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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, me and my partner have are own fantasies and wanting to try them. We just don’t know where to start or if it needs building up to, my partner wants a middle ground first, like same room sex etc. Would a visit to a club be a good place or is it better a private meet/arrangements? We are a young good looking couple. I’m looking for a threesome with another male, when I put this in our profile the messages come flooding in, but with people saying all the wrong things! I would really appreciate some good advice. Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not hiding your profile would certainly be a good start, and having some photos of both of you, preferably together, too.

Going to a club and socializing with like-minded people should help as well.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

You can block all messages from males and just find them for yourself if the messages are coming in too thick and heavy. Clubs are great but aren't for everyone, so maybe go with no expectations at first to see what it's all about. Definitely ease in first. So many people jump in the deep end and regret it. Try some same room fun, then maybe soft swap/just oral with who you're playing with and then move onto the threesome thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have done now, there’s pictures together in a friends only. I had to make it private, seemed only men looking for a quick fix. I was looking for advice first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you! Good advice. It’s much appreciated. Will couples at clubs mind the same room/soft swap? Is the a bit light for a club?

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne


"Thank you! Good advice. It’s much appreciated. Will couples at clubs mind the same room/soft swap? Is the a bit light for a club?"

Not at all. A lot of couples only soft swap or do same room fun. Just make sure you make your boundaries very clear to all involved before you start

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Go to work a club, they are no pressure environments.

It is perfectly acceptable to just be there and socialise, or just entertain each other, or watch others.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Clubs would be a perfect starting point. You have a variety of people, with no obligation and the ability to move on to someone else hassle free. The facilities to try anything you fancy at your own speed. And also a great place to immerse yourself in the scene, meet others, talk, get advice (from people who've been there before) and get ideas.

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