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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

It’s quite difficult to come back from this one but wanting a second round shows it wasn’t all bad!

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

Take the blame upon yourself in some way, for instance say you have a terrible phobia of orgasms and couldn't cope with how good he made you feel

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

An open frank discussion with them maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tells me anything 'quite aggressively' reconciling after that is a tough task. I'm not a fan of unnecessary aggression.

And if soneone told me aggressively I was a shit shag I'd probably fuck them off out of my life at the first opportunity. And that's nothing to do with male ego and certainly nothing tp do with fragility of the ego just simple self respect and how i expect people to interact with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they couldn’t of been that bad if you want to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the blame, say you want to try again, and tell them exactly what it is you want from them.

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

Depends on how much self respect they have. If they have any they'll tell you "quite aggressively" to go away.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends what was said but starting with a genuine apology would be a good place to begin - although being honest if it were me and someone was incapable of communicating something in non-aggressive terms then I'd be questioning how compatible we actually were, although do appreciate that sometimes in the heat of the moment things are said that aren't necessarily meant the way they came across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d start with a genuine apology. I wouldn’t expect much from it, but it’s a start... question is why are you looking to contact said person again if they made you feel you had to react as you did

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I’d start with a genuine apology. I wouldn’t expect much from it, but it’s a start... question is why are you looking to contact said person again if they made you feel you had to react as you did "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If, you have blurted something out which you think may have been a little bit too strong and you are looking to reconcile.. Maybe it's better left alone.. If he's not speaking to you and you make it up, what happens next time you're feeling un-satisfied.. Are you likely to hurt his feelings again.. Food for thought.. If you're unhappy maybe just shuffle along and accept you've fucked this one up..

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

I think the vast majority of men would not reconcile with you. For men, sexual prowess is key part of their self identity. I would be hurt if someone was rude about my sexual performance. Perhaps the most important question for you is why you acted the way you did? Why say something hurtful to a partner knowing that is would be hurtful to him? Knowing how to be respectful about your partner and improving your time with them will be more important for you than whether you reconciled with your friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

Ignore them, they are foolish. Some men only thinking with their downstairs area. Ive got no ego boosting lines, nice profile btw with a canny set of photos

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I think you should just leave the poor guy alone.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch

Ignore them, they are foolish. Some men only thinking with their downstairs area. Ive got no ego boosting lines, nice profile btw with a canny set of photos "

How do you know they are they foolish and only thinking with their downstairs area when the OP hasn't actually given any detail about what was said or the guys actual reaction, or anything at all really apart from her OP, which suggests she knows she was the one in the wrong?

Regardless of whether it was a guy or a lady on the receiving end, someone expressing their disappointment in an aggressive way would not normally be taken well and have nothing to do with only thinking with their downstairs area.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I say leave the poor guy alone. God knows what youve done to his confidence

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By *ichaelsmyMan
over a year ago

douglas

I've got to ask, what weren't you satisfied with?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

With a gorgeous body like yours , this is not white knighting: they must have been do crap!

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

You outta pocket just move on and let the dude be healed wit time

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch

With a gorgeous body like yours , this is not white knighting: they must have been do crap!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit shags go both ways maybe the other person thought the same thing

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch

With a gorgeous body like yours , this is not white knighting: they must have been do crap!"

Having a gorgeous body isn't a guarantee of a good shag.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

What was the context- where were you when it was said and who did u say it to?

And what was said?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on the receiving end , had my confidence killed, you'd be told politely to fuck off if it were me, the damage is done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is commonly known as Bull S**t...

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Tell them your fantasy didn't live up to reality and that you over hyped it in your mind ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes two to make good sex or any form of positive relationship work.

If you display such aggressive negative behaviour towards another why would they ever wish to become more involved with you?

That's nothing to do with male ego, it's just common humanity. Perhaps a little humility and an apology may work, but I wouldn't hold your breath waiting for him to come rushing back to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"

Leave it alone, I once upset someone in a d*unken moment and there really is no going back not matter how much I apologise. I take much more care these days.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"If I've told someone I'm disappointed in bed,quite aggressively, is there any way to reconcile? Need ego boosting lines please lol I'm a tasteless bitch"
Depends what you said, like there's not much coming back from "that was pathetic, and simply the worst shag I've ever had....loser"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not offer to show him what you would actually prefer him to be doing to make you happy. He'd get the ego boost and you'd get better sex, win win.

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