FabSwingers.com forum: The walk from the car park to the club door

By *hMyGawd OP Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was."

To this day I remember my first club on my own... I parked in the car park and sat there wondering what the hell I was doing with my life! And then I went in and realised - yep this is soooooo right!

Never looked back!

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I must be some sort of inhuman freak, because walking into the club was never the problem. Getting on the phone to talk to them before I went the first time (from the back of the office car park, hoping no one was around to overhear me) - that was hard. But once that was done, going was the most natural thing in the world. And everything that followed.

Thank you, past me, for taking that first step!

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It still gives us a tingle of excitement...

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Yes!!!!

It was 15 years ago but I remember driving around the block several times, then sitting in the car and my knees were literally shaking when I walked up to the club! An army of butterflies were doing their worst in my tummy and I nearly turned around several times.

Suffice to say, it was the best thing I ever did! lol

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was.

To this day I remember my first club on my own... I parked in the car park and sat there wondering what the hell I was doing with my life! And then I went in and realised - yep this is soooooo right!

Never looked back!"
I must say that's how we felt. 4 years on we have made so many friends been to weddings and holiday's we love the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was.

To this day I remember my first club on my own... I parked in the car park and sat there wondering what the hell I was doing with my life! And then I went in and realised - yep this is soooooo right!

Never looked back!I must say that's how we felt. 4 years on we have made so many friends been to weddings and holiday's we love the scene. "

Exactly this! Friends made and lives experienced!

Ps no idea how our paths haven’t crossed we have many friends in common!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was.

To this day I remember my first club on my own... I parked in the car park and sat there wondering what the hell I was doing with my life! And then I went in and realised - yep this is soooooo right!

Never looked back!"

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time we went to a club our hearts were absolutely racing and we actually found it hard to talk clearly when we checked in. After about 15 minutes in the club though we actually felt fairly relaxed and now it barely registers.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"It still gives us a tingle of excitement..."

I do have a bit of spring in my step if I know that certain people will be there...

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Getting to the club car park would be a triumph for us lol

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By *reeman76Man
over a year ago

oldbury

I love it, especially walking into a new club.

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By *ophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Slightly off topic... but one of the most memorable and hilarious sights was one of our friends parking down our road and walking up to our front door wearing a figure hugging dress, and porn star ‘glass’ shoes while the next door neighbors son was parking his car.... He’s never looked at us in the same way since... So walking up to a club is a doddle! Happy days!

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

I've been trying to pluck up the courage to visit a club for a while now, but haven't made it yet. As a respectful, slightly shy single man, I've noticed that single women and male/female couples on here often have a hard time from the 'fancy a fuck in ten minutes' brigade. I'd hate to be perceived in the same way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We sat in the car giggling like school kids, saying shall we go in not go,in, go home absolutely bricking it. BUT so glad we didnt as love the club we've been to so far, everyone has been so nice and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any advice for someone like me?

Only i am planning on going to go to a club for the first time this year (it was a new years resoultion)

Only i don't want to get to the car park and just freak out with nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any advice for someone like me?

Just keep in mind that everyone is there for fun. Go with no expectations other than meeting new people and being social with them and making new friends and you'll be fine. If anything we find the club scene easier than socialising in vanilla life as we always have something in common to talk to others about.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Both sat in the car proper nervous, debating wether to go in or just go back to the hotel.

So glad we went it, best nights fun ever

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

The excitement never goes away....we get excited every time we go.....love just being amongst people “of our own kind”..... and when have to leave it always feels so weird having to dress in normal vanilla clothes again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember my first time I travelled 2 hours. Finally found it, and then thought should I shouldn’t I....so glad I did it was amazing, had so much fun giving and receiving, walked away, bedraggled knees knocking but the biggest smile ever, would always advise first timers to go through with it.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

My first ever swinging event was a social near Waterloo railway station in London. A pub called the Paper Moon if I recall correctly. I couldn`t run back to the car as it was back in Dorset, me having gone to London by train. Yes, the door handle to the pub was certainly opened with some trepidation!

