FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Bareback thoughts?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Sounds hot but I'm too risk-averse for it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not for me. Sounds hot but I'm too risk-averse for it."

That’s fair enough. I think the added risk makes the situation hornier. But I understand safe sex completely.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Too high risk, no thanks.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too high risk, no thanks. "

Fair enough!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

So the chance of catching an STD makes it hornier for you? How about a drug resistant gonorrhoea or HIV, that still horny?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the chance of catching an STD makes it hornier for you? How about a drug resistant gonorrhoea or HIV, that still horny?"

Of course not! You’d hope people are honest and tested. To try and minimise the risk.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it."

Can argue with that!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's worth reading a few of the bareback postings, that come up every couple of days. Some people are bb within their relationship but safer with casual friends, others bare with longer term fbs and there're others who only meet when playing bare. It's a broad church, with many evangelical about their position.

It's generally appreciated that bare feels better and more intimate but there's usually not much more that's agreed on by the different camps. Regular testing is paramount for us all though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's worth reading a few of the bareback postings, that come up every couple of days. Some people are bb within their relationship but safer with casual friends, others bare with longer term fbs and there're others who only meet when playing bare. It's a broad church, with many evangelical about their position.

It's generally appreciated that bare feels better and more intimate but there's usually not much more that's agreed on by the different camps. Regular testing is paramount for us all though. "

Great points! Definitely something worth looking at. A regular FB that’s trust for BB fun would definitely be a worthy choice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oungturkishMan
over a year ago

Istanbul


"Not for me. Sounds hot but I'm too risk-averse for it."

my slut partner is preggy now from a guy she met at holiday

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inman73Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Fun and frilling, not not safe or practical, Done with FB after knowing them for some time. have had encounters in clubs where I've question had bareback.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Not generally for me unless long term and we have chatted about it first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not generally for me unless long term and we have chatted about it first"

I agree

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

BB always makes me think of puss filled blisters on cock and pussy, and excruciating pain when peeing , so not a great turn on personally !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Who left?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op relised trust ain't nothing, done bareback, got an std. And left the site for good ....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Op relised trust ain't nothing, done bareback, got an std. And left the site for good .... "

Its you how are you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op relised trust ain't nothing, done bareback, got an std. And left the site for good ....

Its you how are you?"

Your right it is me, iv been going abit OTT on the forum posts today... Can't say iv ever had the pleasure.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Op relised trust ain't nothing, done bareback, got an std. And left the site for good ....

Its you how are you?

Your right it is me, iv been going abit OTT on the forum posts today... Can't say iv ever had the pleasure. "

We have spoke before on forums

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this?

BB always makes me think of puss filled blisters on cock and pussy, and excruciating pain when peeing , so not a great turn on personally ! "

Never had the pleasure...although clearly you have

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op relised trust ain't nothing, done bareback, got an std. And left the site for good ....

Its you how are you?

Your right it is me, iv been going abit OTT on the forum posts today... Can't say iv ever had the pleasure.

We have spoke before on forums"

Well isint that delightful!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Going bare back is nice because it's skin on skin but do you take the chance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Op relised trust ain't nothing, done bareback, got an std. And left the site for good ....

Its you how are you?

Your right it is me, iv been going abit OTT on the forum posts today... Can't say iv ever had the pleasure.

We have spoke before on forums

Well isint that delightful! "
for you yes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this?

BB always makes me think of puss filled blisters on cock and pussy, and excruciating pain when peeing , so not a great turn on personally !

Never had the pleasure...although clearly you have"

Your sacred geometry tatt on you're wrist is bad ass.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this?

BB always makes me think of puss filled blisters on cock and pussy, and excruciating pain when peeing , so not a great turn on personally !

Never had the pleasure...although clearly you have"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

My thoughts on bbk are

Not happening, ever, even with wife. Hate the mess!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was little miss Goldie locks favorite past time????...... Bearback riding.....

