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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else feel sick when they see someone they regret having a meet with?

Completely ruined our night out, flash backs to a dreadful time.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I know we’ve never met lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we know that feeling, but it’s never ruined a night, mind you we tend to stay away from the local freaks who frequent VA/Jaydees by going elsewhere xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just started to play in a room. Turned round and saw them and lost all interest. Had to retreat to other end of the club to carry on. Really don’t want one bad meet to ruin all the good times we’ve had.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Now I know we’ve never met lol"

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

How bad was it...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" How bad was it...?"

Enough to make us feel sick last night. Not enjoyable at all. Just went through the motions because we wasn’t experienced at the time to say no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’ve learned from that. If it’s not right. It’s not happening.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We’ve learned from that. If it’s not right. It’s not happening. "
good attitude

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

I think we’ve been lucky that we are fairly new ish and every meet we’ve had has been great... but now I’m hoping it’s the same for the people we met with

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not feel sick as such but theres this one guy in our local scene who's a complete cock. We try to avoid him because seeing him makes me angry.

Back in june he was at a club with his then girlfriend. And he left her in such a state just to go and play with others. She needed to go to bed but they didnt play alone so he basically forced her to stay out. C spent the whole night sat with her looking after her so she didnt fall in the pool or get hurt!! And this blocked just left her, expected the hosts to look after her or told her newbie friend to do it. Theyve since split I think!! Because everytime we've seen him since hes been with a different woman. He really annoys me because of his lack of respect.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Probably a good idea to try and adjust your attitude. These people will probably be around if you all to go the same places and they sure as hell aren't going to change.

If something happened that makes you feel sick of angry every time you see someone that isn't good

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Probably a good idea to try and adjust your attitude. These people will probably be around if you all to go the same places and they sure as hell aren't going to change.

If something happened that makes you feel sick of angry every time you see someone that isn't good"

We speak and smile at him but that's it. We're careful about private parties because we dont really want to associate with him. But we will be polite. Just annoys me everyone thinks hes such a nice guy when he left his poor ex in that state. She went herself she was that intoxicated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Probably a good idea to try and adjust your attitude. These people will probably be around if you all to go the same places and they sure as hell aren't going to change.

If something happened that makes you feel sick of angry every time you see someone that isn't good

We speak and smile at him but that's it. We're careful about private parties because we dont really want to associate with him. But we will be polite. Just annoys me everyone thinks hes such a nice guy when he left his poor ex in that state. She went herself she was that intoxicated."

Oh I don't mean you need to be nice to him or anything. I just mean that they won't change so it's better to try and stop feeling anything but indifferent towards them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are not hiding away though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had our standards too low to start really. Didn’t realise we could get couples the level we can.

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