FabSwingers.com forum: any Advice would be appreciated

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not been on here that long and finding it pretty frustrating.

After a recent meet with a nice lady who told me to message more so I tried this and had 3/4 messages just deleted in recent hours

I’m a decent looking chap so always send a pic and a decent polite message based on what these women are looking for.

Too not even get a reply is one thing to be just deleted is a joke when all you do is be polite respectful and not just message filth or cock pics which is the majority of cases they say they will just block or delete

What am I doing wrong here?

Please feel free to view my pics ladies any advise from anyone would be great

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Not been on here that long and finding it pretty frustrating.

After a recent meet with a nice lady who told me to message more so I tried this and had 3/4 messages just deleted in recent hours

I’m a decent looking chap so always send a pic and a decent polite message based on what these women are looking for.

What am I doing wrong here?

Please feel free to view my pics ladies any advise from anyone would be great "

You might be doing nothing wrong but don't have the qualities the people you're messaging are looking for.

Ps from my point of view pics are less important than a well crafted profile that excites my interest.

Good luck.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Ignoring messages and/ or deleting them means “not interested” but is too time consuming to write responses for every message some women and couples receive. Plus quite often invites an abusive response.

As has been said on many other threads, socials and clubs are the best way to get yourself known. You are one of many many men so you have to make yourself stand out in your own individual way. Check out successful guys profiles for ideas.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have anything on your profile. What are you looking for, what do you like, what do you have to offer?

Hypothetically - why should I meet *you* over the other 30/40/50 men who are also messaging me?

You have a good range of pictures, including face pictures, and you are verified which is a good start. But you have to understand that it isn't often easy for single men on here, regardless of what they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply’s your informative input has been greatly received

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