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By *LeatherandLace- OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

So after changing our profile many times we still feel like we are missing some things and also feel like we have added to much at the same time.

Any pointers in how to make our profile any better would be greatly appreciated, photos, bio etc anything about those

Mr I & Miss

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We like your wording but would prefer to see a few more photos, and delete the blurred photo that you have.

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By *LeatherandLace- OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee

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By *LeatherandLace- OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee


"We like your wording but would prefer to see a few more photos, and delete the blurred photo that you have."

Thanks for the advice, have ditched the blurred photo and will hopefully be getting some more photos up soon.

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Hey guys. Cute. I don’t think you need to apologise for having a beard. And does putting the word “ice” in your subject line imply you are open to drug use? Just a couple of thoughts. Cheers

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By *LeatherandLace- OP   Couple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Hey guys. Cute. I don’t think you need to apologise for having a beard. And does putting the word “ice” in your subject line imply you are open to drug use? Just a couple of thoughts. Cheers "

Why thank you, only reason we put that there about the Mr having a beard is due to chatting to people and getting on quite well with them to then send a face picture. Normally leads to either ignored or getting the messages "sorry not into facial hair" which we don't mind. We find it gives them a pre heads up so no one's time is wasted .

Oh gosh we never thought of the message head liner refering to drugs, we are definitely not into them haha, shall get that changed just now! .

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Hey guys. Cute. I don’t think you need to apologise for having a beard. And does putting the word “ice” in your subject line imply you are open to drug use? Just a couple of thoughts. Cheers

Why thank you, only reason we put that there about the Mr having a beard is due to chatting to people and getting on quite well with them to then send a face picture. Normally leads to either ignored or getting the messages "sorry not into facial hair" which we don't mind. We find it gives them a pre heads up so no one's time is wasted .

Oh gosh we never thought of the message head liner refering to drugs, we are definitely not into them haha, shall get that changed just now! ."

Not sure if the drug ice is a thing in the uk but it certainly is here in Oz. Cheers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about the length of your profile. If you think you need to say something, dont be afraid to say it if you think it's relevant!

Our profile is like an epic Tolkien trilogy we've tried to cut it but felt everything in it was necessary so left it alone.

Once you have more photos it will be fine

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I think the profile pic of a couple should be the two of you together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same problem. Maybe we can receive some advice as well.

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London

There is nothing wrong with your profile. In fact very good for a new one.

Our one is in constant development. Quite long, but we prefer our potential meets to know the full picture. Also acts like a firewall and to be honest we get very rearly wasteful messages.

However, I will advise you to remove the point where you say, she is quite picky. Everyone is to a point, but that confuses your potential meets. Makes them think- "Am I good enough for her?" And very likely they will say: Pass.

Also remove the lines for the STD chat. Noone likes that, but makes you look like you are overthinking the situation. Mentioning safe sex is ok, but no need of lecture in STD.

And lastly, add few more photos. Unfortunately most people like to see, before they read.

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By *exi7000Couple
over a year ago

London


"We have the same problem. Maybe we can receive some advice as well. "

In your situation, I will advise you to remove statements like: possible, right person etc. It reads like: don't know what I want. Mentioning the "right person" will make everyone insecure, and to be honest, they will just pass, as noone want to find out if its the right person.

Also the lecture for married guys is a bit irrelevant, as most guys will probably lie anyway, but makes you look judgemental.

Hope it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics, and less nudity in pics is more

No one wants to see last nights tea.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

We are far from experts or even that experienced. But we’ve had the odd kind message regarding our profile, so perhaps it works for some people.

We have tried to communicate who we are more than what we’re looking for. We don’t take this place or ourselves very seriously and we hope that comes through. We are intimate people, and a strong connection matters to us, and we try to ensure that our photos as well as our words communicates this. It’s not often we receive unsolicited messages like some couples do, even though we haven’t imposed any filters. But the messages we do receive are almost always polite, and we usually receive a response when we reach out to someone.

Your profile reads very well. We would like to see more photos, and especially photos of you both together.

Hope all that helps Xx

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"We are far from experts or even that experienced. But we’ve had the odd kind message regarding our profile, so perhaps it works for some people.

We have tried to communicate who we are more than what we’re looking for. We don’t take this place or ourselves very seriously and we hope that comes through. We are intimate people, and a strong connection matters to us, and we try to ensure that our photos as well as our words communicates this. It’s not often we receive unsolicited messages like some couples do, even though we haven’t imposed any filters. But the messages we do receive are almost always polite, and we usually receive a response when we reach out to someone.

Your profile reads very well. We would like to see more photos, and especially photos of you both together.

Hope all that helps Xx"

That is a very well written profile. Bravo!

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