Thankfully, my first club visits were with those who`d been before!

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was."

Agree! Its all part of the excitement, a mixture of nerves and anticipation! It still holds the same appeal to us, 13 years after we went to our first club. The only difference now is we wheel in rather than walk in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the nerves don't kick in until after I've made it past reception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female going in alone, I still haven't plucked up the courage to go...one day

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By *aughty50sCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"As a female going in alone, I still haven't plucked up the courage to go...one day

You'll do it!

If it's just the act of walking in alone that is stopping you, find a friendly couple to meet for a drink beforehand and walk in with you. We were all first timers once

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Only the very first time.

No nerves at all after that.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I never had any nerves at all, but Anita did.

Cal

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Our first club visit saw us sat in the carpark for about 20 minutes trying to find the nerve to get out and walk over to the door. Then it was another ten stood outside the door trying to be brave enough to ring the bell

Obviously they could see us on the monitor

These days it's OK, apart from when we have to queue outside on a busy night!

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Is it the same asking the taxi to drop you at the club? I bet it causes a few raised eyebrows!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The club I visited, I parked almost right outside the door, counted to 3, jumped out and rang the bell. Was as nervous as heck going inside, filling out the membership etc, but once inside, was rather underwhelmed. It felt like a Sunday afternoon in a working men’s club, than what I imagined a Friday night in a swingers club might be! Quite the anti-climax really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without a doubt the first time we attended a club was pretty much our first venture into swinging too.Nerve racking is an understatement but really so glad we took the steps through the door.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve had some interesting experiences walking from a club back to the car; the amount of guys parked up outside who wind their windows down as you walk past and ask “Any women in mate?” Or the time outside LC in Sheffield when an Asian lad in a BMW offered to take me to a brothel down the road......

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's when you have to tell the taxi driver where you want taking to, then ask if you've had a good night when they pick you up.

Awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's when you have to tell the taxi driver where you want taking to, then ask if you've had a good night when they pick you up.

Awkward!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It's when you have to tell the taxi driver where you want taking to, then ask if you've had a good night when they pick you up.

Awkward!

Worse than that; the time me and my lady friend were collected from Chams, and the taxi driver trying to invite himself in to our hotel room because “some couples don’t like the fun to end”, and, looking at me, “have you ever had bi sex? You should always try new things.....”

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"It's when you have to tell the taxi driver where you want taking to, then ask if you've had a good night when they pick you up.

Awkward!

That's made me chuckle. I taje it you dragged him up to your room without any hesitation

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It's when you have to tell the taxi driver where you want taking to, then ask if you've had a good night when they pick you up.

Awkward!

That's made me chuckle. I taje it you dragged him up to your room without any hesitation

Oh yes of course! Can’t believe that taxi couldn’t go any faster!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was."

Oh thats the part i love. Im always bursting with excitement

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By *uck role-playMan
over a year ago

Bolton

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was.

To this day I remember my first club on my own... I parked in the car park and sat there wondering what the hell I was doing with my life! And then I went in and realised - yep this is soooooo right!

Never looked back!"
me too lol

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

You want to try being a bloke in a dress and walking into a new club on your own, it's so scary,, but I love it. Xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Any advice for someone like me?

Only i am planning on going to go to a club for the first time this year (it was a new years resoultion)

Only i don't want to get to the car park and just freak out with nerves

I'd advise going to an organised social near the club venue first. Go there with the sole intention of talking to as many people as possible. That way, when you go to the club you will likely know people there. It doesn't have to be people you want to play with/who want to play with you but it starts your network, and that's what it's all about

Good luck

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I’ve never been to a club due to nerves but have driven past the local one several times wondering whether to go in. The one thing I’m nervous about is standing there on my own & no-1 talking to me.

Any advice would be great.

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I only been once still nervous if you would like to go together as a social happy to try z clubbdobu drive so quest leeds or could share my car

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"As a female going in alone, I still haven't plucked up the courage to go...one day

Only been to club once nervous.

