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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

What douse it say on my profile under looking for

(Not looking for single men f ff age 18 43 )

I don't get Manny views but to be honest I mostly get mm tv ts m altho flattered not for me douse any one know how to fix this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

you can't stop anyone from looking at you unless you block them individually. You can prevent them messaging you by using your mail filters

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

Sorry that not what I ment eg mine says not looking for and a list on outher profile it says looking for and what they looking for and a list for

I personally am very comfortable wih my sexuality what I like and don't and take it as a compliment no matter who it is looking just says not looking for pleas take a look see what I mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

yours says

not looking for single men

looking female couples and women under 45

Are you asking how to change that?

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

Yes to just what I am looking for not what I'm not looking for

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

right I think the only way you can get round it is to tick that you are looking for single men. I don't think you can change the not looking for bit

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

IV tried unticking all still says not looking for men takes out f ff I will give ticking looking fo men and see if that works I'll b BK one mo

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

Ok ticked all same said not looking for list of all so unticked all said not looking for m 18 45

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Use your filters in your account to restrict messages to just those who you feel able to communicate with. Anyone can always look at everyone until a profile is hidden or you block someone

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

what its saying now is that you "aren't" looking for single men but you "are" looking for female couples and women between 18 and 45. Is that what you want it to say?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Account. - Message Filters

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

Not looking for single guys. Couples (FF) Women aged 18 to 45. Will meet smokers.

This is what it says exactly

My message filters are set I don't want to wasn't my time or other ppls time

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

I copied my message filter page

Message Filters

Only get messages from people you're interested in.

Active filters People must be all the following to message you:

Can't be single Male

Can't be TV/TS/CD

Can't be Male couple

Age: Any can mail you

You're looking for 18-45 but you're not blocking other ages. You can block anyone who isn't 18-45

You can be mailed by MF Couples, but your looking for says you're not meeting them.

Females (can mail you) Block them

Males (blocked) Allow them

MF Couples (male, female) (can mail you) Block them

TV/TS/CD (blocked) Allow them

FF Couples (two females) (can mail you) Block them

MM Couples (two males) (blocked) Allow them

Not verified or (can mail you) Block them

Newbies (can mail you) Block them

No public photos on profile (can mail you) Block them

Not a site supporter (can mail you) Block them

Filters don't apply and people can message if you've mailed someone before (if you message someone you have filtered, they can reply), you have winked at someone, or you are friends.

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"yours says

not looking for single men

looking female couples and women under 45

Are you asking how to change that? "

I just want it to display what I am looking for as it reads now I'm not looking for all apart from tv ts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"yours says

not looking for single men

looking female couples and women under 45

Are you asking how to change that?

I just want it to display what I am looking for as it reads now I'm not looking for all apart from tv ts "

that isn't what it means, it just means that you aren't looking for single men

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

I'm not looking for tv ts as well but that is not displayed on there I have not seen another profile with the same not looking for if you see what I mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm not looking for tv ts as well but that is not displayed on there I have not seen another profile with the same not looking for if you see what I mean"

yes I do but that's how the site works I think, it just mentions not looking for single men but nothing else. As I understand it all you can do is prevent them from messaging you

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By *ad ste OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

I had help from another site member who suggested that I go into my messaging preferences and allow mails to message me and that has worked now my profile just says looking for thank you for all your help

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