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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You'll never know unless you communicate

Just show her your profile on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she get you new boxers for Xmas? I do hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you with someone you can't be honest with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are you with someone you can't be honest with? "

That's the thing, I'm going to be honest, just building myself up for it

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

You better ask her first if she likes an idea of another man and then go deeper.

Better take her to the club first.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Lots of men on fab have been and still are in your situation. There genuinely is only one way to find out what her thoughts on the subject are.

Good luck to both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation."

Just discuss it with her, you maybe surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation.

Just discuss it with her, you maybe surprised "

This. I think a LOT of women have very active sexual imaginations but society teaches us that we shouldn’t embrace our sexuality. Gently giving her permission to discuss her desires, without forcing the issue or driving your agenda may reveal some surprises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by using a toy and yourself. Then talk about it being another real cock, see how she reacts

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation."
tell her

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation."
it’s a mega fantasy of mine to watch another guy fuck my wife.

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Life's too short. Ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation."

I read this as you're gonna tell her that you're sharing her .

Hey, nothing wrong with fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation."

Seriously if you have got back with her I'd sort out the problems that made you separate rather than tell her "I'm glad were back together, I think we should fuck other people" because to be honest nothing says I love you, I'm glad you're back more than suggesting she tries another cock.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

You need to be totally honest and tell her your thoughts. You won't know until you ask her.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Why are you with someone you can't be honest with?

That's the thing, I'm going to be honest, just building myself up for it"

Genuinely curious.

You know when you were chatting about getting back together; saying then, that you've been exploring an alternative sexual experience option, would that not have been honest and the time? I hope that makes sense?

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By *ohnThomas1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Why are you with someone you can't be honest with? "

Here here a sensible woman with common sense

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By * kiss like morphineMan
over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed


"I'm fantasizing about sharing her for a night? Problem is she maybe mortified if I tell her this? Who else has been in this situation."

Maybe ask about her sex life during the time you weren't together?

See the reactions if it turns you on or makes you jealous or her uneasy that might be an indication but if she doesn't want any part you have to equally make a desicion to prehaps give this up for your relationship.

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