and wrist restraints of your choosing. Velcro or metal cuffs depending on your preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, so a bad wriggler and stupidly strong eh....

Don't use steel, it will cut and bruise

Don't use rope unless someone knows how to tie safely so it doesn't trap nerves or circulation.

Leather is the way to go (suggest leatherdelights-very professional and huge range) wrist and ankle cuffs.

If your bed had a frame you can be tied to then rope from cuffs to frame is fine...BUT...do make sure there is a safety protocol in place, including medical shears for an emergency release.

If your bed doesn't have a frame then most of the nylon under-matress kits are fine but tie/velcro/clip them to comfortable cuffs

Although you are far a visit to the BBB or LAM will be a huge kink eye opener for you

Be safe/play kinky xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Restraints are good, Velcro especially if it’s not something long term (safety).

However, there is something sensually sexual about using rope, taking time, forming intricate knots and the intimacy/anticipation it builds.

Should never rush things.

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighs OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Thank you all so much for your input and advice. All very helpful indeed.

~x~

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the lovehoney underbed one however I broke the leg bit so need to buy new clips stronger ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t just go for a strong rope.

Look at a large’ish diameter, soft hemp rope.

Check out some rope techniques for under bed restraints.

Enjoy.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Find a rigger like me who can tie a sommerville bowline strong BUT never locks up and use good quality rope

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By *ickinglover69Man
over a year ago

Langley

I have ankle and wrist cuffs, rope but very difficult to do on your own.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve got some under bed restraints too. Just a bit of fun. Problem is I have to drag them out if I’m asking my son to help me turn my mattress lol.

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

I can't add any advice, I'm just reading rope, restraints, cuffs and chains

Oh my

Sorry,not sorry

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