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By *irst timer77 OP Woman
over a year ago

Oswestry

I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

"I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?"

Go for it, look for a club you like the look of, book on to the guest list then when you arrive ask for a tour.

It's great fun you'll e joy your self.

If needs be ask a friend to go with you if they into the scene too

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?"

Dont worry. For me as a single lady.. clubs are the best choice... they are safe.. relaxed and absolutely no pressure. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uve got the options of the midlands and look on the club notices. Or on the meet aspect of the site.

1st time is rabbit in the headlights sort of thing. But mention to the host/owners uve never been to a club before. Just remember you dont do anything you dont want too. X enjoy

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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"I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?

Dont worry. For me as a single lady.. clubs are the best choice... they are safe.. relaxed and absolutely no pressure. X "

For me too. Once through the door you will be fine

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By *harliebbwWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

the hardest bit is walking thought the door but once you have dun it your be fine.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?

Dont worry. For me as a single lady.. clubs are the best choice... they are safe.. relaxed and absolutely no pressure. X "

this. If you mention to the club that it is your first time they will make sure you are looked after while you settle in.

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By *ootballFlowerCouple
over a year ago

Ollerton

You will be fine - the clubs will look after you and we have always found people are respectful.

Maybe go along with a female friend - we are sure someone on here will be your wing lady if you don't know anyone already.

If you wanted to go to Chams we would be happy to be walk in with you! That was the hardest bit for us but once we were in we LOVED IT!!

G&D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?"

1/Pick your club you may want local or not local people differ.

2/Make sure its a night that suits you some nights can be very busy some dead and some in-between so decide which you prefer.

3/Let the club know its your first time in one they will show you around and will probably introduce you to someone who is good with new people.

4/Think about going with someone else male or female lots of people would be happy to do that. Make sure there are clear expectancies or not though.

5/If its not local book a room so you can go back to it at your leisure.

6/Finally enjoy most people who go to clubs are nice people in general are there to socialise and have a good time and I am sure you will.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We went for the first time a few weeks ago and Lou was a little apprehensive, but once there the people were lovely and the staff (Attic Derby) we lovely.

There's loads of people on here who go to clubs chat with them if you want to go just as friends plenty on here would be happy to take you.

People on here are very easy going and respectful.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Townhouse might be a good first one for you. It's not too far away, I think. And I believe they have a 'newbies' night sometimes.

It's not just a matter of choosing a club. The night you go makes a difference too. If you're nervous, one of the more full-on sessions might be a bit much. I recommend calling the club and talking to them. They'll be able to guide you.

Single men are better off going on their own, but a single woman might feel less vulnerable in the company of another more experienced woman. Clubs are safe places, but it might help you feel more comfortable.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Chose your club and night wisely. You will be knee deep in offers from single men to 'take you'. These are usually men who don't have the bottle to go alone, are looking for cheap entry and a guaranteed fuck. They do not have your best interests in mind. People will assume you are a couple, if he behaves badly then he's your partner. Best to go alone or with another single fem. Tell the club it's your first time and a good club will look out for you. Don't feel pressured to do anything and don't take any crap from anyone.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I really want to visit a club but as a single girl i am very apprehensive, has anyone got any advise for me ?

1/Pick your club you may want local or not local people differ.

2/Make sure its a night that suits you some nights can be very busy some dead and some in-between so decide which you prefer.

3/Let the club know its your first time in one they will show you around and will probably introduce you to someone who is good with new people.

4/Think about going with someone else male or female lots of people would be happy to do that. Make sure there are clear expectancies or not though.

5/If its not local book a room so you can go back to it at your leisure.

6/Finally enjoy most people who go to clubs are nice people in general are there to socialise and have a good time and I am sure you will. "
exactly what a listed above. Most clubs welcome & look after single ladies. Finding a trustworthy friend to go with makes it much less daunting, even if your just going to look

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