Like to try adain would be happy if we went as, a social to help each other. If you don't want to go local heard quest great in Leeds and friendly please mail me. Nice profike

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

I’m a mature straight guy have often thought about going but never found the courage i am now widowed so finding a club for single straight guys seems more difficult

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"As a female going in alone, I still haven't plucked up the courage to go...one day

Only been to club once nervous.

Like to try adain would be happy if we went as, a social to help each other. If you don't want to go local heard quest great in Leeds and friendly please mail me. Nice profike"

Wouldn't it be better for a newbie to go with someone experienced?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"As a female going in alone, I still haven't plucked up the courage to go...one day

Do it you won’t regret it.....

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

I’m surprised that there are no small groups of people that get together might be easier for us inexperienced people I think it’s the only way forward as nobody seems to want single mature gent we seem to be redundant it’s the age thing I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be joking.

There were 2 coppers outside our local club dealing with a car incident and the Mrs was having banter with em and eyeing em up in their uniforms, so definitely not for us haha.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We had one taxi driver drop us at a club and mention he might drop in later, true to his word he did and enjoyed playing with B in the club. Needless to say we booked him to take us to our hotel later but did not invite him in and he did not ask.

Business and pleasure kept separate, but an enjoyable time in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was the most irritating part early on last night because I walked it three bloody times, what with the parking procedures!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"I’m surprised that there are no small groups of people that get together might be easier for us inexperienced people I think it’s the only way forward as nobody seems to want single mature gent we seem to be redundant it’s the age thing I suppose "

We had arranged to meet a couple to go in with that had been before. There’s usually a chat about certain nights/clubs up and people are very friendly about going in together. We had offers of sharing a taxi from hotel as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hoping to go to a club soon for the very first time with someone I’ve met up with a few times from here. I have a mixture of excitement and nerves of the unknown and I have no clue what to expect but I can just imagine how nervous I will be walking from the car to the club

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m hoping to go to a club soon for the very first time with someone I’ve met up with a few times from here. I have a mixture of excitement and nerves of the unknown and I have no clue what to expect but I can just imagine how nervous I will be walking from the car to the club "

Have an open mind. You will enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have an open mind. You will enjoy it. "

I will try my best. And I do hope so

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By *ussgbrMan
over a year ago

Burton

Most definitely, in fact got to the door the first time and turned around and went back to the car! Glad I managed to pluck up the courage to go back and walk in lol

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Ive done it a few times, fully dressed too, scary but also a huge turn on xx

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I was nervous as I live about 20 minutes drive in the car away and worried I may bump into someone I know from outside of Fabs.Just over 2 years later I have yet to bump into anyone who I know outside of Fabs.The walk from car to club was fine was able to find the club after a few minutes.My most nerves are I will come across someone I know from outside Fabs but I deal with it as and when.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

When we went to cj’s, the car park is pretty dark and covered from the main road, but we still saw some women going in with suspender tops showing etc. Mrs was worried her outfit was too revealing. Will definitely have something riskier on next time

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By *ust fun9TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

It can be daunting. I parked up and wanted to go in so much but the 'butterflies' got the better of me.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Any advice for someone like me?

Only i am planning on going to go to a club for the first time this year (it was a new years resoultion)

Only i don't want to get to the car park and just freak out with nerves

Look at status wemon often post when they going to clubs and looking for socials/meets, just dont expect to be going in with them and playing.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I loved those early butterflies. I wish I could get them back. Occasionally if I go to a new club I get them as my car approaches the car park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just thinking along lines of no expectations at all.

I am just going to go and have a few drinks, chat with a few people and generally get over any nerves that i have.

Then if something happens its a bonus, but if it doesnt it doesn't

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

"Ive done it a few times, fully dressed too, scary but also a huge turn on xx"

"This"

Its an amazing buzz.

For anyone going to a club for the first time you will be amazed at how friendly and accommodating everyone is.

