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"Hi everyone, I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now. I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely. I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff. So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years. Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive! Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this.. Thank you! " no youre fine if anything youre under achieving | |||
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"I think it's fine unless you find you can't get aroused with a partner without porn. If it starts giving you issues in your life, that's when it's a problem. Gem" See, this doesn't happen and I think if this did I would then be worried as I have been able to get aroused without the use of porn when with a partner.. Previous sex life was great! Thanks | |||
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"I don't think anything you have put is excessive or extreme. Also as you seem very self aware, I doubt you would allow it to have a negative impact on your life " Thank you, that is appreciated! I am very self aware and do worry a bit! | |||
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"When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you? I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?" you'll go blind | |||
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"When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you? I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?" Exactly what I want to hear, thank you, that’s reassuring! I will worry no longer | |||
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"When I was 16 I could wank 4-5 times a day. I didn’t worry about it then so why are you? I love porn and usually watch it every day. So what?" I still do wank that many times a day | |||
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"Hi everyone, I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now. I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely. I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff. So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years. Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive! Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this.. Thank you! " Simples... chastity device... give the keys to good female friend to look after for a month.. you'll go cold turkey for a week or do. But will find life opens up a whole new world afterward... | |||
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"Hi everyone, I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now. I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely. I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff. So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years. Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive! Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this.. Thank you! " Don’t worry about it. If you cannot get aroused without the porn or starting yourself off, then you have a problem. I literally pull myself around my flat | |||
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"Hi everyone, I’d like your view point on something. I love having fun, and playing and enjoy and love sex! For many circumstances I’m not in a relationship right now so not having the full intercourse at the moment but solo play is ok for now. I’ve been playing by myself for many years now since I was around 17 I think? Maybe less than that.. and I certainly do not do it everyday! Sometimes I’ve done it twice in a day but on average I’ll probably play by myself about 2, 3 maybe 4 times a week? Now the thing about this is that I will always watch something to get me aroused or to enjoy my play watching something porn wise... is this healthy? I have on the very odd and rare occasion not done this and played without anything completely. I do have a very specific genre of stuff I watch as I absolutely adore lingerie, stockings and suspenders etc so that will be my go to sort of stuff. So every time I play I will 99% of the time watch something to go with it. Is this bad? As I know that if you’re doing it all the time then that’s what you expect when you have sex, and I know myself I am fairly quick to climax but have got a bit better over the years. Just interested to know your viewpoints. I think if I was doing it everyday, I know there would be a problem but I’m not. And at the end of the day I just feel I have a high sex drive! Advice, tips, comments are all welcome down below and appreciate you taking the time to read this.. Thank you! Don’t worry about it. If you cannot get aroused without the porn or starting yourself off, then you have a problem. I literally pull myself around my flat " Same here, throw myself around like an empty tracksuit.... Couldn't tell you how many times I wank in a week. Sometimes it's none and sometimes it's 4 times in a day, just depends on my needs at the time, plus I haven't gone blind yet so all is good in the world | |||
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