FabSwingers.com forum: Here's help for everyone. :-)

By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

In response to the numerous threads asking for help, I thought I'd put some general advice on a thread for you all.

**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab! Please do not pm me before taking all of the advice below.

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

4. Get cam verified to start, you can go into the cam rooms and ask someone to help you with this. Couples must both be on at the same time. Faces only and please have a decent profile not a blank one before asking me! If I'm free to help with this I will post a status update, fab cam rooms only, no Kik, Skype or WhatsApp. I don't do it on demand, sorry.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones. Single guys, this link is specifically for you. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice. Engage in the cam rooms and forums, get yourself known.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places. Read the safety advice on the faq section.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe!

*** TOP TIPS FOR MEETING ***

1. Don't take things off fab

2. Don't engage in wank chat

3. Don't swap endless pics

4. Don't travel ridiculous distances

5. Don't book a hotel without at least meeting for a social first

6. Do listen to your gut instinct, it's normally right

7. Do arrange a social in a public place before any sex

8. Do report any no show to admin

9. If a couple, speak to both halves.

10. Use common sense, if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

Any other tips or questions, feel free to post them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In response to the numerous threads asking for help, I thought I'd put some general advice on a thread for you all.

**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab! Please do not pm me before taking all of the advice below.

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones. Single guys, this link is specifically for you. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice. Engage in the cam rooms and forums, get yourself known.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places. Read the safety advice on the faq section.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe!

*** TOP TIPS FOR MEETING ***

1. Don't take things off fab

2. Don't engage in wank chat

3. Don't swap endless pics

4. Don't travel ridiculous distances

5. Don't book a hotel without at least meeting for a social first

6. Do listen to your gut instinct, it's normally right

7. Do arrange a social in a public place before any sex

8. Do report any no show to admin

9. If a couple, speak to both halves.

10. Use common sense, if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

Any other tips or questions, feel free to post them.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In response to the numerous threads asking for help, I thought I'd put some general advice on a thread for you all.

**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab! Please do not pm me before taking all of the advice below.

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones. Single guys, this link is specifically for you. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice. Engage in the cam rooms and forums, get yourself known.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places. Read the safety advice on the faq section.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe!

*** TOP TIPS FOR MEETING ***

1. Don't take things off fab

2. Don't engage in wank chat

3. Don't swap endless pics

4. Don't travel ridiculous distances

5. Don't book a hotel without at least meeting for a social first

6. Do listen to your gut instinct, it's normally right

7. Do arrange a social in a public place before any sex

8. Do report any no show to admin

9. If a couple, speak to both halves.

10. Use common sense, if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

Any other tips or questions, feel free to post them.

Thanks

Oh and if arrange a meet don't not turn up without telling us. Things do go not to plan we have lives but be respectful and don't keep us hanging on.

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"In response to the numerous threads asking for help, I thought I'd put some general advice on a thread for you all.

**HELP FOR NEWBIES/NO MEETS**

This section is especially for you singles and couples that need a bit of help with Fab! Please do not pm me before taking all of the advice below.

1. Read FAQ section, particularly the part about no reply, no interest, it's not considered rude. Do not bother with the Sydney university shit on your profile, it means nothing.

2. Work on your profile: decent pics and a good bio, tick interests. Put a profile pic on. If you are a couple then pics of you both together.

3. Get photo verified, particularly important if you are a couple or single female.

5. Read a profile before messaging, it's polite.

6. Read existing forum threads on profile advice, some very good ones. Single guys, this link is specifically for you. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.

7. Post your own thread to ask for feedback, (not a whinging, whining entitled one!). Don't highjack an existing thread.

8. Act on said advice. Engage in the cam rooms and forums, get yourself known.

9. Go to local socials/clubs, meet people in public places. Read the safety advice on the faq section.

10. Lastly, enjoy your time on fab and stay safe!

*** TOP TIPS FOR MEETING ***

1. Don't take things off fab

2. Don't engage in wank chat

3. Don't swap endless pics

4. Don't travel ridiculous distances

5. Don't book a hotel without at least meeting for a social first

6. Do listen to your gut instinct, it's normally right

7. Do arrange a social in a public place before any sex

8. Do report any no show to admin

9. If a couple, speak to both halves.

10. Use common sense, if it's too good to be true, it probably is.

Any other tips or questions, feel free to post them.

Thanks

Oh and if arrange a meet don't not turn up without telling us. Things do go not to plan we have lives but be respectful and don't keep us hanging on.

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

1 and 9 contradict eachother, you need to go off fab to be able to talk to a couple and actually verify they are a couple . This applies to all genders. Also, there is nothing wrong with meeting people for sex without having a social in a public place, if you have taken reasonable care to ensure your personal safety, again this applies to all genders. Otherwise all good advice.

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"1 and 9 contradict eachother, you need to go off fab to be able to talk to a couple and actually verify they are a couple . This applies to all genders. Also, there is nothing wrong with meeting people for sex without having a social in a public place, if you have taken reasonable care to ensure your personal safety, again this applies to all genders. Otherwise all good advice."

I'll make those a bit clearer, what I was a tually meaning was use the facilities on fab ie the cam rooms instead of Kik, Skype etc. Sometimes what looks OK when I type it may read differently lol. Thanks, I'll clarity those points. X

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

No 8. Is extremely important. Blind messaging the most amazing, on point messages will be ignored 99.9999% of the time. Yet a few exchanges in forums and messaging using 'reply privately' with similar thought out/on point message will most of the time find a lady more than willing to chat.

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