Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to Swinging Support and Advice |
| Jump to newest |  |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "I'd meet you  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "Having met u 2 they daft if they pass u by  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please
Having met u 2 they daft if they pass u by "Aww thanks Roxy.....mwah xxxx | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 another reason why clubs work best for us I think xxxx | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
 if interested please message privately for more info x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’d meet you guys, you’ve got good photos including both of you, seemingly rare for a couple.... The bi-guy thing wouldn’t be an issue, I’m not bisexual but have no issue with anyone who is. " I know, are the male halves of couples really that shy to pose more than a cock pic! Pity you're not a little bit bendy as you're pretty local and kinda hot x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
After that it will have to be our mission to find some fun on fab! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Thanks for everyone's thoughts so far. You've restored a bit of faith that it's not so much us and maybe we've just had a bit of bad run on here recently x We're at clubsx again for the next two weekends if anyone fancies a road trip After that it will have to be our mission to find some fun on fab! "wow - gorgeous hot looking couple. I’d love to meet you both (especially if you brought that scary looking strap on along) x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "I would go to heaven playing with you both | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "It's a tough one get lots of winges I the forums from males but it is tough for couples. Socials seem to be the in thing. Think very few on here actually u less you want to let the guy of the couple... the lady for quick couple hours nobody is really interested. If you looking for actual bi female couple for full on FF damn near impossible unless spreading them for the guy is part if the deal. Lots of veris don't help an there are many anti bi Male couples on here. In short it is pretty much dead loss for meeting unless your only interested in 123 swap. It is just the way it is stick to clubs  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Bi male? Id have thought youd be snowed under with offers(no pun intended) , id be a willing guinea pig , or rabbit for you( even got some furry ears and a bobtail)." Ah the bi male offers are relentless but often the bi spectrum is so wide that we arent actually compatible. We periodically block males so we can sift through them. We actually had one for the last two nights teased about coming round but both nights chose to party and then wanted us on his way home at daft o'clock! He only got a second chance because we were horny and we've chatted for quite a long time on here  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please
It's a tough one get lots of winges I the forums from males but it is tough for couples. Socials seem to be the in thing. Think very few on here actually u less you want to let the guy of the couple... the lady for quick couple hours nobody is really interested. If you looking for actual bi female couple for full on FF damn near impossible unless spreading them for the guy is part if the deal. Lots of veris don't help an there are many anti bi Male couples on here. In short it is pretty much dead loss for meeting unless your only interested in 123 swap. It is just the way it is stick to clubs "Wading through the guys who just really want the female half is a constant battle but fortunately they are easily ed out...doesn't leave many good ones though! We love clubs and would love people to join us to share the fun with as many fab friends as we can. Fair point about socials as actually most of our private meets have been with couples we had previously met in clubs. If only the possibility of a bi social had legs because decent bi nights are few and far between. I figured we do have quite a lot of veris but that's clubs for you, you meet lots of people even if you don't play. What would people think if we hid the veri summary and displayed only a select few? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We go through spells. Weve just unlocked single males and been flooded with messages. But if they're blocked we barely get messages or winks " Haha..we've just unblocked too! The attention is nice, lets hope it leads to some fuckery x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please
It's a tough one get lots of winges I the forums from males but it is tough for couples. Socials seem to be the in thing. Think very few on here actually u less you want to let the guy of the couple... the lady for quick couple hours nobody is really interested. If you looking for actual bi female couple for full on FF damn near impossible unless spreading them for the guy is part if the deal. Lots of veris don't help an there are many anti bi Male couples on here. In short it is pretty much dead loss for meeting unless your only interested in 123 swap. It is just the way it is stick to clubs
Wading through the guys who just really want the female half is a constant battle but fortunately they are easily ed out...doesn't leave many good ones though!
We love clubs and would love people to join us to share the fun with as many fab friends as we can.
Fair point about socials as actually most of our private meets have been with couples we had previously met in clubs. If only the possibility of a bi social had legs because decent bi nights are few and far between.
