FabSwingers.com forum: Can you help with our search/profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello!

So we've been on here for a few months (have been swinging for about half a year in total) and we love the site. Very fun and exciting for us.

In the months that we've been doing this we've had a few meets with men that have been a lot of fun and really hot. However, S is very eager to play with a woman as it's something she hasn't experienced yet and that's where our problem starts. We've not had any luck with women at all. We've talked to a few couples but it hasn't really gone anywhere yet.

So I thought I'd come here to ask as advice. How is our profile? Would you message us? We understand that women get a rediculous ammount of messages on here so we just want to make sure we're doing everything right!

When we message we usually send face pics and try to be very casual but flirty at the same time, we usually say what we're into and what we're looking for.

Obviously we're still very new to this so any advice would be appreciated. Thanks x

By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Your profile is good, you sound great. If you were older and closer I'd certainly message you, good bi couples are proving hard to find!

I'd add some more interesting pics, they're a bit... too functional? show some personality and enthusiasm in them.

By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think your profile tells us anything about what you are looking for or what you would like to happen at a meet.

I also like to see some pics of a couple together.

Good luck.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think your profile tells us anything about what you are looking for or what you would like to happen at a meet.

I also like to see some pics of a couple together.

Good luck. "

Thank you! Think we're gonna have to get a bit more creative. Much appreciated!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above are relevant and good advice.

However, keeping mind, you are never going to please everyone.

Best of luck.