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By *edditchCouple8077 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Hi

We are wondering what is wrong with some people here

We clearly see they looked over your profile few times per day from long time but...when when send message to them they never reply.

We have few profiles like this

How you guys deal with situations like this?

Is it something wrong with our profile??

It’s bit frustrating for us now as we want go further than watch,we are ready for swaps and play with others

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Block them.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Why not ignore looked at me, actively look for people that match what you're looking for and that sound like you match with them.....

If it's really bothering you; block

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By *edditchCouple8077 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

It’s bother wide as she think when someone see her ,he think she is not attractive ,that’s why not reply

It not building her confidence about all this,specially we want more now...

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"It’s bother wide as she think when someone see her ,he think she is not attractive ,that’s why not reply

It not building her confidence about all this,specially we want more now..."

There are loads of people who use this site just to look at (and possibly masturbate over) images.

Not everyone actually meets and if it works for them then let them be.

Looked at me isn't there as a confidence booster and this site isn't the place for confidence boosting really.

If they bother you just block them

People look at profiles for many reasons, maybe you're close or verified someone they know. You might have messaged a friend of there's... loads of reasons.

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By *edditchCouple8077 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redditch


"It’s bother wide as she think when someone see her ,he think she is not attractive ,that’s why not reply

It not building her confidence about all this,specially we want more now...

There are loads of people who use this site just to look at (and possibly masturbate over) images.

Not everyone actually meets and if it works for them then let them be.

Looked at me isn't there as a confidence booster and this site isn't the place for confidence boosting really.

If they bother you just block them

People look at profiles for many reasons, maybe you're close or verified someone they know. You might have messaged a friend of there's... loads of reasons."

We understand that,just don’t understand why people can’t reply with simple sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s bother wide as she think when someone see her ,he think she is not attractive ,that’s why not reply

It not building her confidence about all this,specially we want more now...

There are loads of people who use this site just to look at (and possibly masturbate over) images.

Not everyone actually meets and if it works for them then let them be.

Looked at me isn't there as a confidence booster and this site isn't the place for confidence boosting really.

If they bother you just block them

People look at profiles for many reasons, maybe you're close or verified someone they know. You might have messaged a friend of there's... loads of reasons.

We understand that,just don’t understand why people can’t reply with simple sentence."
they are probably a single guy and just perving your pics all 3

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By *edditchCouple8077 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Well,he have much more,

just some removed,some move to friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tend to look at people's profiles for a myriad of reasons, sometimes I'm preparing to message, I do want someone to know I've read a profile. I have been blocked for browsing, which is fair enough, but I kinda wanted to wait before I approached them, probably unwisely.

I don't pay to see who looked at me, have never taken it personally that someone did.

If however, I had been lurking and they messaged me, I would hope to be respectful enough to at least reply.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Just don't message them, I recently messaged a guy who kept looking at my profile and he blocked me

I just won't do it again lol.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Well,he have much more,

just some removed,some move to friends only"

Cant understand why anyone would ignore your messages.

Your wife is gorgeous...good luck to you both

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By *edditchCouple8077 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redditch


"Just don't message them, I recently messaged a guy who kept looking at my profile and he blocked me

I just won't do it again lol."

This is what we talking about too

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Just don't message them, I recently messaged a guy who kept looking at my profile and he blocked me

I just won't do it again lol.

This is what we talking about too"

Don't bother messaging them, I've now decided if they look and don't message they aren't interested.

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By *edditchCouple8077 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Redditch


"Just don't message them, I recently messaged a guy who kept looking at my profile and he blocked me

I just won't do it again lol.

This is what we talking about too

Don't bother messaging them, I've now decided if they look and don't message they aren't interested. "

Good advice, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry OP, your profile and pics are fine. This happens to us all the time. A profile will look at ours 5-6 times a day for a number of days then they disappear. We always ignore it if they don’t make contact. One profile did it for the best part of a year. I actually missed them looking lol!

It’s all part of the weird and wonderful life on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly why we're in stealth mode, no one ever knows

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