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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fucking the mrs or someone else, I’m so so horny that I can cum too quick. Or seriously have to hold back and go slow when she wants slamming. I want to be able to fuck like a train and cum when I want, not when I’m fucking hard!

Advice please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank before

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By *dx69Man
over a year ago

London

Invite another bloke to join in and take turns

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Fucking the mrs or someone else, I’m so so horny that I can cum too quick. Or seriously have to hold back and go slow when she wants slamming. I want to be able to fuck like a train and cum when I want, not when I’m fucking hard!

Advice please x "

Look into cock rings...my playmate gets a little like this and has tried cock rings, and seems to think it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just slow down for a while and regain my composure....... seem to mostly think I’m being a tease! But I find being honest can work too, eg ‘if I keep hammering away I’m going to come, so let’s just slow for a second.’

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By *renadier4Man
over a year ago

Codsall

Well if I was hammering someone that fit I'd come pretty fast as well!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking the mrs or someone else, I’m so so horny that I can cum too quick. Or seriously have to hold back and go slow when she wants slamming. I want to be able to fuck like a train and cum when I want, not when I’m fucking hard!

Advice please x "

Place a photograph of Jeremy Corbyn on her back or stomach whist having sex , that should hold you back fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started using stud100 spray and I find that it does the job for a while so I am going to keep using it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m quite envious. I can only cum with the other half. I end up going for so long at clubs etc.

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By *lirty_dirty69Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I’m quite envious. I can only cum with the other half. I end up going for so long at clubs etc."

Yep, me too. Sometimes I wish I could cum more quickly, but at least it ensures that I can concentrate on satisfying the lady concerned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking the mrs or someone else, I’m so so horny that I can cum too quick. Or seriously have to hold back and go slow when she wants slamming. I want to be able to fuck like a train and cum when I want, not when I’m fucking hard!

Advice please x "

Just think about something else like work or chores you have to do around the house.....

Then when you want to cum , start looking at your wife....

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Had exactly the same problem in a club with mrs and other couple, really wanted to go for it but urge to finish was there in seconds. Held back as long as possible but you can’t hold back forever.

Got back to hotel with wife and went for a solid 90 mins hard banging.

I’ve tried cock rings before, but found they bruised the base of the shaft a bit.

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Had exactly the same problem in a club with mrs and other couple, really wanted to go for it but urge to finish was there in seconds. Held back as long as possible but you can’t hold back forever.

Got back to hotel with wife and went for a solid 90 mins hard banging.

I’ve tried cock rings before, but found they bruised the base of the shaft a bit. "
silicon or steel?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Had exactly the same problem in a club with mrs and other couple, really wanted to go for it but urge to finish was there in seconds. Held back as long as possible but you can’t hold back forever.

Got back to hotel with wife and went for a solid 90 mins hard banging.

I’ve tried cock rings before, but found they bruised the base of the shaft a bit. silicon or steel? "

Silicone one, had to take it off after a bit

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By *ockape82Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ockape82Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Rhythm variation, change angle or rotate slightly. Pause. Change position. Get her to give you a quick hand or oral attention....

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Begin sexual activity as usual, including stimulation of the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejaculate.

Have your partner squeeze the end of your penis, at the point where the head (glans) joins the shaft, and maintain the squeeze for several seconds, until the urge to ejaculate passes.

Have your partner repeat the squeeze process as necessary.

Or you could just work on your Pelvic floor exercises.

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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

Just let it shoot, do some oral then back on it for round 2

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Just let it shoot, do some oral then back on it for round 2"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if I was hammering someone that fit I'd come pretty fast as well!!! "

My point exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fucking the mrs or someone else, I’m so so horny that I can cum too quick. Or seriously have to hold back and go slow when she wants slamming. I want to be able to fuck like a train and cum when I want, not when I’m fucking hard!

Advice please x

Just think about something else like work or chores you have to do around the house.....

Then when you want to cum , start looking at your wife...."

I really try to do that too! Works a little bit, and I bite my lips so it hurts!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had exactly the same problem in a club with mrs and other couple, really wanted to go for it but urge to finish was there in seconds. Held back as long as possible but you can’t hold back forever.

Got back to hotel with wife and went for a solid 90 mins hard banging.

I’ve tried cock rings before, but found they bruised the base of the shaft a bit. "

I don't think I've ever fucked that long continuously!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just let it shoot, do some oral then back on it for round 2"

Takes me a while to recover!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just let it shoot, do some oral then back on it for round 2

Takes me a while to recover! "

So you get to eat out for longer, win/win!

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

9 times table

Listing albums

Singing Beck's loser

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

It’s all in the brain. Learn how many hard strokes you oh can go before you edge in to it then swap positions. That tends to help rather than slow down as then you are still deep inside her.

Pulling out to swap definitely helps me and also I find let the lady do some of the work as again it’s the pounding your giving works the brain more in to the I am going to cum mode lol.

For me the best and longest lasting sex is when there’s lots of swapping around on the bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking the mrs or someone else, I’m so so horny that I can cum too quick. Or seriously have to hold back and go slow when she wants slamming. I want to be able to fuck like a train and cum when I want, not when I’m fucking hard!

Advice please x "

If I had a wife as sexy as yours I would also cum quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can go for hours but believe me it’s not a good thing, I would love to cum easier, and some women get bored after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Priligy 30mg. You can buy it from good online pharmacies or speak to the GP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of men are like that sometimes I am but I can usually go again and last a lot longer 2nd round

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