HA.HA.HA. BOOM BOOM.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"What was little miss Goldie locks favorite past time????...... Bearback riding.....

HA.HA.HA. BOOM BOOM. "

Stop the alcohol now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this?

BB always makes me think of puss filled blisters on cock and pussy, and excruciating pain when peeing , so not a great turn on personally !

Never had the pleasure...although clearly you have

Your sacred geometry tatt on you're wrist is bad ass. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Going bare back is nice because it's skin on skin but do you take the chance "

With a tried and tested friend....of course

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own but not for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Don't people realise that the tests are for disease 3 months to 6 months before?

If the person has been bbk in that time, the tests don't cover it!

Glove no love ya gobshites

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no party without party hat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Don't people realise that the tests are for disease 3 months to 6 months before?

If the person has been bbk in that time, the tests don't cover it!

Glove no love ya gobshites "

Get tested regularly even with regular fuckbuddy...as although I trust my fuckbuddy and fuck only him, men can never truly be trusted ...after all almost all have misogynistic traits.....you being a particularly good example

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't people realise that the tests are for disease 3 months to 6 months before?

If the person has been bbk in that time, the tests don't cover it!

Glove no love ya gobshites

Get tested regularly even with regular fuckbuddy...as although I trust my fuckbuddy and fuck only him, men can never truly be trusted ...after all almost all have misogynistic traits.....you being a particularly good example "
cheers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Don't people realise that the tests are for disease 3 months to 6 months before?

If the person has been bbk in that time, the tests don't cover it!

Glove no love ya gobshites

Get tested regularly even with regular fuckbuddy...as although I trust my fuckbuddy and fuck only him, men can never truly be trusted ...after all almost all have misogynistic traits.....you being a particularly good example "

Haven't had uncovered sex in over 30yrs, except when we wanted kid.

Did each one of those in less than a few weeks.

Other than that, never sex without condom.

Go judge somebody else.

I know for a fact I'm clear, of conscience and disease.

See who can say the same as defiantly!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

STD waiting to happen. Or a call from CSA and a knock on the door in 18 years time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/12/19 04:01:05]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

It's amazing, sexy, naughty etc but only for my husband

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about barebacking a stranger considering they could have any STD under the sun. For people I’m comfortable with it’s huge fun though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Reserved for the times I am with a trusted partner/FWB/couple and I never allow them to overlap so for me its a rare luxury when I'm single.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *blondonfunCouple
over a year ago

London

Bareback only and tested regularly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it."

Hence protected fun for me only!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it."

Why use a word like clean to mean that someone doesn’t have HIV?

It’s kinda ignorant!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it.

Why use a word like clean to mean that someone doesn’t have HIV?

It’s kinda ignorant! "

Clear, then. No offence was intended.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't people realise that the tests are for disease 3 months to 6 months before?

If the person has been bbk in that time, the tests don't cover it!

Glove no love ya gobshites "

What tests?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it and yes it is a big turn on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Reserved for the times I am with a trusted partner/FWB/couple and I never allow them to overlap so for me its a rare luxury when I'm single."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

####bareback you need your head TESTING ####

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

####bareback you need your head TESTING ####

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Why do the OP’s of a thread like this always go UNLOS?..

Because they are judged...

Yet again the forumites “win”.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't often I do not have bare back sex, tend to always have bareback no condom sex

But then.....

I am not running in and out of bed with different partners night after night,

for me I have sex once trust and friendship are established and huge amount of feelings, I realise this is a swingers forum but it takes a lot for me to jump into bed with someone, there needs to be a lot of feelings, established friendship and trust, as well as lots of previous snogs and kissing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

[Removed by poster at 01/01/20 08:58:24]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

Can't believe ppl can take risk. I don't even suck cock with no hat on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me. Sounds hot but I'm too risk-averse for it.

my slut partner is preggy now from a guy she met at holiday"

Oops.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me. Sounds hot but I'm too risk-averse for it.

my slut partner is preggy now from a guy she met at holiday"

Congratulations

Poor child

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Love bare intercrual fucks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a long term partner yes. Casual, no!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"

Of course not! You’d hope people are honest and tested. To try and minimise the risk. "

I only got this far in the thread. I laughed then realised the OP was probably being serious.

