FabSwingers.com forum: Not a new member but help please

By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi guys I'm jay and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong with my profile and I'm not good at all this stuff someone please come and help me out with this please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing that puts me off is the phone sex. That’s just not for me

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Thank you for that and that has just come off my profile

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

No profile pic and no public pics would be an instant delete from us, sorry.

Bry (and Char)

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No photos so would pass by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photos just mean little interest to most.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

No pics as others have said, One veri over a year old. You say you want nsa, but then want someone to go dancing with you, mixed signals? Plus the saying " normal guy", what's a normal guy? Plus sentances run into one long no punctuation. Nothing makes you stick out from the crowd.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Photos

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I'm going to put some pictures on my profile now

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I'm going to put some pictures on my profile now "

Make sure you put decent well taken photos on.

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Are my pictures any good then

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Might be me but one cock pic is enough as this site is full of them ,find them endless ..

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Can I suggest breaking down your description into paragraphs

Will make it much easier to read

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

So NO cock pictures then

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi guys my apologies but I'm not good at all that profile stuff as you know

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

"Hi guys my apologies but I'm not good at all that profile stuff as you know "

You can pm me if you like chap

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So NO cock pictures then "
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Some like them, but 3 are not necessary

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"So NO cock pictures then ,

Some like them, but 3 are not necessary

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This was my point too ..

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I've removed them

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I've removed them "
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Ok now you're getting there

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

So should I put some other pictures on my profile then?

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"So should I put some other pictures on my profile then?"
Yes full body with and without clothes nice pair of boxers maybe ..

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So should I put some other pictures on my profile then?"

You have face pics that's good

Maybe full length pic, clothes is fine in my opinion

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"So should I put some other pictures on my profile then?Yes full body with and without clothes nice pair of boxers maybe .."

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

What about a picture of me just getting out the shower with a towel just covering up my cock then

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What about a picture of me just getting out the shower with a towel just covering up my cock then "
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Haha! that could work!

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

That's is the next picture or pictures I'm going to do then

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"What about a picture of me just getting out the shower with a towel just covering up my cock then "
Yes

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"That's is the next picture or pictures I'm going to do then "

Well done you for listening to people

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

lol and thank you guys

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"lol and thank you guys "

You're welcome

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"lol and thank you guys "
Someone who listened and didnt get offended ,,good for you and good luck .

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

No thank you and a shame that you don't want a single guy to join you

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Well hay guys I'm looking for a nice couple

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"Well hay guys I'm looking for a nice couple "
Samiss is your best bet

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Well hay guys I'm looking for a nice couple Samiss is your best bet

We only meet couples and not very often now

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No thank you and a shame that you don't want a single guy to join you "

Haha!

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Bloody shame

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Bloody shame "

Thanks for the compliment though

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

See even you guys that are chatting with me don't want to know me Or have any fun with??

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hi guys I'm jay and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong with my profile and I'm not good at all this stuff someone please come and help me out with this please "
. I would change the age range unless you want to meet a 99 year old probably a oversight but can be viewed as lazy by some ( not me ) .If you can travel then look to attend socials and clubs leave a verification for anyone you meet and there is a good chance they will leave one back that way we people see you attend social and clubs shows you have social skills as well as the type of person you are.I would consider changing your profile into bullet point as I feel it stands out better.You are quite welcome to have a look at mine if you feel it would help.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"See even you guys that are chatting with me don't want to know me Or have any fun with??"

We just don't meet single guys , hubby likes to play with another woman, so we only meet couples

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I need a partner in crime then?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I need a partner in crime then?"

No. Plenty of couples are looking for single guys. Be patient. Be proactive.

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I will be very patient

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

As suggested by someone else, you need to break your profile down into sections, ie, paragraphs.

Whilst most people start each one with, I, that can be off-putting to some, so try to avoid that.

Include what you can bring to a meet with others plus, what you'd like in return

It's all about being noticed, not just on a profile, so get involved with the Forums. Get out to Socials, which don't mean you'll strike lucky by any means, just the opposite will ring true.

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By *UNANDNICE OP Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Just added a new picture

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

"See even you guys that are chatting with me don't want to know me Or have any fun with??"
We need a bi guy which isnt you and your miles away thats our reason ..

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Every one of these threads is a lesson in how you can please some of the people some of the time and not all the people all of the time.

"Don't post cock pics"

Some people like to see them.

"Would you really shag a 99 year old"

Probably not, but it could just mean the person is not hung up on age. Let's say your limit is 50, then you meet someone at a social and really click, then find out they are 52. Ok so you have a rethink, reset your age limit to 55. Guess what? That really hot woman you fancied on the train is 57! See where this is going? If you are prepared to judge someone on them, not just a number set it at 99. You'll then interact with people that think the way you do.

Be yourself, that way you will meet people that you have a connection with.

If you are yourself in your profile and still get no response then you need to consider if there is a better way forward. Hundreds of people swing without ever going near a site like this.

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