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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm curious, what makes someone read a message - the subject, the first line, attachments, or the profile photo?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I look at the profile first.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Tend to look at the profile first.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I look at the profile and then read the message and then look at attached photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at the profile first to see if they tick certain boxes, then read the message.

To be fair the message is irrelevant if their profile shows they haven't read ours, we won't bother reading the message as we've already found they're not for us.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I always read the message first, but pictures, profile content, or public activity are all factors I consider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious, what makes someone read a message - the subject, the first line, attachments, or the profile photo?"

an eye catching intelligent message that keeps me peeled and glued and makes me think wow I would like to get to know him as makes better sex

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The Profile! Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm curious, what makes someone read a message - the subject, the first line, attachments, or the profile photo?"

like most on this thread OP

I would look at the profile

and digest it and rip it apart

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I've had loads of messages this evening from people with a one sentence profile.

Just dull!

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By *etelovesnylonsMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

We read messages but also look at the profile pics . In reality if the first introduction message is short , unimaginative , excessively crude (we are not prudes but some social etiquette is appreciated ) or clearly they haven’t read our profile then that’s the end before it starts .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting. I always thought a catchy headline was the way to go, clearly wrong...

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By *uicylucy19Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

I usually look at the profile first, then the message preview. If it’s one word or ‘fancy a fuck’ then I don’t bother to read it. Something that makes me smile/laugh in the title or first sentence is far more likely to get a reply x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile and the message preview.

If it starts crude it's a delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely look at a profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something original. If it's just a hi, someone claiming to be an alpha/Dom/genuine...I just delete it. If they don't mention my name I just assume it's a copy paste and again, delete it. So, make it original and address the person, always helps...make sure to make your profile look good aswell as most people will also look at your profile.

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