FabSwingers.com forum: Reporting *ssholes?

By *apiens OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

What’s a reasonable threshold for reporting another user for being abusive?

I’ve just received a (completely unprovoked) really insulting message from someone as a follow up to a rather tasteless opener that I ignored. I thought about replying but bizarrely the chap had blocked me.

I feel like people who can’t be civil should probably be sanctioned in some way but perhaps I’m being too sensitive.

Anyway, I’d be interested to know where people draw the line between asshole behaviour that can be ignored, and when someone should actually be reported.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I reported someone yesterday. He was vile. Wonder if admin keep a tally chart? Haha

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I reported someone yesterday because when I asked him why he'd used photos from a gay porn site he said that for reasons of privacy he didn't want to use photos of himself and that he'd met women and they'd not noticed that he was a different man

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By *apiens OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I reported someone yesterday because when I asked him why he'd used photos from a gay porn site he said that for reasons of privacy he didn't want to use photos of himself and that he'd met women and they'd not noticed that he was a different man

Haha haha! That’s insane.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I’ve reported vile messages, but nothing was done. I’ve reported several guys using models or other users pics, nothing’s been done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve received abusive mail.

Reported it. But then you get blocked straight after from said profile.

It’s not just women

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Haha haha! That’s insane. "

He sent me an real photo of himself (I set him a challenge) and all I can say is it must have been dark

He was attractive enough, but he did not look like the photos...hell the photos were clearly of 4 different men!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They just block the two profiles from messaging each other. The only one I've reported who got removed was the guy who told me to die of aids. The standard "fat bitch" ones, nothing happens apart from a mutual block from each other so they'll just send their abuse to someone else.

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By *uesdaysfundayCouple
over a year ago

Sandbach

You can report the person if you still have the message. Though as it has been stated I am not sure what is done about it. I do hear of people having their accounts taken off them but they soon seem to be back under a different name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They just block the two profiles from messaging each other. The only one I've reported who got removed was the guy who told me to die of aids. The standard "fat bitch" ones, nothing happens apart from a mutual block from each other so they'll just send their abuse to someone else. "

Or just make a new profile. I've been stalked for years by a guy who's made at least ten profiles in that time.

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By *entleman FrolicerMan
over a year ago

Abergele

That's what the block button is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's what the block button is for"

Read the thread, hun

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I reported a female recently for naming me in her update. Jealousy is not good. She does not know me from Adam and it upset me. I reported her and she got a 3day ban.

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By *apiens OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I reported a female recently for naming me in her update. Jealousy is not good. She does not know me from Adam and it upset me. I reported her and she got a 3day ban."

That’s horrid.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you feel a message is abusive, report it. Admin read all reports and take action which I'll post under this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To add to this...if people are disabled by Admin they will look blocked to you.

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