FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on here for a couple of months now and through no luck I haven't been able to meet anyone and it is difficult to get speaking to people. I can honestly say that I've never sent a short message saying "let's fuck" and try to tailor each message to the individual specifically.

I'm just curious is it something I've done wrong with my profile or is there not really any hunt for a single straight male?

It's quite difficult as the majority of profiles I've looked at won't meet anyone without verifications but it's basically impossible to receive a verification to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been on here for a couple of months now and through no luck I haven't been able to meet anyone and it is difficult to get speaking to people. I can honestly say that I've never sent a short message saying "let's fuck" and try to tailor each message to the individual specifically.

I'm just curious is it something I've done wrong with my profile or is there not really any hunt for a single straight male?

It's quite difficult as the majority of profiles I've looked at won't meet anyone without verifications but it's basically impossible to receive a verification to start with."

Stating you can't accom would maybe give "playing away" vibes . Doesn't bother some, but does most

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have considered that, I'm not playing away at all completely single. But I can't explain why due to it being an open forum.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's so easy to get verified. Go to an organised social or a club.

You need to be pro-active.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The most important thing is you need to come across as somebody worth meeting. You may want to meet other people, but what do you give them (in messages or your profile) that would make somebody say "He's somebody I'd like to meet"?

Try answering with specifics on here and we can give you feedback.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Due to the number of single men on here it's much like buying a lottery ticket. Try clubs where the odds narrow massively

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I'm just curious is it something I've done wrong with my profile or is there not really any hunt for a single straight male?

It's quite difficult as the majority of profiles I've looked at won't meet anyone without verifications but it's basically impossible to receive a verification to start with."

‘Single male new to the scene’ would be a better profile title, as we’re all ‘looking for fun’.

Read your profile text again, as it’s a bit messy mate; people take a lot from your ability to spell and use correct grammar

Don’t be afraid to block profiles of people you don’t match, or you are not interested in! Sorting the wheat from the chaff means you have far fewer profiles to message, and more potential matches.

Be realistic in who you are looking for.

Be patient, you’ve not been here that long

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I have considered that, I'm not playing away at all completely single. But I can't explain why due to it being an open forum. "

You don't need to go into detail about it, but having some explanation is a good thing. Though being in prison isn't often seen as a good reason.

A short statement -- Live with family/nosey housemates, in a small village where everything I do is under a microscope, etc at least gives more info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

400men to 1 woman is average ratio

At Your age I was out socialising with friends..

It isn't an automatic ticket for a meet even if your profile is outstanding.

Your prepared to meet women up to age 99.? .. Just saying..

You will meet someone. Try a club or a social

Good luck

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

You’ve been here 5 weeks, did you think this was INSTASHAG? There are thousands of single males all vying for attention, so you’re up against some very STIFF competition.

You need to stand out above all the others, or be incredibly good looking, if we’re honest which we are you should try & meet women in a vanilla world, pubs clubs etc etc, much more opportunity to sell yourself.

You have to remember women get hundreds of messages on here so they can be very choosy. Nothing personal but the brutal reality is you will struggle on here, no matter how hard you try.

Good luck??

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I have considered that, I'm not playing away at all completely single. But I can't explain why due to it being an open forum.

You don't need to go into detail about it, but having some explanation is a good thing. Though being in prison isn't often seen as a good reason.

A short statement -- Live with family/nosey housemates, in a small village where everything I do is under a microscope, etc at least gives more info."

Agreed, I wouldn't waste time by asking via message, also to do that would break future filters.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I have considered that, I'm not playing away at all completely single. But I can't explain why due to it being an open forum. "

Being mysterious in real life is intriguing, on here it means going to the next profile. It’s your profile and life, but it’s not selling you currently on a website like this.

Getting verified isn’t difficult if you put in the effort, you can even ‘cam verify’ but you’re one of many trying to meet the one of very few on here.

Start competing with your competitors on here, as those guys are contributing to the forums, going to socials and in some cases clubs as well.

Good luck Op

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