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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

If I’m not receiving responses to any messages here, not getting any matches on other apps or sites, not had much luck in a club?! Can be quite demoralising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the other 100s of threads on the same subject mate

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Read the other 100s of threads on the same subject mate "

Thanks for the chocolate teapot reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you’re just going to be on your own forever.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

Lucky me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Read the other 100s of threads on the same subject mate

Thanks for the chocolate teapot reply "

Sorry did you want me to write your profile,take your pix and sort some meets out for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about banter don't take it to seriously if it's going to happen it'll happen nothing worse than a sea of downtrodden dudes

Just chill and be spontaneous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 100s of threads about the same thing and a load of info and advice on them...you asked for advice so I’m giving it....you just don’t seem willing to take it

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Get a girlfriend / wife and a couples profile. Easy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I’m not receiving responses to any messages here, not getting any matches on other apps or sites, not had much luck in a club?! Can be quite demoralising "

It can be demoralising and I can't see why you're not getting responses to be honest.

Maybe now is not your time and you need to step back, take a breather and stop looking for a bit.

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"There are 100s of threads about the same thing and a load of info and advice on them...you asked for advice so I’m giving it....you just don’t seem willing to take it

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Sometimes people just want to talk it through.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Easiest way to discribe it is unless your Brad pit you will be very lucky to get any kind of meet other than a blow job from a fab straight guy lol.

Too much choice for too little action with lots of picture hunter and fakes.

At some point you will find the right person but it could be a long slog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting responses to messages is not quite the nirvana you might think it is.

Doesn't guarantee you a meet.

If you want some form of interaction, play along on some of the games in the forum lounge. It isn't a guarantee of anything but it's a start.

Taoilor your messages to the profile, and make sure you have a profile with some info about you. A lot of women look at the profile first before reading the message.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Easiest way to discribe it is unless your Brad pit you will be very lucky to get any kind of meet other than a blow job from a fab straight guy lol.

Too much choice for too little action with lots of picture hunter and fakes.

At some point you will find the right person but it could be a long slog. "

Haha

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london


"There are 100s of threads about the same thing and a load of info and advice on them...you asked for advice so I’m giving it....you just don’t seem willing to take it

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Your advice isn’t constructive

Thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately...this is how life is..sometimes..

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