I’ll give them (irrelevant as they have left the site) the benefit of the doubt and say they are naive, overly optimistic and a little too trusting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oeBlack4Man
over a year ago

east

Bareback only when regular

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"Can't believe ppl can take risk. I don't even suck cock with no hat on. "

Yes it seems crazy, but so many do seem to risk it. We all know it feels better without a hat, but we don’t want trips to clinics!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe ppl can take risk. I don't even suck cock with no hat on.

Yes it seems crazy, but so many do seem to risk it. We all know it feels better without a hat, but we don’t want trips to clinics! "

I totally agree at 45 and a recent trip to a clinic ( all good btw) I was educated. Especially on the oral sex front , for instance I didn’t realise you could get chlamydia in your eyes which is a totally different type to the lower zone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"Can't believe ppl can take risk. I don't even suck cock with no hat on.

Yes it seems crazy, but so many do seem to risk it. We all know it feels better without a hat, but we don’t want trips to clinics!

I totally agree at 45 and a recent trip to a clinic ( all good btw) I was educated. Especially on the oral sex front , for instance I didn’t realise you could get chlamydia in your eyes which is a totally different type to the lower zone "

We all want fun, but not at any cost!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly


"Can't believe ppl can take risk. I don't even suck cock with no hat on.

Yes it seems crazy, but so many do seem to risk it. We all know it feels better without a hat, but we don’t want trips to clinics!

Tell me more as my partner still arguing that oral sex is the lowest in risk to catch anything xxx

I totally agree at 45 and a recent trip to a clinic ( all good btw) I was educated. Especially on the oral sex front , for instance I didn’t realise you could get chlamydia in your eyes which is a totally different type to the lower zone "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone mentioned Russian Roulette yet?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Protected sex only for me.

It's not only your own health you're responsible for – it's that of everyone else you come into contact with as well.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Popcorn

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

Always play safe - That's why I have my hard hat and safety boots at the ready

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales


"Definitely no party without party hat "

Damn, I thought you were gonna say sclub party

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

That is only for my husband.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "
. Safe sexx all the way

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Definitely no party without party hat

Damn, I thought you were gonna say sclub party "

I just spat the jaffa cake I was munching across the room... then got that bloody song stuck in my head... thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

Youngturkish with pregnant partner... I don’t think you have enough shots of your penis...perhaps if you added some from a slightly different angle?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nkedlady2Couple
over a year ago

Rochdale


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it."

Wow. Just another reason that safe sex is the only sex in this lifestyle

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby


"Damn, I thought you were gonna say sclub party "

It would not suprise me if S Club got up to some group mischief, that's an S Club party

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *illupMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Crazy keep it safe !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urler36Man
over a year ago

Graigue

Condoms do nothing for me, so If had a number of relationships over past 20 years and all been bareback, always been checked and as I don't shag the wife I don't feel the guilt of having bareback sex, including anal

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the amount of people who say I do BB because I trust the random stranger I met on a site like fab who's lying to his partner.... is fucking mental

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the old only with someone I trust.

Lets say you have bb with a partner you trust. They have had bb with 10 partners they trust who have each bb with 10 partners they trust. Who each had bb with 10 partners.

Thats a lot of trust right there and if one of them was lying or didnt even know they had something,or maybe they used to be an iv drug user? See where this is goin?

Sorry but bb went out the window the same time as HIV and Hep C became known diseases.

Ps Hep C lives outside the body considerably longer than HIV and can be caught from sharing spoons or even bank notes when snorting oh and symptoms take up to 10 years to show so good luck someone knowing they have it.

