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Hotwife meeting with 'vanilla' guys

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By *aughty Fallen Angel OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampton Court

Hello fellow fabbers. Does anyone have any experience or guidance on meeting guys for the wife, in context of hotwifing, at a bar or club etc, where the guy isn't on Fabs?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

She should take off her wedding ring and sit on her own.

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By *pmsldCouple
over a year ago

kettering

Don't know about picking guys up from the bar but you could try somthing like tinder or one of the dating sites. Otherwise go to a bar and your wife can approach people she likes the look of..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs has done this a couple of times, doesn’t really float our boat though cause invariably she’s too shy to ask about taking pics and although I love her getting laid and the stories, we really enjoy the sending photos and videos aspect of her meeting alone as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a ridiculous flirt if I see someone I like even in a couple situation I'll chat and flirt and take it from there

I'm a cheeky chap though and definitely get away with more than I should I've just got one of them smiles apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fellow fabbers. Does anyone have any experience or guidance on meeting guys for the wife, in context of hotwifing, at a bar or club etc, where the guy isn't on Fabs?"

Happy to meet and pretend I'm not on Fabs.

Just saying... The offer's there!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"She should take off her wedding ring and sit on her own. "

I’d imagine this is the only realistic way it’s going to happen. Never seen a couple approach a vanilla guy in a bar etc and I suspect most vanilla blokes would be far too nervous/wary to follow through with it.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Hello fellow fabbers. Does anyone have any experience or guidance on meeting guys for the wife, in context of hotwifing, at a bar or club etc, where the guy isn't on Fabs?"

Flik is often approached when on her own and when we are together it's quite often that she is chatted up while I'm at the bar or elsewhere....and sometimes while I'm sat with her so I would think it would be fairly easy...at least in our experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow I’d live to be the vanilla,

I’m new and have never been introduced to anything like this before.

Hot wife seems a great place to start

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"She should take off her wedding ring and sit on her own. "

Alternatively...sit near a "target" and take the wedding ring off in full view....

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Not sure why, but our experience is when my HW is sitting on her own, wearing her wedding ring doesn't seem to make any difference, just the opposite in fact....particularly in hotel bars!!

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"She should take off her wedding ring and sit on her own.

Alternatively...sit near a "target" and take the wedding ring off in full view.... "

Now that does sound wicked, not to mention soooooo horny!!

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By *aithlessangelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"She should take off her wedding ring and sit on her own. "

I find I have enough luck with my ring on.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

I have heard of ankle bracelets to give a sign.

She has to start flirting perhaps herself.

Plenty of Fab chaps here like to play with a Lady with or without the male half being present.

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England

My first ever threesome was with a couple I met through my work - of all places. I was going through my divorce at the time, and on my own at a works "do" at a hotel, with an empty chair next to me.

Suffice to say, after dancing and flirting with her (whilst her husband winked his tacit approval) I ended up in their room for a "nightcap" and I ended up seeing them for 4 kink filled years till I met my ex.

I still wank on the memories.

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By *ddyansianCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We've done this a few times as others have said, Sian is often chatted up. Then it's just a case of finding out if the guy is ok with 3som. Ring never an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try buying a hot wife ankle bracelet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has done this plenty of times, she’s even met a guy frim twitter it’s just like any hookup really.

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