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What's putting people off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

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Why do a lot of men think all women want a huge dick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The cycling trousers put me off otherwise all good ??

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

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You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cycling trousers put me off otherwise all good ?? "

I thought the same, sort of pics some gay men would have up to be fair

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By *urvy Girl 79Woman
over a year ago

Near Bourne

And you have a good few verifications. Uou're meeting people. What are you finding difficult OP?

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

Why do a lot of men think all women want a huge dick? "

I think it’s because there’s a fair number of female and couples profiles that ask for huge dicks that’s why, not even the majority so I don’t see why all men think all women want that but some read profiles from women saying they can’t feel it if it’s not 10 inches plus and it gets in their head

Personally I just ignore those profiles and move on!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Can't accommodate, not much free time, cycling trousers, already got veris but complaining you have no luck, complaining about all women wanting the same thing

Honestly, the worst thing you can do if you feel like you're not doing well on here is blame the people you're trying to meet.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

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Can’t say I want a Greek god with 18inch dick. But I would like someone that shows some art or excitement in their photos. Your pics are a bit samey and all shot in the bathroom. Which makes people a little suspect that you have a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

Why do a lot of men think all women want a huge dick? "

Every other profile I read specifies "looking for hung/VWE" haha. It's hard not to think that when the majority are asking for it haha x

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool


"The cycling trousers put me off otherwise all good ??

I thought the same, sort of pics some gay men would have up to be fair "

That's a very sweeping statement!

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

You’ve got a decent write up, clear with a bit of humour.

Don’t take this the wrong way but your pics look a bit basic. Extra points for not having just dick pics/balls deep in another fabber, but get creative with your pics. A black and white one always looks good !

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

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I'm no expert but what strikes me is that your profile text is totally unremarkable with a tinge of negativity. Forget all the things you don't mind and are happy to do and fit in with, rather think about where you excel and why it would be exciting to meet you. Good luck!

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here."

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him."

Yeah, I visited a club once just to see what it was like. The majority of the veri's are from people I spoke to there.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him.

Yeah, I visited a club once just to see what it was like. The majority of the veri's are from people I spoke to there."

So you’ve not been back to the club - looms line you were fairly successful in socialising on your one visit!!

That suggests you’d be ok in a club setting, which is much easier than trying to meet on fab ... is there a reason you didn’t go back? x

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Can't accom for my own reasons" Reads as you've got a wife or girlfriend. So people reaching that conclusion might not want to meet you as it could be indirectly hurting other people, perhaps even kids.

Your pics could be clearer too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him.

Yeah, I visited a club once just to see what it was like. The majority of the veri's are from people I spoke to there.

So you’ve not been back to the club - looms line you were fairly successful in socialising on your one visit!!

That suggests you’d be ok in a club setting, which is much easier than trying to meet on fab ... is there a reason you didn’t go back? x"
the cost probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him.

Yeah, I visited a club once just to see what it was like. The majority of the veri's are from people I spoke to there.

So you’ve not been back to the club - looms line you were fairly successful in socialising on your one visit!!

That suggests you’d be ok in a club setting, which is much easier than trying to meet on fab ... is there a reason you didn’t go back? x"

Time. Work often gets in the way. I tend to travel a lot for work

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him.

Yeah, I visited a club once just to see what it was like. The majority of the veri's are from people I spoke to there.

So you’ve not been back to the club - looms line you were fairly successful in socialising on your one visit!!

That suggests you’d be ok in a club setting, which is much easier than trying to meet on fab ... is there a reason you didn’t go back? xthe cost probably "

Townhouse doesn’t charge the earth for single guys

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

You have 6 verification in 8 months and your saying your not having any luck ... your having more than others on here.

5 veris are all from the same club night, to be fair to him.

Yeah, I visited a club once just to see what it was like. The majority of the veri's are from people I spoke to there.

So you’ve not been back to the club - looms line you were fairly successful in socialising on your one visit!!

That suggests you’d be ok in a club setting, which is much easier than trying to meet on fab ... is there a reason you didn’t go back? x

Time. Work often gets in the way. I tend to travel a lot for work "

Well it definitely seems like it’s a good fit for you ... and I t might be a better bet for you than fab meets!

Next time you’re looking for a meet, you should consider heading to a club night instead!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

There's nothing majorly wrong with the profile text other than its a bit unexciting .

The cannot accommodate thing can be a bit of a red flag as it makes people wonder why.

Pics are a bit samey and again not particularly inspiring/imaginative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

"

People can only tell yo what they would want so I wouldn't pay too much attention to what people have to say.... Rock those cycling shorts if you want!

But yeah what you're doing wrong is more to do with being born the wrong sex for instant gratification on here. It's also what makes the ladies very explicit about what they are looking for because they can receive up to 100 messages a day. If it's too frustrating try going back to the traditional ways of meeting women in the real world. Takes a lot more courage but the odds are definitely more in your favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Genuinely would appreciate some advice or feedback. What puts people off a profile? I've tried to be honest and open, but it seems that if a bloke doesn't have the body of a Greek God, or an 18 inch cock, hes got no chance on here hahahaha.

Why do a lot of men think all women want a huge dick?

Every other profile I read specifies "looking for hung/VWE" haha. It's hard not to think that when the majority are asking for it haha x"

Mine doesn’t say what kind of dick I’m looking for.

Send me a pic of your dick or have it as a profile pic and I’ll exclude you even if it’s the most amazing dick I’ve ever seen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for a friend, OP?

Not sure why the moaning thread as you've had meets on here..

But pictures could be more appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all individuals and what some people like, others don’t, and vice versa.

I would suggest to look at other guys profiles from a woman’s perspective. Pick out things that you think are good/bad about them and use those ideas to shape your profile with.

Profiles aren’t set in stone and are continually being updated as we grow.

And I agree with others on here.....clubs are a great way of meeting others especially if you don’t have much time (no profile required ) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get rid of all the "dad bod" stuff. Personally I don't like it when people are self deprecating, even if for humour; confidence is much sexier. If you don't come off like you find yourself attractive then how are others supposed to?

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