Most clubs are not dingy and sleazy but open and clean.

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By *wosWoman
over a year ago

east london

Wow I think I still have our badges somewhere from social at paper moon .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby drove me to the attic just before Christmas.. I was shaking walking alone across the carpark.. but was made to feel very welcome. And will deffo be going back to play soon...

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We love the feeling of nervousness, excitement and trepidation that we feel on going to a new club. It is part of the fun, we get really excited and then get to go in and have some real fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a brilliant thread, we haven't been there as yet, but judging by the comments on here it's very obviously a unique experience. Kind of like a 1st day at school, nervous excitement scenario. Have rally enjoyed reading the responses.. Love out to you all. Xx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Definitely for me the most scary part and it really has bridged over a decade now, unfortunately including a full over in a club car park from not changing into the correct shoes for the occasion once I arrived in the club. I have learnt a lot....!!!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

And now, when I do that walk from the car park to the club, if there's anyone who looks like they might need a little bit of support, I'm very keen to offer them a friendly smile and help them in.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

I have taken a few women to their first club experience. I try to be as encouraging and reassuring as possible and there’s always a conversation in advance to explain what to expect.

What I always say to new people, is that in addition to the no expectations part, the best thing to do is to say that they won’t play, as it’s their first time. That helps take the pressure off the nervous and I’ve known other partners who just jump straight in after an hour or so; the nerves being replaced by wetness that needs exploring!

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

As far as the walk part, I took one partner who was virtually catatonic in the taxi - she was frozen and could only utter the words “just get me over the threshold I’ll be fine” I offered several times to get the taxi to turn around but she was determined to do it. I had to support her as she got out of the taxi as her legs had gone.

Once inside, she was the focus of a lot of attention. We played ourselves but she decided she didn’t like anybody else on offer. However the sex afterwards in the hotel with the adrenaline still pumping, thinking of all the attention and opportunities, was animalistic, frantic and fantastic

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By *ESElondonMan
over a year ago

London

My first club last summer was a lunchtime event, and I was absolutely petrified.. Had a midday gin and tonic on the way (no I didn't drive!) and told myself not to stress, I didn't need to do anything, just gonna see what it's like.. Ten minutes after arriving the vibe was so welcoming I was already naked having a threesome in front of a room full of people!

My advice would be look for a club which says there's no obligation to even get undressed, that way you know you can just dip out if it's not for you. I bet it will be for you once you're there though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay in my car in carpark outside a club for 3 hours

Too nervous to walk in on my own !

2 weeks later just went for it

Felt so welcome by the other girls there

That was two years ago

Still get a little nervous now though

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

We was the same we got a taxi around the corner and walked around to the attic we was so nervous as we walked in and paid they asked us if we wanted a tour and we agreed and it really helped although we still get nervous just walking in then it kinda goes..

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Even though it was more years ago than I would like, I remember my first walk to a club door as if it was yesterday.

The club was on quite a busy road and as I walked towards the door everyone was looking at me, pointing fingers, and giggling behind their hands.

Cars driving past slowed down so that they could look at me and laugh, and I just knew that my photo would be on the front page of the local paper the very next day.

All total bollox, but that is exactly how it felt.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Always a little nervous but we both soon relax once inside, don't know why we have been a fair few times and in fairly descrete location

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"My first club last summer was a lunchtime event, and I was absolutely petrified.. Had a midday gin and tonic on the way (no I didn't drive!) and told myself not to stress, I didn't need to do anything, just gonna see what it's like.. Ten minutes after arriving the vibe was so welcoming I was already naked having a threesome in front of a room full of people!

You lucky, lucky man! That’s the kind of first time club experience we all dream of......

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

The thing with us is if you spot someone you know before you get in the club once in the club it doesn't seem to matter then for some reason.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

"Without a doubt the first time we attended a club was pretty much our first venture into swinging too.Nerve racking is an understatement but really so glad we took the steps through the door.