I know im disease free and intend to stay that way.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term I would BB but randoms never! I have kids and my health to look after its not worth the risk. I get tested regularly and have my depo injection at the same time. So I know I'm clean but I don't trust no one! NEVER. They can tell me till the birds come home how safe they are and even when playing I check and continue to check they have a condom on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah the old only with someone I trust.

Lets say you have bb with a partner you trust. They have had bb with 10 partners they trust who have each bb with 10 partners they trust. Who each had bb with 10 partners.

Thats a lot of trust right there and if one of them was lying or didnt even know they had something,or maybe they used to be an iv drug user? See where this is goin?

Sorry but bb went out the window the same time as HIV and Hep C became known diseases.

Ps Hep C lives outside the body considerably longer than HIV and can be caught from sharing spoons or even bank notes when snorting oh and symptoms take up to 10 years to show so good luck someone knowing they have it.

I know im disease free and intend to stay that way."

So if you meet the future mother of your children you'll be using condoms for at least 10 years before you send her for tests and get on with making children?

Mrs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London


"Too high risk, no thanks. "

This !!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it."

And this. No thanks!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think OP went to get tested

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the chance of catching an STD makes it hornier for you? How about a drug resistant gonorrhoea or HIV, that still horny?"

That’s not what he said. The trust factor turns him on more than anything it seems. The fact that the person he is fucking seems to have enough trust to become that intimate with him and go bb.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Why aren't more people taking PreP? It isn't just for gay/bi/trans people?!

The 'window period' for HIV is up to 12 weeks. At that point 99.99% of people will have antibodies that are detectable.Vein based blood tests are can usually detect HIV at 4-6 weeks and if you want to pay a private clinic, there is a test which looks for the HIV DNA at 10-20 days.

Fingerprick blood tests are consistent with the 12 week window. Syphilis, Gonorrhoea and Chlamydia have different window periods and are much easier to contract.

Hence getting tested regularly even if you use Condoms is a good idea. Having an STI makes HIV infection much easier.

Oh- did I mention- take PreP! Reputable suppliers can be found via the THT website (or inbox me).

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Why aren't more people taking PreP? It isn't just for gay/bi/trans people?!

The 'window period' for HIV is up to 12 weeks. At that point 99.99% of people will have antibodies that are detectable.Vein based blood tests are can usually detect HIV at 4-6 weeks and if you want to pay a private clinic, there is a test which looks for the HIV DNA at 10-20 days.

Fingerprick blood tests are consistent with the 12 week window. Syphilis, Gonorrhoea and Chlamydia have different window periods and are much easier to contract.

Hence getting tested regularly even if you use Condoms is a good idea. Having an STI makes HIV infection much easier.

Oh- did I mention- take PreP! Reputable suppliers can be found via the THT website (or inbox me). "

It's a very strong drug to permanently take.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Safe sex only! And if we get to do oral I want to be sure a recent STI test has been done...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it.

And this. No thanks!"

The only safe sex is no sex

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it.

And this. No thanks!

The only safe sex is no sex"

So I've been having very safe sex for over 17 years

Might take a chance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"HIV has a window period of three months, so someone could test clean and still have it.

Hence protected fun for me only! "

Are there any STIs that can be dormant and symptom-free for over 17 years?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

Love bareback but only with Ethan

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

So long as you get your kidney function tested, there haven't been any reported side effects. I've been on it for nearly a year with no problems, other than initial nausea.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah the old only with someone I trust.

Lets say you have bb with a partner you trust. They have had bb with 10 partners they trust who have each bb with 10 partners they trust. Who each had bb with 10 partners.

Thats a lot of trust right there and if one of them was lying or didnt even know they had something,or maybe they used to be an iv drug user? See where this is goin?

Sorry but bb went out the window the same time as HIV and Hep C became known diseases.

Ps Hep C lives outside the body considerably longer than HIV and can be caught from sharing spoons or even bank notes when snorting oh and symptoms take up to 10 years to show so good luck someone knowing they have it.

I know im disease free and intend to stay that way.

