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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

So recently the wife had a meet where she was held around her neck and it really turned her on and we have now started do it during our sex and she cums very quickly when we do, my question is where do we go from here to explore her possible BDSM or sub side it's very new to us and would like some advice from people who started off the same

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Best advice I can give you is take it slowly. There are some great books for BDSM newbies. I would start with "Screw the roses, bring me the thorns" by Phillip Miller and you could try "SM 101" by Jay Wiseman. Both are a great intro to this wonderful world

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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"Best advice I can give you is take it slowly. There are some great books for BDSM newbies. I would start with "Screw the roses, bring me the thorns" by Phillip Miller and you could try "SM 101" by Jay Wiseman. Both are a great intro to this wonderful world "

Thank you ill look into it i never thought of looking at books

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

Be careful meeting random kiwis off the internet

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By *averingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

romford

I fan bet she would enjoy sensual spanking too ??

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's worth looking on Google at safe ways of holding people's necks, some ways are very dangerous and other ways much safer.

Make sure you have agreed a signal when she wants to tap out out as she may not be talk in those circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's worth looking on Google at safe ways of holding people's necks, some ways are very dangerous and other ways much safer.

Make sure you have agreed a signal when she wants to tap out out as she may not be talk in those circumstances. "

I think she'll be fine if he's holding rather than squeezing

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

And pressures the carotid artery and vein at the same time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, play safe people. Life is too short!

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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

I was looking for erotic advice rather than health but thanks amyway

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn


"Be careful meeting random kiwis off the internet"

That is in really really bad taste. Shame on you.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"I was looking for erotic advice rather than health but thanks amyway "

Honestly, the advice is in good faith, breath play counts as edge play, I.e it is risky play. Therefore when edge play is used for erotic play it is strongly suggested you understand the safety aspects, and this goes for such fun play as whips,pressure points, candle wax ropes and floggers.

With the recent high profile cases it is best to learn the lesson from others than become a lesson to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have her lie on her back and hang her head backward over the end of the bed. It's a lot safer than choking and has a similar effect..

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