FabSwingers.com forum: Beppy sponges

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

TMI alert*

Hey ladies. I would like advice please.

I have bought some beppy sponges and have a meet today and want to use one. Just put it in and can't see how I can have sex comfortably with it inserted.

Can I have experiences from others that use them please? And from gents maybe that have had sex with women using them.

Thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Is it in far enough? I have (the wet ones mind), and it's like there's nothing there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe that could be the issue. Worried I will push it in so far I won't be able to get it out. Ha ha I will try pushing it in some more.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You may struggle to get it out, particularly if the sex is vigorous. I usually do, but get it out eventually. Follow the instructions, don't panic, try a few different positions.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I can still feel mine when it's in... but guys dont seem to notice it.

It does need to fit a certain distance inside though. But I've been using these for many years now and have found them to be a god send x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

They're definitely brilliant. I've used them about ten times.

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By *0missj00Woman
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I've used them before and find that partners can't tell you have one in.

That said, I had a rather vigorous experience that led to a real panic of not being able to get it out......a long soak in the bath to help sorted that though (made the sponge full of water!)

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Excuse my ignorance what are they??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've used them before and find that partners can't tell you have one in.

That said, I had a rather vigorous experience that led to a real panic of not being able to get it out......a long soak in the bath to help sorted that though (made the sponge full of water!)

Ooh!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Excuse my ignorance what are they??

Stringless tampons which are difficult to be detected during sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all. If this works then I will be one happy lady. No lonely week once a month. Lol. And I always get particularly horny when on my period so hopefully these will be a life saver.

Can i ask also do you all still get as wet? Still squirt?

Sorry sound like total noob. Ha ha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't squirt anyway, but apart from any period related soreness that might normally interfere, there's no real difference.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Excuse my ignorance what are they??

Stringless tampons which are difficult to be detected during sex"

Arrr thanks so it still allows you play time lol

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I've used them before and find that partners can't tell you have one in.

That said, I had a rather vigorous experience that led to a real panic of not being able to get it out......a long soak in the bath to help sorted that though (made the sponge full of water!)

Ooh! "

Orgasms can also help to relax the area and help nudge it down

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Oh Lord, how am I just finding out about these?

Ladies, thankyou!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Oh Lord, how am I just finding out about these?

Ladies, thankyou!"

They're a bit of a learning curve. Thank me after you've used one and got it out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are really good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a pervy guys pov go natural just play without

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"From a pervy guys pov go natural just play without "

Don't want to

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

"From a pervy guys pov go natural just play without "

None of the guys I’ve been with have wanted to do this.

I haven’t used beppy sponges but have used natural sea sponge. The guys couldn’t tell. I did have a slight issue getting one out though!

Ms x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Ladies who have used them, how do you find they cope flow wise?

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

The natural sea sponges work best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolute bloody god send!!!

100% worth it.

total pain in the ass to try and get out (bath helps / different positions / don't panic).

i use the 'wet' ones, and find them extremely comfortable... no one has ever known! If you're uncomfortable, or can still feel it, I'd reposition. Make sure you have the little 'hook ' bit at the end.

flow wise, personally, i don't get as long with one as someone 'lighter' might get.. but still a good few hours!

enjoy OP.. Took me agesssss before i found out about them!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ladies who have used them, how do you find they cope flow wise? "

4 hours on a heavy day, full club night otherwise.

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

"I've used them before and find that partners can't tell you have one in.

That said, I had a rather vigorous experience that led to a real panic of not being able to get it out......a long soak in the bath to help sorted that though (made the sponge full of water!)

To be honest I can tell every time the girl has sponges, but kept quite, not to embarrass the girl.

That is probably because my wife has asked me few times to help her get them out. I remember the first time she used them, she got real panic, in the bathroom, and screamed my name for help. Felt like a hero, taking it out.

Talking to her, they are real life savers, when the unexpected/unplanned happens, and when we are on holiday, and mother nature, decides to sync.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're brilliant. When it comes to getting them out part I found to be easiest to squat in the bath tub and get water in with the shower hose (without the shower head obviously). It pretty much falls out by itself with the weight of the water and a bit of muscle squeeze like pushing a baby out.

Mrs

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I used these years ago as I had 3 months of constant bleeding!

If it's in high enough it should be against your cervix so you shouldn't feel it. If it's not high enough it might not be as effective. You physically can't put it too high as your cervix will prevent it going any further.

It can be tricky to get out after sex as sex can push it round the sides of your cervix where it's harder to reach but if you squat and get your fingers in until you reach your cervix just try feeling round to the sides of it in all directions and you'll find it. I've always managed to get it with a bit of finger wiggling but thanks for the bath tip ladies!

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

I bloody love a Beppy! Especially good for a romantic weekend away on an unfortunate date...

I've never had any leakage through one, and never been able to feel it when it's in, although putting them in can be a bit of a rummage (I've only used the dry ones - it's just like a regular disc sponge).

Getting it out, oh boy! Pretty undignified, and quite a bloodbath (excuse the TMI). But all in all an excellent addition to the sex drawer.

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