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By *xLedZepxx2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Didcot

I've been stalked across 3 sites by some weirdo, I have tried the nice polite 'no thanks' approach and I have tried blocking him which seems to have worked on Cottaging and Fab Guys however even though I blocked him on this site a few months back, it seems he is still able to message me, how is this even possible?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don’t know if this is what you mean, but I had to block someone on here who pestered me constantly, and he created a new profile to get round my block. I reported him and the profile vanished (I don’t know if admin did it or the user) but I keep expecting him to pop up again. Is this guy making new profiles to harass you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blocked the same guy around 7 or 8 times on my old profile. Just came back with a new profile. The day I created this one he'd messaged me within hours and I had to tell him no on three separate occasions before he left me alone. Its hard to know what to suggest really.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I've been stalked across 3 sites by some weirdo, I have tried the nice polite 'no thanks' approach and I have tried blocking him which seems to have worked on Cottaging and Fab Guys however even though I blocked him on this site a few months back, it seems he is still able to message me, how is this even possible?"

It shouldn't be possible. Report.

In the mean time, change your user name to something new and don't post it onto other profiles.

Change your profile text and age or location so if they do come back with another profile it'll be less obvious it's you.

Take some new images, especially your avatar and set your old ones to friends only.

Check your veris for your name or identifying features and hides as appropriate.

It's a pain really; however, it has worked for me in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow how sad can someone be to keep creating profiles lmao some people really are pathetic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow how sad can someone be to keep creating profiles lmao some people really are pathetic x"

Some pretty major issues with that one. He ended up telling me no one would ever love me and I should kill myself among other stuff. All because I wouldn't talk to him. I don't think he would even have met me if I'd offered, he just wanted to talk dirty, which I have no interest in. Not great but just another side effect of being here and as the op demonstrates it's not just women who have to deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow how sad can someone be to keep creating profiles lmao some people really are pathetic x

Some pretty major issues with that one. He ended up telling me no one would ever love me and I should kill myself among other stuff. All because I wouldn't talk to him. I don't think he would even have met me if I'd offered, he just wanted to talk dirty, which I have no interest in. Not great but just another side effect of being here and as the op demonstrates it's not just women who have to deal with it "

Us guys have it bad also.... but on a positive note, if crazy people didn’t message me... I wouldn’t get any mail at all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been stalked across 3 sites by some weirdo, I have tried the nice polite 'no thanks' approach and I have tried blocking him which seems to have worked on Cottaging and Fab Guys however even though I blocked him on this site a few months back, it seems he is still able to message me, how is this even possible?"

Sorry to hear that you are being stalked. First Block the user, report the profile and then contact the site direct. There is a link at the bottom of the screen. The site gives a set of FAQs but just continue to the contact us and repeat this question.

Fingers crossed the profile gets the message and leaves you alone.

Good luck.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Life is too short not to use the block button with some people.

A lovely quote I stole.today

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would just save his messages, block and report him every time, unless he is doing anything more worrying I would just not give him any attention.

I'm sure he will get tired of it soon.

He shouldn't be able to do it but if he is managing too I feel it's a shame for you to have to change anything about what you do in order to avoid him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

praise be for the Block button!

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By *xLedZepxx2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Didcot

Cheers for your input guys, he has disappeared from my block lists across all the sites I mentioned, it seems he is deleting his profiles and setting up new ones using a similar username, always the same location (Aylesbury), same (very little) profile information and it's always the same message (sorry to be so graphic) "My gay cock in your gay arse" Obviously just some deranged weirdo who doesn't read profiles.

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