Same for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was less nerves more didnt want to trip in my heels in uneven carpark lol

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

For me, the most nerve-wracking part is walking through door. Everyone in the place stops dead and stares. It's like a scene out of a western – piano player stops playing, barman stops polishing glasses... I'm still half expecting someone to drawl "We don't see many strangers in these here parts..."

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

My first visit to a club.

On my own I walked across the car park fully dressed in a bright yellow dress, heart beating SO hard, that feeling of panic thinking everyone in the world was going to laugh at me.

I walked into the club and tried to fill out the member form, hand shaking and I darnt look at anyone.

I walked into the bar and bought a drink, couldn't pick it up as so shaky.

Within the first couple of minutes a man came over and his first words "Hi, you look amazing" we chatted for a couple of minutes ,he took my hand, led me into a private room and I got on my knees and sucked him off until he came in my mouth.

This all in the first 15 minutes of entering the club.

It wad a whirlwind experience and a bigger buzz than any Alton towers ride.

I am quite shy and even now I feel nervouse when I walk into a club.

I would so recommend the club experience to anyone, everyone is so friendly xx

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I also get very nervous but a MASIVE buzz walking out of the hotel fully dolled up going to a club xx

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By *aimeSmithTV/TS
over a year ago

Cliss

"I also get very nervous but a MASIVE buzz walking out of the hotel fully dolled up going to a club xx "

You look amazing xx

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Much more nervous on a social tbh...

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"Much more nervous on a social tbh..."

Hi u a model u look 34

Whan u next at a club

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was."

I agree, nerves anticipation and excitement. On my first visit to club SX I popped into the mini supermarket nearby on my way in, made me giggle, a few couple's were clearly on their way too judging from the ladies attire, eg seamed stockings etc. Sure enough a few moments later there they were in the club! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pulled into a clubs carpark and a police car followed us in parked up next to us got out and knocked on hubbys window apparntly he had commited a couple of minor traffic violations

the officers faces as we were off to a school theme night and we both had to get out of car im dressed as a very nawty schoolgirl n hubby not much better .... luckily police found it hilarious said i guess u not from round here and said have a good night in the club haha xx

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I drove for four hours to the Townhouse to attend a photography event. The whole way there, I was thinking “what the hell are you doing?”, especially when I was right near my old friends’ house who don’t live far away.

It was a daytime event and we had to wait outside until the club opened - all the other photographers had masses of expensive gear sand there was me with my battered, old, second-hand dSLR and an extra lens.

The anticipation was amazing when queuing up though and I had a real “yeah, life’s too short - sod it” moment.

The staff and regulars were so friendly (especially Morticia, who looked after me!) and it felt great once inside.

I’m really glad I did it, and it took away lots of the mystery. I’m pretty sure I’ll be nervous, but fine, when I go again. I’d just get a drink and chat to folks.

Being a bit philosophical - I soon felt that “world” was the honest, natural one and the “real world” outside was the ridiculous, stressful, unhinged one

If I can step inside a club, anyone can

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By *on12xxMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"What a brilliant thread, we haven't been there as yet, but judging by the comments on here it's very obviously a unique experience. Kind of like a 1st day at school, nervous excitement scenario. Have rally enjoyed reading the responses.. Love out to you all. Xx"

Have you tried club yet

Mrs looks 39

my and gf tried skype with 1 couple and 1 male wow never known gf so horny

She suggested social Skype Tuesday evening 9pm to midnight

Please let me know if u want to join

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"We pulled into a clubs carpark and a police car followed us in parked up next to us got out and knocked on hubbys window apparntly he had commited a couple of minor traffic violations

I hope they let you off the offences!

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Love the excitement!

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By *reemyspiritawakenmysoulWoman
over a year ago

coventry

First time nervous heart pounding!!!!! second time second time libertating!!!!!@ third time next sat excited ...tips ive bought a small wrist bag for card condoms lube sachets and lippy hands free

most of all enjoy the exp its not compulsory to play no thanks is clear enough and i go with a great friend to that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be me in a few weeks . My first club visit and I am absolutely bricking it ! Nerves and excitement . As I sit here writing this my belly’s doing flips and hairs standing up with excitement !

