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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...

The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ??

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I think that statement is clear and states what you're looking for. However it does contradict your opening paragraph?

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I think that statement is clear and states what you're looking for. However it does contradict your opening paragraph?"

How ? And do you think it says I'm submissive?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It says to me that you would like someone to attend socials and clubs with but without any ties whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...

The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ?? "

In all honesty OP the first 4 paragraphs are very direct and maybe stating in caps that you 'will out' attached guys comes across as harsh. The first thought I had was 'to what lengths will this lady go?'. Then the last para is much softer and includes a 'lol'... so in my (her) opinion its could confuse people or on the other hand they know exactly where they stand with you.

Just my thoughts as you did ask for feedback

C

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

No I don't think it says you're submissive at all. You're clearly looking for NSA fun.

I just felt your opening paragraph stated you weren't looking to meet and then the final paragraph suggests otherwise that's all.

Good luck in your search

Mrs x

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...

The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ??

In all honesty OP the first 4 paragraphs are very direct and maybe stating in caps that you 'will out' attached guys comes across as harsh. The first thought I had was 'to what lengths will this lady go?'. Then the last para is much softer and includes a 'lol'... so in my (her) opinion its could confuse people or on the other hand they know exactly where they stand with you.

Just my thoughts as you did ask for feedback

C"

Thank you honesty is appreciated however harsh lol

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"No I don't think it says you're submissive at all. You're clearly looking for NSA fun.

I just felt your opening paragraph stated you weren't looking to meet and then the final paragraph suggests otherwise that's all.

Good luck in your search

Mrs x"

Ahhh yes lol I will be looking but not until I am happy with profile and pics seems men on here only read what they want to see and try to make me think otherwise x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Ownership is frequently used in BDSM, this may be where the submissive idea is coming from.

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Ownership is frequently used in BDSM, this may be where the submissive idea is coming from."

That's what he said ... but I was saying I dont want to be owned lol x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"I think that statement is clear and states what you're looking for. However it does contradict your opening paragraph?

How ? And do you think it says I'm submissive? "

You say strictly NSA or ownership so you could be saying you want to be owned or the other way around so could be domme or sub....the reader will see what they want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes perfect sense to me OP but people can easily misinterpret things.

V x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Oh, it's not clear to me. Looks like you are looking for NSA or ownership (not no ownership). As in offering alternatives but i do get how it also means neither now you've explained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First line of your profile says you aren't meeting at the moment,so I can't see why anyone would contact to meet you .

Personally I wouldn't read any further( if I was looking to meet) and would move on to the next profile

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"First line of your profile says you aren't meeting at the moment,so I can't see why anyone would contact to meet you .

Personally I wouldn't read any further( if I was looking to meet) and would move on to the next profile"

Wish the men would do this so when I'm online I can actually complete my profile instead of trying to answer stupid questions lol guess the delete button will be coming into play a lot more.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

You will " out" a man if hes a cheater! Just block, no need for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking of finding a single Male who is interested is clubs socials and parties with strictly NSA or ownership lol...

The above is a bit from my profile and had the weirdest message ... so just wondering how I have worded it how does it come across to you ?? "
it says you just want a no strings fuck buddy for attending sexual events....... nothing else strictly the business of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filter out men from being able to contact you and do the looking yourself

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

I'd read that part as you wanted one of two things

Nsa fuck buddy for clubs

Or

A fuck buddy for clubs where you role play ownership - either with you owning him or him owning you - to be decided

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I'd read that part as you wanted one of two things

Nsa fuck buddy for clubs

Or

A fuck buddy for clubs where you role play ownership - either with you owning him or him owning you - to be decided"

No I dont want anyone thinking I'm theirs x that's what I was trying to get across and as for outing a cheat ... yes I will and there is every need for it if they can't be honest with me and give me the opportunity to say no thanks and i get dragged into a mess ( it has happened before ) then why shouldn't I defend myself as the innocent party ?

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By *exy4youxx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Filter out men from being able to contact you and do the looking yourself "

Dont have lot of time but might see that one coming soon with amount of ignorance on here from men x

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