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By *issyEM OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

Question for ppl into hotwife/gf lifestyle scenario.

My last partner has been swinging before as the bull for other couples. He tried get me into hotwife scenario but as long I do like like mmf in clubs outside I am not into other guys. Is possible that he lost interest of me cos I wasn't slutty enough?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Don't ever do what you don't feel like doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It's because you clearly weren't compatible.

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By *issyEM OP   Woman
over a year ago

Nearly

Thank you x

I do appreciate your answer x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Question for ppl into hotwife/gf lifestyle scenario.

My last partner has been swinging before as the bull for other couples. He tried get me into hotwife scenario but as long I do like like mmf in clubs outside I am not into other guys. Is possible that he lost interest of me cos I wasn't slutty enough? "

you're better of with out him.

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By *aveed74Man
over a year ago

a round and a bout Midlands

Don't feel pressured or judge yourself via others' expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss, go out and enjoy what you like don't be pressured into something you don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His loss, go out and enjoy what you like don't be pressured into something you don't like. "

Great pics by the way x

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

You should be you not what someone wants you to be if you feel you have to change to please them you are best binning them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely up to you what you are comfortable doing tbh. If he couldn't understand that, that's his problem not yours. If that was enough for him to break up with you then he wasn't that great to begin with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You be you. Don't let lack of compatibility with one guy make you doubt yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself you shouldn't worry about trying to fit someone else's ideal.

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By *restonM50Man
over a year ago

preston

Be yourself.

Be comfortable with what you want. Not someone else. Boundaries work both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. It's because you clearly weren't compatible. "

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By *2coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Well don't you wanna have more men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for ppl into hotwife/gf lifestyle scenario.

My last partner has been swinging before as the bull for other couples. He tried get me into hotwife scenario but as long I do like like mmf in clubs outside I am not into other guys. Is possible that he lost interest of me cos I wasn't slutty enough? "
i just dont understand how he left you, you look stunning naked, you got involved in the lifestyle, he was in the lifestyle before you met and probably after he left and yet you feel its your fault somehow, relationships are based on communication and trust and great sex, its got me pondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing in life is to be true to yourself, and if someone truly cares about you then how you feel would really matter to them.

Clearly somewhere between compatibility and caring about you he didn't truly understand and value enough.

Sex like life starts as a physical thing and ends in the mind and feeling experiences and desires.

Strikes me you deserve to find a partner that truly values you for who you are, not just because you look stunningly gorgeous.

Take care and hope 2020 is a better year for you.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Lol not met a woman slutty enough!!!!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"No. It's because you clearly weren't compatible. "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't ever do what you don't feel like doing"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"His loss, go out and enjoy what you like don't be pressured into something you don't like. "

How is it "his loss". They clearly weren't compatible so it looks like they've both gained to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you and concentrate on what you want and enjoy, why try to be something your not for the sake of it

Maybe it’s his loss

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