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was.

To this day I remember my first club on my own... I parked in the car park and sat there wondering what the hell I was doing with my life! And then I went in and realised - yep this is soooooo right!

Never looked back!"

SNAP

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

I must of walked from the my car to the door and then back to my car numerous times until someone opened the door as I walked up to it and they just say come on in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people take their camper vans and park in the carpark love it x

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

45 mins I sat in the car park - running the pros & cons through my mind.

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By *ESElondonMan
over a year ago

London

"This will be me in a few weeks . My first club visit and I am absolutely bricking it ! Nerves and excitement . As I sit here writing this my belly’s doing flips and hairs standing up with excitement ! "

Amazing!! Remember you don't have to do anything so no need to be nervous, and anything you do is a fantastic bonus! x

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By *iproperswingersCouple
over a year ago

Rainham

Don't know. Filling it up with fuel one-night on the way to bi night was fun.

Me in neon fishnet top and full makeup and lippy

And having to go in and pay.

You pore teen boy on the till did not know what to say.

Love it

Paul

Xxx

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over a year ago

"Don't know. Filling it up with fuel one-night on the way to bi night was fun.

Me in neon fishnet top and full makeup and lippy

And having to go in and pay.

You pore teen boy on the till did not know what to say.

Love it

Paul

Xxx"

Yep remember Chorley Services very well. Or when staying at a "hotel" and playing spot the swinger or giving each other a knowing wink over breakfast x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best part of the day is walking in an knowing how confident I am in myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me feel alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Yes they did thankfully We pulled into a clubs carpark and a police car followed us in parked up next to us got out and knocked on hubbys window apparntly he had commited a couple of minor traffic violations

I hope they let you off the offences!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I still get it and I have been going to clubs for years.

It’s when you get out of the taxi and the driver goes are you sure where your going!!!!!

Yes. In the days of Uber it’s less likely that you will get a taxi firm knowing what a place is but a lot of taxis still are a few mins from clubs to pick up both phoned taxis and Uber

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By *ust OralMan
over a year ago

Mattishall

I'll tell you on Sunday. Going to a club for the first time ever. A bit older than norm but terrified and excited at the same time. getting through the door will probably be a massive step. Once inside it will be a case of watch and wait and hope there is someone wants what I have to offer

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

I still remember our first club trip, we drove past a few times then parked the car!

Mrs sofa called for her mum as we got out the car

We made it in and never looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fortunately we never had the issue as we went along with a couple who were regulars at a club. It was a bit of a surprise at just how much we relaxed and enjoyed it. It wasn't really what I (Bloke) expected and only really went to say we'd tried it. That was a few years ago and we're still regular club goers.

We do say to people that message us about going to a club for the first time though that once you are through the door you'll wonder why you ever had any nerves in the first place, so do believe that making that first step can be the most difficult part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slightly off topic... but one of the most memorable and hilarious sights was one of our friends parking down our road and walking up to our front door wearing a figure hugging dress, and porn star ‘glass’ shoes while the next door neighbors son was parking his car.... He’s never looked at us in the same way since... So walking up to a club is a doddle! Happy days! "

I would have winked and said hello to them with the mrs wearing that outfit

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By *iproperswingersCouple
over a year ago

Rainham

"Don't know. Filling it up with fuel one-night on the way to bi night was fun.

Me in neon fishnet top and full makeup and lippy

And having to go in and pay.

You pore teen boy on the till did not know what to say.

Love it

Paul

Xxx

Yep remember Chorley Services very well. Or when staying at a "hotel" and playing spot the swinger or giving each other a knowing wink over breakfast x

Oooooh what were you doing at the services??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...is always the most nerve wrecking part!

Anyone else agree?

Not so much these days, but when we first started out it was."

Used to be nervous but now we are running to start the fun!

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