So if you meet the future mother of your children you'll be using condoms for at least 10 years before you send her for tests and get on with making children?

Mrs"

No Hep C is just another blood test. Its not a problem if you catch it and know as they can cure it now, but if you have it and don't first you will know is when you start to have renal failure symptoms

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

[Removed by poster at 16/01/20 06:46:37]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Only with a long term partner, that hasn't been round the track more times than a grayhound ,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this?

Love bareback but only with Ethan "
We only bareback with each other too but Wine has invited other guys we have met to enter her filled pussy if they wear a condom. They were all hard and horny and wearing a condom didn't put any of them off

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love. Works for me evry time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

BARE BACK IS PURE DIRTY ((((

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

A filthy thought but just left at that ...as was said earlier...no glove. .no love

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orny boy1Man
over a year ago

durham

Nooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bareback sex but you cant take any chances on a site like this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing beats the sensation of going bareback. But I would have to be close to someone to do that with them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

requires a degree of trust that isnt there with casual partners

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Only with hubby

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Funny how most are saying no and yet a lot of people jump st the opportunity when offered or when they message you and ask if you wanna go bb. Just do what works for you and look after yourself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Safe sex only! And if we get to do oral I want to be sure a recent STI test has been done... "

So do you always ask for proof of testing before oral lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me anyone who suggests it’s okay shows complete lack of knowledge on the subject and immaturity not suitable for play.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only with hubby "
fi love your new avatar

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/01/20 16:39:48]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proof of testing is only proof of negativity at the time of test granted better to fuck with someone that tests regularly. It's easy especially with free postal ones

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relative of mine went dogging,got carried away and fucked the female unprotected after a few others.

Caught syphilis and HIV.

Then the idiot fucked his wife a few weeks later as he was a truck driver.needless to say he infected his wife..mega family fallout.safe sex always for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Only with hubby fi love your new avatar "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"A relative of mine went dogging,got carried away and fucked the female unprotected after a few others.

Caught syphilis and HIV.

Then the idiot fucked his wife a few weeks later as he was a truck driver.needless to say he infected his wife..mega family fallout.safe sex always for me."

Grim

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"A relative of mine went dogging,got carried away and fucked the female unprotected after a few others.

Caught syphilis and HIV.

Then the idiot fucked his wife a few weeks later as he was a truck driver.needless to say he infected his wife..mega family fallout.safe sex always for me."

Can still catch HIV with condoms they just reduce the risk

Have you considered no sex as the only safe option?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"A relative of mine went dogging,got carried away and fucked the female unprotected after a few others.

Caught syphilis and HIV.

Then the idiot fucked his wife a few weeks later as he was a truck driver.needless to say he infected his wife..mega family fallout.safe sex always for me."

Jeeeeesssss that's bad and sad. Wouldn't wish that on any family

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edonismproMan
over a year ago

Essex


"A relative of mine went dogging,got carried away and fucked the female unprotected after a few others.

Caught syphilis and HIV.

Then the idiot fucked his wife a few weeks later as he was a truck driver.needless to say he infected his wife..mega family fallout.safe sex always for me."

Given that the risk of transmission for receptive penile-vaginal sex is 8 infections per 10,000 exposures, and for insertive penile-vaginal sex, it's 4 infections for every 10,000 exposures, your relative is extremely unlucky.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"A relative of mine went dogging,got carried away and fucked the female unprotected after a few others.

Caught syphilis and HIV.

Then the idiot fucked his wife a few weeks later as he was a truck driver.needless to say he infected his wife..mega family fallout.safe sex always for me.

Given that the risk of transmission for receptive penile-vaginal sex is 8 infections per 10,000 exposures, and for insertive penile-vaginal sex, it's 4 infections for every 10,000 exposures, your relative is extremely unlucky. "

There are people who don't know they have an infection. Any figures are based on those tested.