I figured we do have quite a lot of veris but that's clubs for you, you meet lots of people even if you don't play. What would people think if we hid the veri summary and displayed only a select few?"Easy just insits the lady will remain clothed until mm action has get her suitably aroused, the fakes soon sod off x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "I'd happily 'meet' you both  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "i'd definitely meet you both , | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We go through spells. Weve just unlocked single males and been flooded with messages. But if they're blocked we barely get messages or winks Haha..we've just unblocked too! The attention is nice, lets hope it leads to some fuckery x" Weve just had loads who cant read!! Lots of dick pics, lots of cheating partners. Both of which have mentioned on our profile | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We'd definitely meet you both if it wasn't for the distance. Keep doing what you're doing! " And you were already sitting on our hotlist too! Thanks guys x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Sure, you seem fun. From observation I'd say that there are a lot of oddly conservative people on this site, they might find you too out there." Thanks x That's sort of the feeling we get on here. We're just Mr and Mrs average in real life really though our fab profile just makes us look a little hectic! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "Play to your strengths; stick with the clubs | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please
I'd happily 'meet' you both "Oh...goodie See you at the weekend xxx | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Nice to hear there are still some lovelies on here who want to meet us both x That's the next stumbling block though...distance another reason why clubs work best for us I think xxxx"Well we're pretty close and love to get to Quest! Would love to see you both there! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" Answers on a postcard please
I'd happily 'meet' you both
Oh...goodie See you at the weekend xxx" | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "You guys look like fun. I'd meet you if I was anywhere near ;-( | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "tried to meet you guys a few times, unfortunately real life always seems to get in the way.... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please
tried to meet you guys a few times, unfortunately real life always seems to get in the way...."It's the bloody distance thing again isn't it We get all over the place to be fair so just waiting for the stars to line up I suppose x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve just recently had someone pretend to be part of a couple only owned up when I asked if his wife could call me. Total time waster x" There are a lot of them about. We had arranged to meet a couple a little while ago who transpired to be just a single guy! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "I’m outside your age parameters and a long way from you however there’s nothing in your profile that would suggest meeting at a club would be anything other than pleasant. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Personally we wouldn’t, but we can defo agree that meets are extremely hard on here!!! X" We're not really compatible for straight couples tbf so understand we wouldn't be for you...probably punching above our weight even if we were compatible, you guys are both hot. Thanks for your input x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Our age parameters do seem to get in the way sometimes along with the distance and our sexualities! Big thanks to everyone who has commented though...great to hear from you all x" Get your butts to VA on the 6th... please xx | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Our age parameters do seem to get in the way sometimes along with the distance and our sexualities! Big thanks to everyone who has commented though...great to hear from you all x" I find that being a smoker is a big hindrance wish I could quit again. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Our age parameters do seem to get in the way sometimes along with the distance and our sexualities! Big thanks to everyone who has commented though...great to hear from you all x I find that being a smoker is a big hindrance wish I could quit again."Ric quit ages ago and Danni predominantly vapes these days but understand that makes us less attractive to some. Often something we don't consider as a problem so glad you mentioned it and we can do something about it x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Our age parameters do seem to get in the way sometimes along with the distance and our sexualities! Big thanks to everyone who has commented though...great to hear from you all x Get your butts to VA on the 6th... please xx"Aww we can't make that night but have just signed up for spicys Xmas bi party at Jaydees on the 20th dec! | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Our age parameters do seem to get in the way sometimes along with the distance and our sexualities! Big thanks to everyone who has commented though...great to hear from you all x Get your butts to VA on the 6th... please xx
Aww we can't make that night but have just signed up for spicys Xmas bi party at Jaydees on the 20th dec! "That’s my works Xmas party that night..... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If you ever fancy a holiday in cornwall you know where to find us haha " We might just hold you to that one day...Thanks guys xx | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Our age parameters do seem to get in the way sometimes along with the distance and our sexualities! Big thanks to everyone who has commented though...great to hear from you all x Get your butts to VA on the 6th... please xx
Aww we can't make that night but have just signed up for spicys Xmas bi party at Jaydees on the 20th dec!
That’s my works Xmas party that night..... "Grrrrr....one day we'll catch up with you | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Anyone who doesn't want to meet you two must be crazy..... Ok so I am privvy to knowing you already so biased, but you are fun, sexy and not timewasters so what's not to like!? See you Sat night x x"Aww...Thanks Hanky Yes let's create some mayhem at the weekend x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If distance wasn't an issue I wouldn't. But just because one of you smokes." That's one of the drawbacks of fab I suppose. You either put a tick on the limited choice of boxes or you don't! We try to be honest and hope others are too. We understand smoking is a problem and there have been plenty of threads about it and the people who lie (we don't want to be one of those). Danni wouldn't smoke around none smokers and predominantly vapes..Might have to add a little disclaimer to our profile for clarity. Thank you muchly for your feedback x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Anyone who doesn't want to meet you two must be crazy..... Ok so I am privvy to knowing you already so biased, but you are fun, sexy and not timewasters so what's not to like!? See you Sat night x x
Aww...Thanks Hanky Yes let's create some mayhem at the weekend x" | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "I'd meet you but I'm above your age limit. However I'm attending club sx on the 6december | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hi all looking for tips I have been here a while now only ever had one meet I am.polite when I message people never rude Is there something wrong with my profile any tips would be appreciated " Perhaps start your own thread to avoid confusion with the OPs request? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Being brutally honest and just going on your profile text alone and looking at it from the perspective of someone who doesn't go to clubs, I suspect it would be the lack of information about you and what you are looking for etc that might be the issue. Your profile is predominantly a list of club visits you have planned along with what you're not looking for - now for single guys looking to meet that may not be a problem, but for couples etc if they don't go to clubs or use the forums it may make them think twice. Now all that said from the comments on this thread and your veris you are obviously a lovely and well thought of couple and perhaps it's just a case of clubs is your best way of meeting people rather than through Fab - we all find our own way of what works best for us kind of thing "Sounds like we maybe need a bit of a profile overhaul if we are to get more from fab. We would like to break away from clubs a little but in a bit of a fuck it moment we have popped ourselves on the guestlist for one or two events  We used to have great profile text, I think the advances of single men have made us forget our direction a little. We have managed to refrain from having a ranty profile which is a bonus although I think we may just need to deal with the singles in a different way and use our filters so that we can focus on the meets we do want as opposed to the ones we don't! Many thanks for your feedback....muchly appreciated x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hey everyone x We have lots of fun in clubs but find arranging fun on fab pretty fruitless. Where are we going wrong? Is it the bi male thing, too many veris or something else? We get loads of messages but they rarely seem to go anywhere. We also find asking people to join us at club events very unlikely too but with so many time wasters and limited free time for us this is the best option. Answers on a postcard please "Id meet you but i dont think id make a dint judging by the size of rics cock, makes mine look small lol | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I’ve just recently had someone pretend to be part of a couple only owned up when I asked if his wife could call me. Total time waster x" I really dont get why people can not just be open and tell the truth.i get guys message me and it says straight when really they are bi.its disgusting behavior.x | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
