FabSwingers.com forum: What would you change

By *rcadian110 OP Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hi guys,

We are looking to meet some new couples this year but don't get many responses when we reach out and don't get many reaching out to us either. Looking at our profile what would you change?

We tried to make sure both of us are in our pics and don't think we are that unappealing lol.

We do prefer to meet socially first but happy to play if the attraction is there

Advice appreciated guys

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hi both, have you tried a club ? Liberty Elite have wonderful couples nights on a Saturday nights. It's a great place to mingle and make new fab friends

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By *rcadian110 OP Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Hi both, have you tried a club ? Liberty Elite have wonderful couples nights on a Saturday nights. It's a great place to mingle and make new fab friends"

Been to lachambre in Sheffield and absolutely love asylum in Rotherham. Almost all our meets have been through clubs. We get on with people face to face but online not so much interest I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile has lots of 'don'ts' but doesn't say a lot about what you'd like a couple to look like, and what you'd want to get up to. Try putting a more positive spin on things, perhaps?

Nice profile otherwise - cute pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile generally looks okay. The only thing I'd change (and it really is personal preference) is I'd take out all the "lol"s, I just don't like "text speak" in profiles.

Again though, that's just my personal preference and otherwise everything looks okay.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I think it's a good profile. Lots of information. I also have a couple's profile on here and we also find it really difficult to get meets or even replies from other couples via fab. Our meets tend to be club related on the whole. So it's not anything you are doing wrong.

My only suggestions are that picture monitors will spot the messy background on a couple of your photos. I am aware you are doing your house up, but try and get photos with a clear background if possible.

The fact you cannot accomodate, you are on the bigger side, you smoke and your age gap will put some people off....but you can't change that. But it could reduce the numbers interested in you.

I would remove the " lol" from your profile too.

I am nitpicking I know, just trying to give you my thoughts ....but overall it's a good profile, so just keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would take out the picture with all the clutter in it as it does not really portray a good image of yourself but if clubs are working for you then don’t fix it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a game of chance, your profile is fine.

It's easy to believe joining a site like this would instantly have meets and interest etc. It takes time, even to get some ones attention sometimes. I've found being patient the best. Take the place with a pinch of salt and enjoy it. Make friends, not just look for sex. Everyone on here is human. Good luck to you though, you seem decent and genuine, just be patient and it will happen

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By *rcadian110 OP Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Thanks guys, for now we have removed all the lols from our profile. Until I was getting rid of them I hadn't realised just how much it's become natural to use them. Bad habit I have to shake

And the picture with the messy background is now in private only. It was one of our first and neither of us really like ourselves in pictures (although I think Rhiannon is stunning myself

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Going to work on a total rewrite over the next week and try to show our personalities a bit more. We really are nice guys in person

Thanks again guys

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

You have 50 verifications can’t be that bad ? Your photos are good

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By *rcadian110 OP Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Adjusted our profile a little now. Any better?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Adjusted our profile a little now. Any better?"

Your cluttered background photo 11th Oct is still on view.

Text is better. It's quite lengthy, but explains what you are interested in. Not sure it says much about what you have to offer. Why would someone choose to meet you, rather than another couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adjusted our profile a little now. Any better?"

I'm still not 100% clear on what it is you're looking for, another couple? A single woman? If it's the latter then the bit about your lady could be a bit off putting since she's unlikely to reciprocate play with a single woman.

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By *rcadian110 OP Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Ok . Fixed the issues you guys pointed out I think. Thanks for the advice

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