FabSwingers.com forum: Married singles and FWB

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m unsure on whether to revamp my profile, which I don’t really want to do, or to seek another approach to find a FWB type arrangement, so I wondered if anyone had tried or could recommend any mobile apps that work?

I’ve had a look a a few, and as soon as I’m honest about being married, my profile gets rejected, any recommendations?

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

"I’m unsure on whether to revamp my profile, which I don’t really want to do, or to seek another approach to find a FWB type arrangement, so I wondered if anyone had tried or could recommend any mobile apps that work?

I’ve had a look a a few, and as soon as I’m honest about being married, my profile gets rejected, any recommendations?"

Your pics are poor, and you have effectively make made anal a requirement of those you are wanting to meet. Both of these things alone will probably rule most people out from being interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your feedback, but my photos are as they are for discretion, a private message always gets a face picture.

My needs are what I seek, and what I believe to be honest. My post was seeking advice on any other avenues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's against site rules to discuss competing websites

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

"Thanks for your feedback, but my photos are as they are for discretion, a private message always gets a face picture.

My needs are what I seek, and what I believe to be honest. My post was seeking advice on any other avenues."

Well if you think your photos are good enough so be it. There are plenty of ways of having better photos without disclosing your identity.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please don’t think that your comments were not appreciated and taken on board, they were, thank you.

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By *ust_A_Tease_To_PleaseWoman
over a year ago

South Wales: Newport, Chepstow

For me, you being married isn't an issues so long as everyone knows about each other.

But the fact you focus on discretion indicates to me your partner isn't aware of your activities with others and that's what turns me off.

I don't judge I don't know your situation but I also have no interest in the kind of prople willing to do that to others. That is my personal choice. I know there are some who enjoy playing with married folk in secret, so there are those who see this as a positive.

But for me, by subjecting your partner to risks they are unaware of through your activities I believe you disregard their ability to makes choices, and put their health at risk without their knowledge or consent.

And I don't want anything to do with people willing to do that to others.

Being married isn't a problem, lying and disregarding others is.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"For me, you being married isn't an issues so long as everyone knows about each other.

But the fact you focus on discretion indicates to me your partner isn't aware of your activities with others and that's what turns me off.

And I don't want anything to do with people willing to do that to others.

Being married isn't a problem, lying and disregarding others is."

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I've been the woman at home doing the boring shite while he played away. It's not for me, had I not had young kids I would have got rid sooner. Incidentally, women know something's going on.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Thanks for your feedback, but my photos are as they are for discretion, a private message always gets a face picture.

My needs are what I seek, and what I believe to be honest. My post was seeking advice on any other avenues."

I think it would be worth considering what your photos for. You could use them to show how you present yourself. Women like a guy to be well-dressed. If you had some photos of you dressed (casual and smart) they would get a better idea of what they would see if they met you and the effort you put in. I mean nice photos in pleasant locations and not just selfies. Most (I think) women are not going to be imagining you naked at first. Give them something to unwrap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really looking for FWB just a FB really ... perhaps change your thinking around what you're looking for?

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