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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all hope you all had a great christmas!

We discussed soft and full swop and although the thought turns us both on, the reality makes us both super nervous and sometimes uncomfortable. So we have decided the best approach would be to meet a bi fem couple for fem fem play (we are more experienced here having had some bi fmf 3somes) but the males only play with their own partners. Looking at all the profiles though, it doesn't seem like there are many couples that don't soft or full swop. Is it worth us reaching out or will couples not be too interested? Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all hope you all had a great christmas!

We discussed soft and full swop and although the thought turns us both on, the reality makes us both super nervous and sometimes uncomfortable. So we have decided the best approach would be to meet a bi fem couple for fem fem play (we are more experienced here having had some bi fmf 3somes) but the males only play with their own partners. Looking at all the profiles though, it doesn't seem like there are many couples that don't soft or full swop. Is it worth us reaching out or will couples not be too interested? Thanks x"
I guess you just have to ask around and see if any couples would be game!

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon


"Hi all hope you all had a great christmas!

We discussed soft and full swop and although the thought turns us both on, the reality makes us both super nervous and sometimes uncomfortable. So we have decided the best approach would be to meet a bi fem couple for fem fem play (we are more experienced here having had some bi fmf 3somes) but the males only play with their own partners. Looking at all the profiles though, it doesn't seem like there are many couples that don't soft or full swop. Is it worth us reaching out or will couples not be too interested? Thanks x"

It may just be that this specific scenario is not on the profile... But doesn't mean a couple may not be interested.. We certainly would be..

We full swap but this would be something that both of us would still enjoy.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi OP.

Have a look at my couple profile, CalandNita, it's certainly something we would consider.

There are plenty of couples like us who are happy to just go with the flow, and stick to your boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve done this a few times, and enjoyed. We’ve learnt over the years that swinging is what you want. If you feel it’s nerve, just see how it goes!!! Good luck.

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Shame you both not live close

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

This is something that we would be interested in

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

It's something we enjoy because I the female dont like to feel like a performing seal for the guys pleasure.

That's just us though. We get approached by a lot of couples just wanting to play with me. C wants to be involved more so we would decline.

But there are loads of couples out there this will appeal to

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

This is exactly what we do ! We’ve found most couples with a bi fem that normally swap are more than happy to play by our rules.

Mrs and I have both discussed that we’d maybe take things further in heat of the moment etc but penetrative sex is still a no no for us.

Know what you both are happy with and explain that to other couples.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Hi all hope you all had a great christmas!

We discussed soft and full swop and although the thought turns us both on, the reality makes us both super nervous and sometimes uncomfortable. So we have decided the best approach would be to meet a bi fem couple for fem fem play (we are more experienced here having had some bi fmf 3somes) but the males only play with their own partners. Looking at all the profiles though, it doesn't seem like there are many couples that don't soft or full swop. Is it worth us reaching out or will couples not be too interested? Thanks x"

People don't always specifically list what specific combinations of play they will consider on their profiles. We have played this way and so long as it's clear from the start and everyone is clear on boundaries then we don't see an issue.

I think meeting to play and then during play stating boundaries makes it more difficult as you may have arranged a meet under different expectations.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray)

In a word yes lol

We have specific things we like and surprisingly we met a lovely couple on here x

While Lou played me and the bloke we're both sat in the room and ended up discussing Liverpool fc it did kill the mood a little but we all ended up having a laugh about it

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

We don't play with guys, but gem has played with the lady of a couple while the men watch and then have had same room same partner fun. It's not something we would do all the time as we prefer everyone to be involved, but it has certainly been fun when we have done it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice everyone! Looks like its a 'thing' afterall! X

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