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NEW MEMBER - ADVICE PLEASE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

I have been on here for a few days - I have also been on in the past and find as a lot of people say the men outnumber the women therefore it is harder to get replies and meets. I only have one public photo and a few private face ones and adult ones but I am just needing your advice really?

I think maybe I need more of the photos to be public but then run the risk of people I know seeing them?

I did meet one lady but she could not verify me for some reason and have had a couple of timewasters already which is frustrating but I am willing to be patient.

Any other general advice on the profile?

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can put pics up and hide your face. Where is your bio? It's virtually none existent.

What can you offer a woman?

A woman wants to feel wanted.

They aren't just here to get you off after a hard day at work!

Put some effort into your profile text.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

There's advice on my profile OP, feel free to use it and good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to make your profile look interesting OP and 4 lines fails to do that you need to expand your profile and add detail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many thanks for the help so far - I really struggle with writing about myself to be honest which is probably why there is not much information.

I suppose looking at other guys profiles might give me an idea of what works?

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I'm not a new member but im in need of some help please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The options for pictures that won't reveal your identity are endless. Be creative, it's not that hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks and yeah I have used the emoji on my profile photo and cropped a couple of the others but then I have face photos that people who I work with or family would recognize me straight away!

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Use your imagination when it comes to pictures.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Always be yourself when you do your profile dont pretend to be something youre not .add a bit of humour perhaps what turns you on .whats important about a meet...pics.. creative ones ..black/white dressed smart.. theres always a what if someone recognises you.... but remember we"re here once enjoy life your way..as long as its not ilegal etc etc etc

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Hi guys,

I have been on here for a few days - I have also been on in the past and find as a lot of people say the men outnumber the women therefore it is harder to get replies and meets. I only have one public photo and a few private face ones and adult ones but I am just needing your advice really?

I think maybe I need more of the photos to be public but then run the risk of people I know seeing them?

I did meet one lady but she could not verify me for some reason and have had a couple of timewasters already which is frustrating but I am willing to be patient.

Any other general advice on the profile?

Cheers

"

No, that sounds about right. Welcome to fab man.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Put some more pics on wuite like what I see with one pic so just nice pics would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try and stand out somehow

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