FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on both a couples and single female account

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, it’s Zara here.

We’ve both been swinging together as a couple for years and still enjoy it.

I am now setting up a female account to have my own solo adventures as well as keep the couples account for both of us.

Any advice from females who have a couples and a single account would be appreciated.

I can pay my own way and don’t need to fall in love with anybody.

I just want to go out when in the mood and have fun with girls and guys.

Husband is fine with this and has his own solo fun. Our dynamic is quite rare but healthy for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, it’s Zara here.

We’ve both been swinging together as a couple for years and still enjoy it.

I am now setting up a female account to have my own solo adventures as well as keep the couples account for both of us.

Any advice from females who have a couples and a single account would be appreciated.

I can pay my own way and don’t need to fall in love with anybody.

I just want to go out when in the mood and have fun with girls and guys.

Husband is fine with this and has his own solo fun. Our dynamic is quite rare but healthy for both of us."
I'm doing the same and have been for a wee while.

Stick to what your looking for and dont budge!

Give your husband the password to your account so he wont feel out of it totally and be trusting.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only speak for myself but TBH I found it a pretty soulless and lonely experience when I set up a solo profile and only lasted a few weeks before I deleted it.

We get a lot of messages as a couple but I was totally unprepared for the amount I received on my solo one which ranged from the lovely to the downright abusive/persistent. It was a real eye opener, especially as I was only interested in couples or females. The amount of fake profiles was ridiculous.

Having said that, I know females on here that have done this and absolutely love it.

Hope it all goes well for you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a single's profile for about half a year and have met a few people. Husband had the password and could see exactly what I was up to as well as me telling him. The one thing that I found wasn't working for me was that I would have liked husband to meet the people I was meeting. I mean meet them for social only so he knows who I'm about to go play with on my own. It's like a comfort thing that he's seen them, spoke with them and is happy I'll be safe with them. However I couldn't suggest that on a singles profile.

Mrs

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

We both have our own accounts - nothing hidden, both can access if needed; just be prepared to be inundated on your singles profile

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

I found it much easier just to arrange meets via the couples account when this was my situation.

The ammount of mail a single woman's account gets is just soul destroying

Ms Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a single profile as well as a couples and have found that some men will message both not realising its the same woman on both,but he will send a respectful message to the couples profile thinking that its probably going to be the man who replies but the message they send to my single profile will be smutty and crude right from the first message,needless to say they go straight on the block list

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everybody for contributing. You’ve all been very helpful and I’ve taken bits of learning from all your posts.

Zara

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