What are the odds of getting pregnant and chlamydia the 1st time someone has sex? I'm a statistic. My one and only std I've ever had yet I didn't find out till 3 months after giving birth and damage was done they never screened as per course of action then and they do now. I'm vigilant and get tested regularly and use condoms I know I have a slim risk of catching an std, I know full well that every single person has a chance on the 1st time of catching anything. Odds means you're playing a betting game or think it would never happen to you notion. Here if people don't test regularly and have multiple bareback partners those odds increase phenomenally compared to the general population. Only takes one "typhoid Mary" (of any gender) to start an epidemic in the swinging community. Confessions of people who say they get tested regularly but admit it's been 2 years!?! Since they were tested but swear they are clean because they have no symptoms doesn't mean they are. The annual testers who get tested at work.... A year is a long time when you can catch an std a week after testing and be asymptomatic and pass it to every sexual partner in that year. The fall out from ignorance in the community would be devastating for many. Can you handle the knowledge of being someone who spread an std? Will you be responsible in informing sexual partners if you had?

Information provided by the clinic for people living this lifestyle 6 to 8 weeks between testing when active with multiple partners when using condoms, 2 weeks testing after a broken condom, if at risk of HIV further testing and post exposure medication, tests at intervals which will be booked with the clinic.

People have expressed its a waste of resources but the clinics are far more concerned in preventing spread of infections and catching them sooner rather than later than the cost of clinic usage. Can you imagine the cost of treating mass std infections compared to testing and eliminating the spread by isolating and treating an infection.

Everyone who barebacks random strangers are rolling a dice every time.

Porn stars have mandatory 30 day testing they may only bareback 1 or 2 people who regularly get tested themselves. Refer to the case of the 2 porn stars infected with HIV from the 3rd while filming. Imagine the odds of that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people feel about bareback fun?

Personally it really turns me on when someone is giving you there trust for that more intimate experience.

Also creampies?

Ive creampied a number of women as there husband has watched. I find this a huge turn on. I don’t know why but also love to fuck a filled pussy. Anyone else like this? "

Any data on a link between people that say ‘there’ instead of their and having bareback sex with strangers?

I have a hypothesis.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I think you are playing Russian Roulette with the population. Not just Fab people, many of whom have vanilla contacts/partners as well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

Just seen an awesome quote although factually incorrect it's message speaks the truth.

"900 people get the coronavirus and the whole world wants to wear a surgical mask, 30 million people have aids but no one wants to wear a condom"

People so blasé about stds taking unnecessary risks even if it means potentially catching a life long condition and at that shorten lifespan.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Could do with a good cull ...so bb

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Blue Waffle anyone?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean - the feeling is amazing, especially when you have a woman that gets extremely wet!

But, unfortunately there’s a lot of diseases out there. Within fab, there’s 0 way I’d bareback as quite frankly, you’re more than likely to have more than 1 active sexual partner....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Highly unlikely to happen with us.

The only exception would be a couple we repeat play with maybe to the point of exclusivity. Trust is just part of it. we all would have to be tested first.

For now and probably forever the only people my wife and I go bareback with is each other.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little off topic but we were watching catch up episodes of The Sex Clinic last night and I was very surprised by how cavalier the patients were about their sexual health they all said how they didn’t like the feel of condoms during sex and admitted to rarely using them, even with a new partner. As parents to children approaching their teenage years this was scary watching

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester


"With a long term partner yes. Casual, no! "

Exactly this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blue Waffle anyone?"
no but I'll have an egg muffin

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester


".....only him, men can never truly be trusted ...after all almost all have misogynistic traits.....you being a particularly good example

Haven't had uncovered sex in over 30yrs, except when we wanted kid.

Did each one of those in less than a few weeks.

Other than that, never sex without condom.

Go judge somebody else.

I know for a fact I'm clear, of conscience and disease.

See who can say the same as defiantly!"

Just read this on someone's profile.

Wife is not interested in same intricacies as I would like to explore. No she doesn't know I'm here and if that's an issue for you, keep moving on please.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top