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By *winglowcambs OP   Man
over a year ago

peterborough

Used to play with someone from this site, we fell out over something silly and lost contact! Then I lost my phone and contact number! She is now back online but I can't message as dont accept messages from single guys! But really need to contact her ! Can anyone give me any advice as to how I could!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she's blocked single guys you cant mail her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave her be, if she wanted to stay in touch she would have contacted you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plaster her home town with flyers, posters and billboards with your picture, name and home number/mobile on them - and see how soon she rushes to get in touch!

Or realise that your 'need' to contact her is probably more of a 'want' - unless of course you bought a joint lottery ticket during your last encounter and you want to give her 50% of the winnings!

But even then i'm sure a fiver possibly won't have her reaching tfor the phone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set up a couple profile. Sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"leave her be, if she wanted to stay in touch she would have contacted you"

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Set up a couple profile. Sorted."

That is wrong, on soooo many levels.

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By *ubbliciousWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Set up a couple profile. Sorted.

That is wrong, on soooo many levels.

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VERY WRONG! don't be a dick! leave her be liek the others have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Set up a couple profile. Sorted.

That is wrong, on soooo many levels.

"

Wouldn't do it myself but it clearly goes on.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Are you sure she has blocked ALL single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave her be mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Used to play with someone from this site, we fell out over something silly and lost contact! Then I lost my phone and contact number! She is now back online but I can't message as dont accept messages from single guys! But really need to contact her ! Can anyone give me any advice as to how I could! "

If she wanted to be in touch with you she would get in touch with you. As it is you sound a little stalkerish...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is why do you need to contact her? Can't get a meet so think she will do in the meantime? At the end of the day she may not want to contact you, leave her be and maybe you might meet her at a party, then you can apologise and start again if she wants to

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Used to play with someone from this site, we fell out over something silly and lost contact! Then I lost my phone and contact number! She is now back online but I can't message as dont accept messages from single guys! But really need to contact her ! Can anyone give me any advice as to how I could!

If she wanted to be in touch with you she would get in touch with you. As it is you sound a little stalkerish... "

My sentiments exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesn't take messages from single guys, what makes you think you should be an exception ?

You asked for advice and the ones that suggested 'leave her be' are the most sensible.

If you were that close to start with, surely you would have other means of contact than on here ?

If you don't have her details, maybe you weren't as close as you thought.

If you have discarded her details then you assumed that the 'something silly' was far more than that at some point.

She may still feel it is something other than 'something silly'

As long as her filters remain in place, there are no ways you contact her on here that don't contravene site rules and guidelines.

So don't do anything silly.

Move on, because obviously she has (or is doing) !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Cant it just be that he wants to apologise? Make amends for what happened? Why does it always have to be something terrible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant it just be that he wants to apologise? Make amends for what happened? Why does it always have to be something terrible?

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could be !

will you bugger off with ur rational thinking ?

i look a right dick up here on this high horse now

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

@ Bussy

To the OP....I would take a hint, if someone has you blocked then they don't want you to get in touch.

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