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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now.

I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely.

I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff.

So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years.

Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive!

Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this..

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now.

I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely.

I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff.

So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years.

Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive!

Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this..

Thank you! "
no youre fine if anything youre under achieving

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I think it's fine unless you find you can't get aroused with a partner without porn. If it starts giving you issues in your life, that's when it's a problem.

Gem

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I don't think anything you have put is excessive or extreme.

Also as you seem very self aware, I doubt you would allow it to have a negative impact on your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's fine unless you find you can't get aroused with a partner without porn. If it starts giving you issues in your life, that's when it's a problem.

Gem"

See, this doesn't happen and I think if this did I would then be worried as I have been able to get aroused without the use of porn when with a partner.. Previous sex life was great! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think anything you have put is excessive or extreme.

Also as you seem very self aware, I doubt you would allow it to have a negative impact on your life

"

Thank you, that is appreciated! I am very self aware and do worry a bit!

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you?

I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you?

I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?"
you'll go blind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you?

I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?"

Exactly what I want to hear, thank you, that’s reassuring! I will worry no longer

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Regular ejaculations helps keep the prostate healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you?

I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?"

I still do wank that many times a day

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I think it becomes an issue if you can't see the difference between porn and reality. Or as others have said if you rely on it for arousal.

I'm not a porn watcher but I think you can tell when people watch 'too much' by their expectations and language. If this doesn't apply to you and you still enjoy 'normal' interactions then I wouldn't worry.

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Nothing wrong with a good wank

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Knock yourself out or should I say one out

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Seems completely normal.

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hi everyone,

I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now.

I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely.

I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff.

So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years.

Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive!

Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this..

Thank you! "

Simples... chastity device... give the keys to good female friend to look after for a month..

you'll go cold turkey for a week or do. But will find life opens up a whole new world afterward...

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

UK

For a healthy prostate a man should aim to orgasm 21 times per month so you need to up your game mate!

It’s good for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found just having some real chat interaction on here just as much of a turn on as watching porn or looking at the pics on here. Just seems more real, than only being a viewer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone,

I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now.

I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely.

I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff.

So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years.

Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive!

Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this..

Thank you! "

Don’t worry about it. If you cannot get aroused without the porn or starting yourself off, then you have a problem.

I literally pull myself around my flat

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By *etamourMan
over a year ago

York


"Hi everyone,

I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now.

I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely.

I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff.

So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years.

Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive!

Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this..

Thank you!

Don’t worry about it. If you cannot get aroused without the porn or starting yourself off, then you have a problem.

I literally pull myself around my flat "

Same here, throw myself around like an empty tracksuit....

Couldn't tell you how many times I wank in a week. Sometimes it's none and sometimes it's 4 times in a day, just depends on my needs at the time, plus I haven't gone blind yet so all is good in the world

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

I find the more you come the more you need to cum! Wether that be a wank or sex

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