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By *nches Count OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

To all couples and females on here - what is your thoughts on the wink option on here....do you;

1) Prefer to be sent a wink as a way of a male saying I like your profile and then lead into messages

2) Prefer a message to start things off

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer a message, but not against winks if people are shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a good way to start things off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not averse to a bit of winking. It's been a good start with a few people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks and always look at the profile unless they are miles from me in which case I just delete without looking

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

It's just like being in a pub situation you see someone looking at you they wink at you,smile at you ,then finaly chat to you ..so way i see it is if someone has winked me il check out their profile and if im intrested il send a wink back followed by an email thanking them for the wink .

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I dont even look at winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience winks are pretty pointless and no one responds to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience winks are pretty pointless and no one responds to them."
We've found the opposite to be the case.

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I much prefer a message as i dont allways look at my winks

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By *nches Count OP   Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Its a tough one, I have used winks in the past and you dont get any response which okay, says waste of time using them, then on the other hand, you get a wink back, so you think, okay they fancy a chat, send a message and nothing....trying to find the best way to make the first contact, as so many single guys on here, timewasters or not, you are fighting a losing battle half the time

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

We don't mind winks, but only if the guy has a good profile with pictures. If we like the profile we will wink back or send a message.

Winks are totally pointless if the guy has no pics on his profile or just a cock pic, as it just comes across as them being lazy.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I don't look at my winks, I currently have over a hundred unopened ones. I just go in and mass delete them occasionally.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Dont mind a wink frm couples or single female as for single guys u can make a bit of an effort.why bcause there lots and lots of guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mass delete mine too

Never look at them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience winks are pretty pointless and no one responds to them.We've found the opposite to be the case."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are ok..nice way to flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks its an easy way to say I like the person if I get a response then start with the emails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like being in a pub situation you see someone looking at you they wink at you,smile at you ,then finaly chat to you ..so way i see it is if someone has winked me il check out their profile and if im intrested il send a wink back followed by an email thanking them for the wink . "

If I get a wink, I'll also thank them, but on all occasions except one, they haven't responded! Now tell me, what's the point of winking in the first place? I'll continue to say thanks and also continue to smile to myself when I get nothing back

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i mass delete mine, life is too short to see who looked at me or who winked us.

If the are interested they will message, if not then someone else will.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"It's just like being in a pub situation you see someone looking at you they wink at you,smile at you ,then finaly chat to you ..so way i see it is if someone has winked me il check out their profile and if im intrested il send a wink back followed by an email thanking them for the wink . "

i have never been winked at in a pub...i would assume they had a twitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love a good wink

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We delete all winks and friends invites,as it shows that they have not read our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like being in a pub situation you see someone looking at you they wink at you,smile at you ,then finaly chat to you ..so way i see it is if someone has winked me il check out their profile and if im intrested il send a wink back followed by an email thanking them for the wink .

i have never been winked at in a pub...i would assume they had a twitch "

Reminds me of meeting a cpl years ago nothing to do with swinging but I thought he was very strange cos he kept winking at me all night, wasn't till days later found out it was a twitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Site features are there to be used id say. if not there about as much use as a chocolate fireguard.

Profiles thats say dont accept winks or friend requests put me off. If you want to be mentally stimulated try reading a book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my experience winks are pretty pointless and no one responds to them.We've found the opposite to be the case."

You are missing the fundamental difference. Namely that you are a couple and he is a single guy. I never wink, common sense dictates that a woman with potentially 100's of messages is somewhat unlikely to resond to a single man who can't be arsed to type a message.

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By *etifistiqueCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

we had a bit of cam play last night, got a fair bit of attention, wanted to acknowledge compliments, encouragement etc but as we were both distracted at the time could only mange winks!

does anyone know how to see who you've winked at?

Have also found that on most profiles people suggest approach they prefer

p+p

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't mind winks, but I can log on and find I've had 60 since I was last on site (and I'm on regularly) so sometimes I mass delete, other times I take a saunter through but may only respond to one or two.

But (double standard alert) I do wink at guys if I notice them on the forums or if I've had a chance to browse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just like being in a pub situation you see someone looking at you they wink at you,smile at you ,then finaly chat to you ..so way i see it is if someone has winked me il check out their profile and if im intrested il send a wink back followed by an email thanking them for the wink .

i have never been winked at in a pub...i would assume they had a twitch "

Having been winked at in the pub on Friday, and having only just got home, I'm very much pro-winking - online and offline. But I don't think winking is taken well from single guys (after a few testers and profile reads it tends to be seen as lazy), so I avoid its use personally...

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