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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my husband are meeting up with a woman next Friday for our first ffm, been wanting to play with another woman for a long time ,but very nervous!!!

Any advice??

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

She will probably be just as, if not more, nervous as you both are. Lots of communication is key x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She will probably be just as, if not more, nervous as you both are. Lots of communication is key x"

If she's more nervous than me, she must be panic stricken!!! Lol

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Speak on the phone or ask her to send a photo with her finger on her ear.

Just check it isn't a bloke pretending to be female !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Speak on the phone or ask her to send a photo with her finger on her ear.

Just check it isn't a bloke pretending to be female !"

We've already spoken a couple of times, so I know it's legit

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"She will probably be just as, if not more, nervous as you both are. Lots of communication is key x

If she's more nervous than me, she must be panic stricken!!! Lol"

I was before mine. There's 2 of you and 1 of her. Are you having a social first or straight to play? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She will probably be just as, if not more, nervous as you both are. Lots of communication is key x

If she's more nervous than me, she must be panic stricken!!! Lol

I was before mine. There's 2 of you and 1 of her. Are you having a social first or straight to play? X"

Meeting for a couple of drinks first

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"She will probably be just as, if not more, nervous as you both are. Lots of communication is key x

If she's more nervous than me, she must be panic stricken!!! Lol

I was before mine. There's 2 of you and 1 of her. Are you having a social first or straight to play? X

Meeting for a couple of drinks first "

I expect it will all go well then. You'll all have time to chat a bit and have a laugh. The nerves should hopefully go as you're all having a drink. Just be mindful of not drinking too much with nerves x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She will probably be just as, if not more, nervous as you both are. Lots of communication is key x

If she's more nervous than me, she must be panic stricken!!! Lol

I was before mine. There's 2 of you and 1 of her. Are you having a social first or straight to play? X

Meeting for a couple of drinks first

I expect it will all go well then. You'll all have time to chat a bit and have a laugh. The nerves should hopefully go as you're all having a drink. Just be mindful of not drinking too much with nerves x"

The husband is really nervous as well!!! He's worried that he might get too excited too quickly.....

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Speak on the phone or ask her to send a photo with her finger on her ear.

Just check it isn't a bloke pretending to be female !

We've already spoken a couple of times, so I know it's legit "

Brill. So I would just have a drink together and take it steady...no need to rush. A lot depends on how much experience she has. Just have fun and let things happen. I wouldn't try to plan how it should go, have ideas of what scenario you would like. But go with the flow

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Me and my husband are meeting up with a woman next Friday for our first ffm, been wanting to play with another woman for a long time ,but very nervous!!!

Any advice??"

Like any play meet, just relax, and go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it so hard to find other couples where the female is as bi as my wife. Allways looking for fem on fem fun. Embrace it, my wife would. X

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